It was for a lovely chap in his late 80s, a (not close) relative by marriage of dh.
He was an atheist and very much opposed to any fuss. There were only 5 of us and there was no service at all. Since we so rarely see the others dh thought it’d be nice to take a bottle of wine and nibbles to share in a socially distanced manner afterwards.
However it was pouring with rain, so the relative who’d organised it said why not take it all in, so we rearranged the chairs and had a mini party where 2 of them read out fond reminiscences of him, and we raised glasses to him in his coffin.
We thought he’d have approved entirely, and the crem staff and undertakers apparently thought it was a lovely way to do it, too.
Another assassination attempt on Donald Trump
