Sometimes when I read things on this thread I think I am living in a parallel universe. In mine there are two people I don't know who made a TV programme 2 hours long that I watched while doing a jigsaw. I have no idea if they were telling the truth or not. I have little interest. They have no relevance to my real life,anymore than the family they have left. I listened and drew conclusions from what they said.
The other universe GNers seem to inhabit is one where they have personal involvement with the couple, know exactly what happened, all their faults and, who did and said what and when, who is lying and who is being manipulated. The grounds for this knowledge seems often to be personal experience.
All I can think is it's a bt like me watching my DGS dig a hole in my back garden and then initiating a CSI investigation because I've come to the conclusion that there is a body buried there.
Reality has become irrelevant.
Quik question (daughter w new baby)


