There is no way I would consider living in any other house than a detached one! I have had lifelong issues with sensitivity to noise, and discovered in 2004 that I have Asperger's Syndrome - this came about after my son, who was then a child, was diagnosed with the same condition! Also, I am not a very sociable person, and I absolutely hate the noise that other people make when they have visitors or parties! I have spent my whole life being socially distant from others because of my problems and have always done my level best to avoid all social events where there is likely to be consumption of alcohol and therefore, noise! I used to go out and walk the streets when my parents had visitors! These days, I go out in my car, often for hours and have even stayed out overnight!
My mother once said when I was a child that only a house in a field would suit me - she wasn't wrong!
In the last couple of years, I have had the misfortune to have to be admitted to hospital, and on both occasions, I was forced to discharge myself, as the other patients and the noise drove me off my trolley!
These days, with Covid, it's much easier to keep myself socially distant from others, which suits me just fine! I enjoy the company of my dog and 2 cats far more than the company of most people! I am nearly 64 now, so not much chance of me changing! I never got any help or support after I was diagnosed, unlike my son who has had lots of help over the years! However, my son doesn't like noisy social events either, but he does have much better coping skills than I do!
Good Morning Friday 19th April 2024
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