Things I learnt from living overseas for years, many of them before air-conditioning became a regular thing:
I have a tepid shower just before bedtime, then leave my skin a bit damp and allow the water to evaporate off. I then lie on my bed, duvet pushed to one side, and lie very still. Lying still is the key, I find - I choose my most comfortable sleeping position and then quite consciously stay still to keep cool.
I close all windows and curtains upstairs during the day, and open them when it is cooler outside than inside. Before going to bed, I open all the upstairs doors so that there’s a little air movement between rooms and through windows. I have the window next to the bed wide open.
Last night, it was 19 degrees in my room, and I fell asleep within 10 mins and slept like a log. I don’t use a fan, and I don’t drink during the night.
I don’t suppose all that will work for everyone, but I throw it out as one way to deal with the heat at night.
Good Morning Monday 10th August 2026
Someone needs to go back to Junior School himself.
Unbearable grief compounded by our adult children’s reactions




