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Seeing the world of a 3 year old.

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larry5 Wed 19-May-21 17:11:46

I was looking after my grandson this afternoon and he was desperate to go on a bus so Dh and I who have free bus passes took him on a 40 minute bus ride to our nearest town on the top deck of the bus.

He was so excited and talked all the way there telling me what he could see from the houses and the flowers and the best thing was the ambulance - he is obsessed with emergency vehicles. It was a lovely afternoon and so wonderful to be able to do such a simple outing with him.

We exhausted him so on the way home he went to sleep leaning on me. It was lovely to have some normality coming back.

hulahoop Wed 19-May-21 17:22:17

My Gc all got excited about going on the bus or train it's lovely to see and hear them seeing the world from different angles.

Maggiemaybe Wed 19-May-21 17:27:38

That sounds like a lovely afternoon, larry5. smile One of my grandsons was just the same at that age, and still at 5 or 6 a treat for him would be a bus ride. He’d ask to go on particular routes, usually ones that went to the most boring one-horse towns, so off we’d go. We’d usually find an ice cream on sale somewhere before heading back.

Isn’t it great that we can do these simple things again?

monk08 Wed 19-May-21 17:39:16

We were travelling back on the bus one day when the little girl in front aged about 3 said are we going on an adventure nanny. Now whenever we use the bus my husband says let's go on an adventure.

Callistemon Wed 19-May-21 17:43:27

What an exciting adventure for him, larry5 yet such a simple thing to do!

DGD had been on a bus a few days ago and described to me how much she'd been able to see compared to going in the car - it was so exciting she said.

When I grew up it was normal as we didn't have a car (I didn't tell her that).

EllanVannin Wed 19-May-21 17:50:09

It's so exciting at that age, how lovely that the young chap enjoyed himself so much. It's lovely to hear.

It was magic when I went on a train----years ago when it was steam and the clickety click of the wheels. Belle Vue zoo it was.

Chestnut Wed 19-May-21 17:56:07

Buses are such a novelty for young children who normally sit in a car. One of my grandsons was obsessed with buses aged 1 to 3 years and got very excited when he saw one! It was a great adventure every time we took one, and train rides too. They are so lovely at that age because everything is so new to them.

fairfraise Wed 19-May-21 17:56:48

It sounds a lovely day out.

Grandmabatty Wed 19-May-21 18:04:22

My two years old grandson loves buses and gets really excited when he sees any. Fortunately his grandad on his dad's side was a bus driver and he'll take him to town on the bus.

cornergran Wed 19-May-21 18:17:18

One of ours entertained the top deck of a bus with her questions. “why do people wave at the bus?”, “how do we make it stop when we want to get off?” “does that lady know we can see her in her bedroom?” On and on she went. She had such a fabulous time and couldn’t wait to tell her big sister all she had seen. Simple pleasures indeed.

GagaJo Wed 19-May-21 18:19:48

My 3 year old grandson is desperate to come and see me, on a plane. He knows I go to work on a plane and that I've been gone for a long time and he wants to come.

Breaks my heart when he asks.

larry5 Wed 19-May-21 18:45:23

I hope he gets to fly to you soon GagaJo as our grandchildren grow up so quickly and I know I wouldn’t want to go too long without seeing my grandson.

GagaJo Wed 19-May-21 18:59:50

I hopefully go home in 44 days. He'll have to wait a bit longer to fly. No hols this year, I don't think.

Rose30 Fri 21-May-21 10:41:48

I used to try and plan activities for my grandson but now follow his lead.
Last week I took him to the toy area of a charity shop where he spent a good 20 minutes and spent £4 on a Paw Patrol transformer and a cement mixture that he played with for the rest of the afternoon!

Witzend Fri 21-May-21 10:52:54

Our Gdcs so rarely go on buses, so it’s exciting for them - especially if they can sit upstairs.

When we next have them to stay (it’s been a long time) we’ll definitely be going on the bus into town, where there’s a large charity shop with lots of toys. I’ll let them choose one each - to be kept at our house since they have so many at home - especially if they’re plastic - dd doesn’t want any more of that in the house.
I well bet anybody a tenner now that Gdd (just 6) will choose a Barbie, assuming there are any! She already has lots - nearly all 2nd hand - but does play with them for hours.

silverlining48 Fri 21-May-21 11:03:12

That has reminded me when we did similar with our 3 year old grandson. He was so excited spotting all the tractors, lorries, ambulances and dustcarts. He sang (really loudly)the wheels on the bus to the amusement of the other passengers. We had such a lovely day.

hugshelp Fri 21-May-21 11:06:01

That's adorable. It's easy to forget how magical the ordinary world can be to a small child.

Blinko Fri 21-May-21 11:15:07

This brought back memories of taking our three GCs on a bus for the first time for them all. They were aged from three to five and thought it was a huge adventure. GD wanted to know why the bus kept stopping, and what happended if she were to press the button in front of her (the bell); GS2 saw another bus and shouted excitedly for the driver to overtake it. Great times indeed!

Deedaa Fri 21-May-21 11:23:12

I remember my SiL taking one of his boys for a bus ride. Such excitement!

My mother hated children asking questions and would never let me talk on a bus. She used to tell me the conductor would throw me off if I started talking. You can see why she only had one child!

pinkym Fri 21-May-21 11:25:09

Rose30

I used to try and plan activities for my grandson but now follow his lead.
Last week I took him to the toy area of a charity shop where he spent a good 20 minutes and spent £4 on a Paw Patrol transformer and a cement mixture that he played with for the rest of the afternoon!

My gc love a trip to Ikea, they love going into all the room settings, sitting on the chairs, looking in the drawers, they're entertained for hours! All rounded off with something to eat in the cafeteria!

missdeke Fri 21-May-21 11:31:55

My grandson now 10 still calls me bus nanny after I took him on a bus when he was 3, I didn't have a car at the time. Funny how times change, when I was a child it was so exciting to go anywhere in a car....

hazel93 Fri 21-May-21 11:37:50

GD - 3 later this year.
We were taking care of her one Sunday being in a "bubble " so decided to pop on the local "ferry", basically a fishing boat which traverses the river regularly. Would be her first time on water rather than in it.
All was well, from car to walk to the shore picking up shells etc. along the way.
Boat duly arrived and she dug in her wellies - no way was she getting on . After much coaxing off we went with me reassuring her and pointing out any and everything I thought may interest her. No response.
Eventually she said "Nanny, we swim in water we don't drive on it ".

Larsonsmum Fri 21-May-21 11:43:15

When our daughter was 3/4 years old and at playgroup we took all the children to a Wimpy in Aberdeen, (with Mr Wimpy in attendance), by train. The funny thing was that from the playgroup hall we Mums could have driven just 15 minutes and been in the city. Instead, going by train entailed us all driving 20 minutes in the opposite direction to get to a station first, then the 20 minute train journey, and a walk from the station, and of course the same return journey!! So worth it though as everyone of them was so excited to be on a train, (some for the first time), and my daughter still speaks fondly of that day, and she is 36 now!!

Rosyanne Fri 21-May-21 12:03:15

Took our 3 grandchildren on the Llangollen steam train from Corwen to Llangollen. So many different sights from the train and so many questions about the train and the carriages. Lunch in town then back again. Brilliant.

Urmstongran Fri 21-May-21 12:12:28

Plus children sing that sing ‘the wheels on the bus ...’ and as they more often go places by car it’s a real treat to be on a bus. We’ve promised our 4y old granddaughter a bus trip ‘soon’.

Whit half term holidays are coming up. It’ll be all about the journey, not so much the destination! She’s already reminded me twice that I’d said we’d go on one.