Never really understood what people meant when they asked what we SAHM's did when children started school.
My days were so much longer than my hubbies. Would start much earlier than anyone else in the family, to ensure that brekkie was ready for them as I chased them out of bed, then, getting them all properly (supervised whilst primary aged) washed, and dressed., Did the long hair of my daughters. Checked list I kept next to front door as to what each needed to take that day to school, (recorder, PE clothes, etc. etc.). Got them all out of the door and off to school. Somewhere, in between I would have piled them all into the car so that I could drive hubbie to drop off at nearest station.
Once they were all gone (assuming there were no foster babies to need bathing, etc.), would have a very quick cup of tea and then down to work. Lots of beds to tidy (even with duvets, which they all had- thank goodness no sheets and blankets), tidying up their bedrooms, somehow each day it looked like nobody had done this for months!! Check that ALL yesterdays clothes were in the washing basket, not on the floor in their rooms - start on washing, usually two loads a day, Run vaccuum cleaner over their bedroom floors.
Wash up breakfast things and start on preparation for the meal that evening. Hang out washing (if suitable weather). Collapse in heap over a quick lunch. Somewhere along the line would usually discover that at least one of them had
left something they needed at school at home, so out to take that to the school. Iron yesterdays washing.
Most weeks, at least one of them would need collecting early from school for appointment (eg: dentist, etc).
Do some baking . Sort out who needed to be taken to where for what that evening (gymnastics, swimming, music lesson, etc). Put folded clothes for following day in their rooms.
Usually managed to finish daily routine about an hour before it was time to go school to collect them - this was my time and would often pop round to a friend for a very quick chat and cup of coffee. Then off to school, pick up, and drop off at appropriate places.
Home, see if there was any problems any of them had during the day at school (argued with bestie, etc). supervise homework and such things as music practice - make them tea, stopped squabbling - collect child/children from their after-school activity - get them all bathed, ready for bed, ensuring Hubbie and mine supper was cooking. Bed time stories for those of primary school age.
By the time hubbie got home and we had our supper and washed up I was pretty exhausted - last thing was to lay table for breakfast for the following day - and fall into bed.
Of course, if any of them were unwell - I would have them with at home during the day and usually have them to sleep in our room at night.
In between all of this I was Chair of the PTA at the primary school, tried to attend some evening classes to keep my own mind working, acted as Breast Feeding Counsellor for NCT, set and ran local Twins Club - and then the National one. Was also secretary of the Foster Parents group for the borough for whom we mainly fostered.
Whenever anyone did one of those questonnaires and asked what I did - and tried to put down Unemployhed or the like I insisted that they wrote in 'Full-time Mother'. To me it was a very full-time, albeit enjoyable and fulfulling job - just did not get financial reward for it.