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What makes a good friend?

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TrendyNannie6 Sat 30-Jan-21 14:54:15

A good friend to me is someone that will listen and give their opinion, loyal, not necessarily speaking everyday, although me and my friends do, I have friends from way back, some haven’t seen for several years, but we are always there for each other regardless what happens, agree to disagree sometimes, I hold my friends in high regard, laugh and cry together too

keepingquiet Sat 30-Jan-21 17:05:53

Good friends are like gold I agree. I am still friends with two women I was at secondary school with. We are incredibly close. Recently I moved back to my home town and looked up a friend I hadn't seen since my teenage years. At first it was great to have someone to go out with but lately she has shown her true colours and I don't trust her at all. Like all relationships, friendships have to be worked on. Some people are just not worth the effort but others I cannot imagine life without.

Tangerine Sat 30-Jan-21 17:18:00

Someone who knows the meaning of keeping something confidential perhaps.

Mutual support, not just during fun times.

I have half a dozen very good friends. They can rely on me and I can rely on them. We do all live in the same county but in different towns.

I don't tell people all my business and poke my nose into their business and I think this stops a lot of falling out that some people experience.

kittylester Sat 30-Jan-21 17:27:54

I think a good friend is someone you can open up to and know they will keep your confidence.

Greenfinch Sat 30-Jan-21 18:18:52

Yes, a good friend is someone who listens intently to what you have to say and not someone who has his/her own agenda and is waiting to have their say.
It is someone who is really interested in you and does not judge.

Galaxy Sat 30-Jan-21 18:28:13

My closest friend once told me that I was behaving badly, she knew she was telling me something I didnt want to hear but did it anyway because she cared about me. Thst was years ago and I have never forgotten it, it's one of the reasons I am so fond of her.

Redhead56 Sat 30-Jan-21 18:37:25

A good friend is someone who I trust and I am comfortable with. I can be rather direct don’t mince my words but I am kind and sensitive. My friends go back a long way they are very like me down to earth but without the temper.

J52 Sat 30-Jan-21 18:56:41

All of the above characteristics, but also forgiving. It works on both sides and we all have off days.