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How to stop this guy from parking across our drive

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Nannashirlz Sat 15-May-21 12:27:25

Just go knock on the door and say hi I’m such and such we’ve just moved in and we can’t get our car out any chance you can move your car thanks lol did you not watch Corrie don’t judge a person by their looks he’s probably just a big teddy bear at heart.

H1954 Sat 15-May-21 12:20:50

I would go and knock on his door and politely ask him to move his car to enable you to exit your drive. Don't be confrontational though.
In future, get your own vehicle out into the road as soon as you are up in the morning and leave it there all day, he will soon get the message.

Grandmabatty Sat 15-May-21 12:20:26

You are going to have to speak to him regardless of his size. He's blocking you in. Introduce yourself first. Be polite and ask him to move his car please as you need to get out. I had a similar issue with someone blocking me in (a grandma at the house opposite) The first time I was friendly and polite. The second time I was stone faced. It's never happened since. Good luck.

Itsawelshthing Sat 15-May-21 12:20:19

Okay! I know I need to put my big pants on lol but my worry is, is he going to keep on doing it and can I simply ask him not to do it again? Driving me insane why can't they just use their heads.

Buffybee Sat 15-May-21 12:19:03

Perhaps the previous owner had let this person park there and he hasn't noticed new people have moved in.
As long as you are polite and tell him you need to get your car out of your drive, I can't see any reason why he should be aggressive.
Just do it now!!

geekesse Sat 15-May-21 12:18:50

You really have three options.
1. Ask him not to park there.
2. Notify the police. Get photos, dates and times so you can prove it.
3. Put up with the inconvenience.

If you are too scared to do (1) and unwilling to do (2), then (3) is all that is left.

midgey Sat 15-May-21 12:18:25

Big girl pants and knock on the door, just ask politely. No need to fall out!

Itsawelshthing Sat 15-May-21 12:14:36

I've been in my new house for just over a week now and already having issues. A car has blocked my car in by parking across the driveway on a dropped kerb. I left it first day, he parked there all morning and afternoon. But now he has parked there again and been there all morning and doesn't look like he is going to move and I need to get out of my drive to go shopping.

I know who it belongs to but I am scared of knocking on the door to ask him not to park there as it is stopping me from getting out but because he is quite a big lad and my husband and I really don't want any trouble with the neighbours.

I'm already getting very stressed about it but he clearly doesn't give a crap about where he parks. I don't want to ring the police or anything so how would you approach someone who may get very defensive and start causing problems? I'm so upset that we've moved into our own home and we are already encoutering issues.