That did make me laugh. Does anyone still actually go to finishing schools? In my head they were generally for deb-type girls - perhaps the female equivalent of Tim Nice But Dim - whose only idea of a career was being married, being able to cook Cordon Bleu for dinner parties and do the flowers beautifully.
Not long ago my dd1 lamented the fact that she’d never learned to knit, and so was unable to help Gdd 5, who wanted to learn. Why hadn’t I taught her?
Er, she had no memory of getting so cross and frustrated that she couldn't master In, Over, Through, Off, in 10 minutes, that she threw needles and wool right across the room!
She never had any patience with anything fiddly. Sewing the regulation school cookery apron was another nightmare - I ended up doing most of it and was very naffed off to get only a C+ - ‘Neatness and accuracy are 2 skills which you must practice (sic)’!