FarNorth
GagaJo I believe you.
However, the current situation of instant acceptance of anyone's claim to be the opposite sex is already leading to problems.
It is not transphobic to recognise that.
This is how I see it.
The current insistence that men can self-ID as woman and be women with no questions asked is setting back the cause of transpeople massively.
Many people on here have said that they have no issue with people wanting to transition, but that they are uneasy about the encroachment of men into women's spaces. This does not make us transphobic, and attacking us as such does nothing to help the trans cause either.
It is not only on here that I see many left-leaning older feminists objecting to the way in which the patriarchy is pushing into women's lives and pushing women out of places where we once felt safe, and winning awards that we have fought to win as women, not as non-men.
The fact we are sidelined (and worse), whilst transmen are listened to and prioritised says a lot, and the fact that they are sometimes supported by women who see the needs of their own sex as secondary is disappointing.