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Who knows the secret to buying a comfy bra online?

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Nonogran Wed 06-Jan-21 17:15:26

Holy grail of bras? At last count I had 47 perfectly good bras in the drawer but only find around 6 of them comfy enough to wear all day. How sad is that.
I'm a bit like those young men who do the rounds of local pubs looking for the perfect pie! My hoarding friend said "at least there's something you hoard!" I suppose you could look at it like that.
Watching this post, like others, with interest!

MawBe Wed 06-Jan-21 17:14:30

Liz46 Wed 06-Jan-21 14:11:54
I use a net bag with a zip in case a wire comes out

I was trying to imagine that Liz when I realised you didn’t mean that you wear it! grin grin .

silverlining48 Wed 06-Jan-21 17:09:28

A comfy bra is an oxymoron. grin

Hetty58 Wed 06-Jan-21 16:59:07

I just don't wear them these days - so much easier. I now wonder why on Earth I put up with all that discomfort.

All I have, for 'special occasions' only are some comfy 'home made' ones.

Simply stitch the front of a bra into a tight-fitting cotton tank vest. Cut off the straps and back.

Nanna58 Wed 06-Jan-21 16:50:56

Slightly off topic but can anyone explain why bras for us busty ladies cost more than small sizes? If we buy a dress a size16 is the same price as an 8 _ !

Genty Wed 06-Jan-21 16:46:51

I have a jd williams catalogue and order 6 styles of bra, 2 of each one, pick the one that fits best and return the rest as its free returns. I usually buy glamorise bras, but they are getting really expensive, what annoys me is I find a comfy bra then when I decide to buy new ones the style I want is no longer made.

Elizabeth1 Wed 06-Jan-21 16:41:02

I’m never going to buy an underwire bra ever again they are so uncomfortable I just order several from NEXT then try them on at home and if they don’t fit they go right back without any fuss.

lemongrove Wed 06-Jan-21 16:39:31

It’s the Holy Grail of underwear isn’t it??
I find M&S fine for me, but always try them on before buying.
I shall have to hang on and not buy any more until things are safer/change completely.
I don’t buy any that are underwired though, and they must be lacy.

Calendargirl Wed 06-Jan-21 16:35:57

Liz46

I used to find BHS bras good but I only have one, very worn out, one left. Surely whoever made these for BHS must be supplying someone else?

I was a fan of the BHS plain white cotton, no wires, no padding, bra. Cheap and cheerful, but just right for my 34A chest.

Got a couple of M&S ones, not as good, but even they have disappeared from the website. Will soon need new ones, dreading it.

Kate1949 Wed 06-Jan-21 16:17:28

I too use Bravissimo. They also sell swimwear, dresses and tops etc some of which are lovely.

Liz46 Wed 06-Jan-21 16:12:53

I used to find BHS bras good but I only have one, very worn out, one left. Surely whoever made these for BHS must be supplying someone else?

Lucylastic Wed 06-Jan-21 16:01:52

Being rather well-endowed, I find Panache bras both supportive and comfortable. I was buying them from a Bravissimo store but since lockdown I now order them online from JD Williams. I usually buy several bras in various cup sizes to ensure best fit.
They occasionally do free delivery but returns are always free and very straightforward.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 06-Jan-21 16:01:19

Another vote here for Bravissimo, easy to use website, and helpful folks to speak to either online chat or on the phone.

gangy5 Wed 06-Jan-21 15:46:03

Recently a friend gave me a catalogue from Bravissimo. Firstly, I must say that I did know my proper size as discovered when a few years back I was measured up at Rigby and Peller of Mayfair.
I have already bought one which is perfect and have just ordered another 2 different designs. They are easily returned (free) and money speedily refunded. There is much telephone and online help with regard to size and fitting.
I was keen to find bras that were reasonably priced as the updated price on my original ones was over £80.
I don't think it permissible to actually give you a website link on here but of course there is one.

Iam64 Wed 06-Jan-21 15:44:29

I loathe wearing bra's. Lockdown has been a bad thing because often I just don't bother. I found a good sports bra, I think triumph that was comfortable and provided a bit of support. It wore out. I'm another watching this thread
M&S bra's just don't fit me. I've found one brand that does, or it did but no longer

YorkLady Wed 06-Jan-21 15:16:13

I ordered three bras from M&S a few months ago. All in my usual size, only one fit !!
It’s a minefield trying to get one without going out and trying on..

Liz46 Wed 06-Jan-21 14:11:54

I use a net bag with a zip in case a wire comes out.

I have no idea how to buy a comfy bra and am currently 'flopping' so I will watch this thread with interest.

cornishpatsy Wed 06-Jan-21 13:40:14

Comfy for one is not for others so recommendations are not going to help.

M&S for me but only certain styles. Today the under wire has come out in the washing machine so am hoping that style are still available and I will have to get machine repaired.

M&S have such a variety that you could order a dozen from there and send back what you do not like.

mrsba Wed 06-Jan-21 13:36:14

I hate bra shopping and now the shops are closed I have no idea how to buy. I usually spend hours trying on, after being measured,( and often end up with a totally different size to what I was first told!) The last one I bought without being able to try on has been changed 3 times and now sits in my 'charity bag' I can't afford to waste money on things that don't fit. I have some comfy 'crop' top bras which are ok under winter woollies, but need more support and a better shape for thinner clothes. Help please.