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Daughter’s astonishing comment!

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Franbern Sun 28-Feb-21 09:12:55

My youngest daughter (46 yrs old), has many strange 'memories' of things that happened in her childhood. None remembered by any of her siblings!!!!

EllanVannin Sun 28-Feb-21 09:09:14

Mainly in those who were born in the early to mid 80's. Unusual for such behaviour in those born before.

Sara1954 Sun 28-Feb-21 09:07:41

One of our daughters became involved with the most vile man, we absolutely couldn’t stand him, but she was absolutely resolute, she threw up her career for him, and she wouldn’t hear a word against him.
Fast forward, it’s all come to a very unpleasant end, and she says, you must have noticed he was awful, why on earth didn’t you warn me!

Witzend Sun 28-Feb-21 09:05:11

That did make me laugh. Does anyone still actually go to finishing schools? In my head they were generally for deb-type girls - perhaps the female equivalent of Tim Nice But Dim - whose only idea of a career was being married, being able to cook Cordon Bleu for dinner parties and do the flowers beautifully.

Not long ago my dd1 lamented the fact that she’d never learned to knit, and so was unable to help Gdd 5, who wanted to learn. Why hadn’t I taught her?
Er, she had no memory of getting so cross and frustrated that she couldn't master In, Over, Through, Off, in 10 minutes, that she threw needles and wool right across the room!

She never had any patience with anything fiddly. Sewing the regulation school cookery apron was another nightmare - I ended up doing most of it and was very naffed off to get only a C+ - ‘Neatness and accuracy are 2 skills which you must practice (sic)’!

Gingster Sun 28-Feb-21 09:00:39

They only remember what suits them ??

kittylester Sun 28-Feb-21 08:56:31

Thought they were built like that!!

Calendargirl Sun 28-Feb-21 08:55:22

All of them do.

Missfoodlove Sun 28-Feb-21 08:51:10

Our daughter is now in her thirties, has a had good career and is now loving being at home with her two young children.

She was a very difficult,strong willed and opinionated teenager.

She refused to go to the school we wanted her to attend and chose to attend a school that was limiting in its opportunities as it wasn’t was full of “spoilt rich kids”.

Last night I had to talk her through threading up a sewing machine, she said.........did you and Dad never consider sending me to finishing school? I would have loved it, they teach you to sew, upholster and perfect all types of pastry.

I said nothing.

Do other gransnetters have children with short memories?