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Drag artists - am I the only one who doesn't find them funny?

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seamstress Sat 13-Mar-21 16:11:28

With a number of high profile Drag Queen shows I am wondering if I am the only one who thinks these are almost akin to white artists' "blacking up". They look nothing like real women- grotesque, in fact. I find them bordering on the offensive to women and not remotely funny. I know I don't have to watch them - but I wonder if anyone could tell me why they are popular?

Pantglas2 Sat 13-Mar-21 16:16:10

I’m not keen either and have never been able to say why but now that you mention it, there are undertones as you say in your opening sentence.

Chestnut Sat 13-Mar-21 16:16:42

I feel the same. They creep me out. The only one who ever made me laugh was Dame Edna, and for some reason I never minded her dressing up! I loved that she could get away with saying things that no-one else could, and somehow it never came across as offensive.

AGAA4 Sat 13-Mar-21 16:17:13

I don't like them either seamstress but many must do as there seem to be more of them on tv these days.
I wonder who likes them more men or women?

nadateturbe Sat 13-Mar-21 16:18:59

Not my idea of entertainment but each to his own.

Doodledog Sat 13-Mar-21 16:26:16

I agree with the consensus. Dame Edna (and to some extent Lily Savage) were funny because they were using the persona to satirise the dynamic between the sexes - men as well as women, but I don't find the likes of Ru Paul funny at all.

Ilovecheese Sat 13-Mar-21 16:29:34

I don't find them funny either, but I once saw Foo Foo Lamarr give a very good performance in The Rocky Horror Show.

Mollygo Sat 13-Mar-21 16:35:10

Dame Edna made me laugh. Never saw much of Lily Savage.
Chestnut creeps me out is how I feel too. In terms of men/women liking it, neither my DH nor DD1 and husband like it. So that’s 2 men 2 women.
My GD (who’s old enough to watch) thinks “they’re grotesque and their makeup is ridiculous”.
Undoubtedly we'll be seeing more of them.?

Chestnut Sat 13-Mar-21 16:38:52

There is an Australian drag queen called Courtney Act, and she is actually very beautiful both as a man or a woman. I would not go out of my way to watch her but she is not hideous like most of them.

Grandma70s Sat 13-Mar-21 16:40:31

Danny La Rue had a certain charm, I think. Dame Edna is funny because we aren’t expected for a moment to see her (him?) as female.

Interesting that there are are no high-profile male impersonators these days, such as Vesta Tilley in the late 19th/early 29th century. I wonder why that is.

None of them would be my choice of entertainment.

NellG Sat 13-Mar-21 16:49:03

I'm not a fan, but understand it to be an expressive art form. I think the comfort angle can be eased if it's thought of as people expressing their being through traditionally female means, ie make up, colour, clothes and performance - rather than seeing what they do as a parody of women. In short, it's not about shaming women, it's about celebrating the expressive part of themselves.

trisher Sat 13-Mar-21 16:50:39

I think they are like any other performers. Some of them are really gorgeous- Ru Paul for example, some of them are hideous, some of them are funny, some aren't. I don't see how you can lump them all together.
Women can drag up as well.

suziewoozie Sat 13-Mar-21 16:52:08

I agree with most posters - Nell I think your analysis is too generous and sidelines the impact they have on women and thus women themselves But then, that’s what we’re used to as women

Chestnut Sat 13-Mar-21 16:55:23

I see them in the same category as clowns, and I don't like them either. I'm not keen on anything where a person's face is covered or disguised. So many young women now look exactly the same because of make-up, botox and surgery, you think they have come off a Barbie production line.

Missfoodlove Sat 13-Mar-21 16:56:53

Not funny.
I’ve never got Mrs Brown either.

GreyKnitter Sat 13-Mar-21 16:57:45

They’re def not for me! Really don’t like them at all.

NellG Sat 13-Mar-21 17:02:26

SW Maybe, but I don't tend to feel threatened by other people's artistic self expression so can't toot the horn for that particular bandwagon I'm afraid. I think women have bigger fish to fry than worrying about people in garish frocks and too much makeup. I use the word people because women do it too.

timetogo2016 Sat 13-Mar-21 17:03:23

Agree 100% seamstress.
I just do not get them.
Never found them funny or entertaining,the total opposite actually.

suziewoozie Sat 13-Mar-21 17:06:08

NellG

SW Maybe, but I don't tend to feel threatened by other people's artistic self expression so can't toot the horn for that particular bandwagon I'm afraid. I think women have bigger fish to fry than worrying about people in garish frocks and too much makeup. I use the word people because women do it too.

I don’t feel threatened either but I think they do women a disservice and are part of the overall problem.

NellG Sat 13-Mar-21 17:12:20

suziewoozie

NellG

SW Maybe, but I don't tend to feel threatened by other people's artistic self expression so can't toot the horn for that particular bandwagon I'm afraid. I think women have bigger fish to fry than worrying about people in garish frocks and too much makeup. I use the word people because women do it too.

I don’t feel threatened either but I think they do women a disservice and are part of the overall problem.

In what ways?

Doodledog Sat 13-Mar-21 17:16:32

I don't think anyone is worrying about them - the question was why they are popular, and people have explained which ones they have found funny and which they haven't.

I think that their being like clowns is an interesting one - taking characteristics to extremes for comic intent. On the whole I don't find that sort of humour appealing, but I'm not a fan of clowns either.

I agree with Chestnut that Courtney Act is gorgeous. I don't know of anyone saw her in Celebrity BB a while ago - it was clear from that that she is also intelligent and emotionally aware. I don't think that Courtney is a 'drag queen' in the same sense as some, though - she doesn't parody women at all - in fact many would love to look as good as she does grin.

adaunas Sat 13-Mar-21 17:18:55

Not for me at all.
Seamstress, it is a bit reminiscent of ‘blacking up’, which became unacceptable. This time though they’re parodying women and that’s evidently OK.

Sarnia Sat 13-Mar-21 17:19:05

They are not my cup of tea but drag artists are winning an growing audience.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 13-Mar-21 17:25:53

My parents had pubs/restaurants throughout my childhood, in one there was entertainment on a Sunday lunchtime, which ended up usually being a drag act .

These were some of the kindest, gentlest and funniest men, I was fascinated by watching them transform, they also taught me a lot about make-up and the importance of always removing every single bit of it.

Drag is an art form and like all art forms it divides opinion.

NellG Sat 13-Mar-21 17:27:43

I think they are worrying if there is a feeling of 'black face' and offence about what they do Doodledog. In 2021 anything that invites that type of comparison has to be hitting a nerve. So not sure it's me who needs the flavour of the OP explained to them.