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Judy54 Wed 02-Dec-20 13:36:51

Where do you stand on this Dodledog Would you sell your first born child into slavery? Where is your line in the sand and what influences your attitude to compliance? Where do you sit on a moral compass? Let's explore your attitudes first and then perhaps we might have something to discuss/debate.

Jane10 Wed 02-Dec-20 13:25:52

As ever. It depends who is telling people to do whatever it is.

MissAdventure Wed 02-Dec-20 13:22:29

I tend to be quite black and white in my thinking, although perhaps a bit less than I used to be.

I think people should do as they're told, as a rule, just because it's easier and less stressful, generally.

Doodledog Wed 02-Dec-20 13:13:16

Kate1949

We're not doing as we're told here. We are following the advice given.

Ok then. If the advice given were to hand in your child to be sold into slavery, would you do that?

The sense is the same, surely? The question is about when people's own moral code kicks in, in spite of laws, advice or anything else. It is a general point, specifically not about Covid, in case that wasn't clear.

Luckygirl, it is a discussion point, which is not intended to 'get us anywhere' other than to pass the time. It is extrapolative, yes - but that was to use an example which is so far from likely as to be ridiculous, and to allow freedom of thought that is not tied to a particular scenario. Obviously if you think it is 'nonsense', feel free to ignore.

Kate1949 Wed 02-Dec-20 12:49:34

We're not doing as we're told here. We are following the advice given.

Luckygirl Wed 02-Dec-20 12:47:47

This sort of extrapolative nonsense does not get us anywhere.

Urmstongran Wed 02-Dec-20 12:44:48

I don’t like the word ‘should’.
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I find it bossy. ‘Could’ is nicer!

EllanVannin Wed 02-Dec-20 11:36:38

My mind's too busy to bother about what others do or don't do.

Doodledog Wed 02-Dec-20 11:20:35

There are comments on so many threads saying that people 'should just do as they are told', 'obey the rules' etc, which made me wonder where people's boundaries would lie.

To use an extreme example and create a continuum, what if 'the rules' said that it would be better for society as a whole if all first-born children were sold into slavery, and we all had to take them to a central point so that this could be organised. Would you hand over your children or grandchildren? Would you report a neighbour if you knew that they were not complying, or ask 'what people don't understand' about the rules?

I'm guessing that most of us would draw the line long before that, so where is your own line in the sand, and what influences your attitude to compliance? Is it when your loved ones start to be affected? When you see other people doing something, so feel obliged to 'play fair' and share their pain? When you realise that the neighbours are watching you and you feel embarrassed in case you are judged? As soon as the government issue a decree, as they were voted in, and it is the law? Or something else entirely?

Do you make up your own mind about where you sit on a moral compass, and if so, do you feel that the state has a right to penalise people for sticking to their principles? What about possible reprisals if the government changes and the next one brings charges against those who were 'only obeying orders'? Would they be fair?

I realise that there are a lot of questions in there, but I wanted to leave it as open as possible, so that the thread does not become another about the virus - it would be interesting to explore attitudes without bringing the discussion back to Covid - there are plenty of other threads about that smile.