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Infinity2 Mon 12-Jul-21 23:09:36

The motto I’ve found most helpful to me in my life has been this -
Waste Not Fresh Tears Over Old Griefs.
( Euripides)
When I’m feeling sorry for myself and find my past mistakes and personal sorrows overwhelming me, this is what I say to myself to drown them out.
What is your personal motto that’s helped you in the tougher times of your life ?

Rufus2 Tue 27-Jul-21 13:25:52

Find out what you don't do well, then don't do it!

DanniRae Tue 27-Jul-21 08:04:38

"If it's meant for you it won't pass you by"

JackyB Tue 27-Jul-21 07:00:23

My DF always said "a job begun is half done". So true! Nothing ever seems so bad or takes so long once you've actually got down to it.

He also had the motto "a place for everything and everything in its place". This was either due to a very strict upbringing or being in submarines in the war.

Mine would be "least said, soonest mended". I've never actually put it into words, but when I think of the number of times I've just said nothing instead of arguing with someone or pointing out that what they have just said is poppycock, so it certainly fits. Everyone may think I am aimiable but inside I'm just thinking that they'll soon find out what an idiot they are.

Spice101 Tue 27-Jul-21 00:40:23

Perhaps not strictly a motto but along the lines.

Take time

Take time to laugh, it’s the music of the soul.

Take time to look around, it’s too short a day to be selfish.

Take time to dream, it’s like hitching your wagon to a star.

Take time to be friendly, it’s the road to happiness.

Take time to read, it’s the foundation of wisdom.

Take time to play, it’s the secret of youth.

Take time to think, it’s the source of power.

Take time to work, it’s the price of success.

Witzend Tue 27-Jul-21 00:25:38

Do as you would be done by.

A bit of dust never killed anybody.

And ‘You never see a tombstone saying, ‘Her oven was always beautifully clean.’ (I think I made that one up, though.)

Piskey Mon 26-Jul-21 15:01:01

Mine is ‘I’d hate to drop dead tonight, having had only a lettuce leaf for lunch’ after I’d watched friends, trying to stay super slim, exercising, drinking black coffee, Diet Coke and a whole lettuce with a few drops of dressing - virtually zero calories- boy, were they miserable

M0nica Tue 20-Jul-21 09:16:54

DanniRae as we say 'That's life'

Mollygo Tue 20-Jul-21 08:24:12

Yes DanniRae. That sums it up for me!?

DanniRae Tue 20-Jul-21 07:33:58

"Life is how it is ....... not how it should be."

MissAdventure Mon 19-Jul-21 22:18:35

If you worry, it happens.
If you don't worry, it still happens.
So why worry?

NotTooOld Mon 19-Jul-21 22:00:17

Today is the day we worried about yesterday and all is well. (My mum - I come from a long line of worriers!)

hollysteers Mon 19-Jul-21 21:19:07

Do the thing you don’t want to do first of all.
There’s a lid for every pot.

M0nica Mon 19-Jul-21 19:21:54

Celeste22, better still 'do a good by stealth and have it found out by accident'.smile

Celeste22 Mon 19-Jul-21 19:07:34

My Dad always said "try to do something good every day and not get found out"

Infinity2 Mon 19-Jul-21 16:32:07

MOnica - that’s a truly excellent motto. Encouraging young people to aim high and take the risk is brilliant !

M0nica Mon 19-Jul-21 10:37:43

That is not a motto, that is a human right. We are talking mottos.

Hilarybee Sun 18-Jul-21 12:27:12

No abuse. No physical,mental,sexual,financial etc etc

Youngatheart51 Sun 18-Jul-21 12:20:16

Also what goes around comes around & karma is a bitch!

Youngatheart51 Sun 18-Jul-21 12:16:27

Treat others how you like to be treated yourself & you attract more bees with honey than with vinegar.

DanniRae Fri 16-Jul-21 15:43:14

Infinity2

DanniRae - I like that. I’ve just copied it into my planner. ?

Thank you Infinity for your kind words - you have truly made my day smile

M0nica Fri 16-Jul-21 14:43:57

The worse that can happen is they will say no.

I said this to myself, my children and now DGC. To accept that if you aim high, you can fail, but it doesn't really matter, failure isn't the end of the world. Just keep aiming high

felice Fri 16-Jul-21 14:07:22

Mine's a glass of white Wine please, thank you.

silversand12 Fri 16-Jul-21 13:43:31

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened

Rufus2 Fri 16-Jul-21 13:37:19

A problem shared means that more than one person has a problem!

Mollygo Fri 16-Jul-21 13:03:16

Cymres1 and LindaPat
“If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all”
That’s what my Nan used to say too.
This year it’s been ‘This too shall pass’’.
The most useful one when I was applying for jobs was, ‘If you don’t get it, you’re meant for something better.’ At the time it was hard to believe, but it was right and I love my job.