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How to stop this guy from parking across our drive

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Itsawelshthing Sat 15-May-21 12:14:36

I've been in my new house for just over a week now and already having issues. A car has blocked my car in by parking across the driveway on a dropped kerb. I left it first day, he parked there all morning and afternoon. But now he has parked there again and been there all morning and doesn't look like he is going to move and I need to get out of my drive to go shopping.

I know who it belongs to but I am scared of knocking on the door to ask him not to park there as it is stopping me from getting out but because he is quite a big lad and my husband and I really don't want any trouble with the neighbours.

I'm already getting very stressed about it but he clearly doesn't give a crap about where he parks. I don't want to ring the police or anything so how would you approach someone who may get very defensive and start causing problems? I'm so upset that we've moved into our own home and we are already encoutering issues.

DiscoDancer1975 Wed 19-May-21 16:17:35

I’m just glad to see the OP is obviously feeling better. In her last post , she’d had a stomach bug which was causing her much anxiety. That..and the fact she’s only 28 I think, may have contributed to her being unable to deal with this.

Glad it’s all better for you Itsawelshthing

DiscoDancer1975 Wed 19-May-21 16:19:06

Last thread not post

Battersea1971 Wed 19-May-21 17:15:43

I agree with others that you must just knock on his door and ask politely if he would move his car as you need to get out. Maybe the people who lived there before you didnt have a car and he hasnt realised. I cant believe he would deliberately block you in.

Lucca Wed 19-May-21 17:19:49

With you on that Aggie. Why do people just read the Thread opening post then go straight to their own comment!???

I looked out of curiosity to see how many more pages with the same advice would appear

crazyH Wed 19-May-21 17:21:03

Glad problem has been solved and thanks for returning and informing - many don't .....

songstress60 Wed 19-May-21 17:40:42

I have this problem constantly. I live near the shops and since there is a parking fee we often have shoppers parking in our cul-de-sac. My notes are none too polite as they are breaking the law. I always take a photo of them as one idiot threatened me with the police. Leave a note and take photos. Don't be soft with this person as they are taking advantage. Assertiveness works every time.

Venus Wed 19-May-21 17:49:44

You could leave a polite note on his car. If that fails, you will just have to knock on the door and ask him nicely not to leave his car there as you need to keep your entrance free.

NotSpaghetti Wed 19-May-21 18:08:37

aggie

YOOO HOOO THIS PROBLEM HAS BEEN RESOLVED SEVERAL PAGES BACK

THANK YOOOOOOOO

Yessss! This is resolved -at least for now.

moggie57 Wed 19-May-21 18:36:03

I would drop a note through his door asking politely if he could park somewhere else as you can't get out your drive.if he fails to do this .do you have a community police person? or you could get a parking warden to come issue a ticket.

Grannygrumps1 Wed 19-May-21 19:12:28

Either park across your own driveway. And Or get two friends to park either side and block him so he can’t move...... just desserts.

Hetty58 Wed 19-May-21 19:41:28

I have a different but related problem. A neighbour often parks across my drive - and I really don't mind as I don't have a car. He will always move it if I have visitors with cars.

My problem is my next door neighbour, complaining about me 'letting' him do it, saying she can't see to get out. (I think she can see perfectly well, just wants to back out by turning across my drive.)

The first time she moaned, I asked him to move it. The second time, I told her to just go and speak to him herself. She seemed upset by my attitude.

MerylStreep Wed 19-May-21 19:48:44

moggie57

I would drop a note through his door asking politely if he could park somewhere else as you can't get out your drive.if he fails to do this .do you have a community police person? or you could get a parking warden to come issue a ticket.

It’s sorted!!!

MerylStreep Wed 19-May-21 19:49:18

Grannygrumps1

Either park across your own driveway. And Or get two friends to park either side and block him so he can’t move...... just desserts.

It’s sorted!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MerylStreep Wed 19-May-21 19:49:51

Venus

You could leave a polite note on his car. If that fails, you will just have to knock on the door and ask him nicely not to leave his car there as you need to keep your entrance free.

It’s sorted !!!!!!!!!

lemongrove Wed 19-May-21 20:14:35

What’s that you say? It’s been sorted??

welbeck Wed 19-May-21 20:24:59

TrendyNannie6

I don’t understand how his size has anything to do with the problem, just knock on the door and politely ask him to move his car as he’s blocking you in,

have you never felt intimidated by anyone; of course size is relevant.

welbeck Wed 19-May-21 20:27:46

songstress60

I have this problem constantly. I live near the shops and since there is a parking fee we often have shoppers parking in our cul-de-sac. My notes are none too polite as they are breaking the law. I always take a photo of them as one idiot threatened me with the police. Leave a note and take photos. Don't be soft with this person as they are taking advantage. Assertiveness works every time.

couldn't you call parking control in that situation;
the best deterrent is a penalty notice.

MerylStreep Wed 19-May-21 20:29:48

Lemongrove
Brilliant ?
Do you think I’m getting through, yet? I’m not giving up. I will get through to people who DONT READ THE BLOODY THREAD.

MerylStreep Wed 19-May-21 20:30:25

welbeck

songstress60

I have this problem constantly. I live near the shops and since there is a parking fee we often have shoppers parking in our cul-de-sac. My notes are none too polite as they are breaking the law. I always take a photo of them as one idiot threatened me with the police. Leave a note and take photos. Don't be soft with this person as they are taking advantage. Assertiveness works every time.

couldn't you call parking control in that situation;
the best deterrent is a penalty notice.

ITS SORTED !!!!!!!

MawBe Wed 19-May-21 20:32:25

??????????

Corkie91 Wed 19-May-21 20:47:46

Knock and politely and ask him to move saying you need to get out. Keep doing it politely Hopefully he will stop parking there

Grannybags Wed 19-May-21 20:52:33

Keep going Meryl!!!

welbeck Wed 19-May-21 20:55:37

MerylStreep

welbeck

songstress60

I have this problem constantly. I live near the shops and since there is a parking fee we often have shoppers parking in our cul-de-sac. My notes are none too polite as they are breaking the law. I always take a photo of them as one idiot threatened me with the police. Leave a note and take photos. Don't be soft with this person as they are taking advantage. Assertiveness works every time.

couldn't you call parking control in that situation;
the best deterrent is a penalty notice.

ITS SORTED !!!!!!!

i shall reserve the right to make what may be helpful suggestions, inc to other readers, if that's alright with you.
i thought this was a discussion forum.
or do i have to put my hand up first.

JaneJudge Wed 19-May-21 21:13:09

The big muscly neighbour, he's so large !! has told me it isn't sorted and he intends to park in front of the drive tomorrow

MerylStreep Wed 19-May-21 21:15:42

Corkie91

Knock and politely and ask him to move saying you need to get out. Keep doing it politely Hopefully he will stop parking there

ITS BEEN SORTED!!!!!!!!!!!