Notsooldat75
‘Widow’ for me ( I actually am one, too!)
Also ‘thigh’, ‘moist’ and people who start every sentence with ‘So….’
What I think is very wrong is how some official forms try to force widows and widowers to identify as single.
Where I worked for some time the rule was hat people were listed as Single or Married, but someone who was Widowed or Divorced could opt, if the person so chose, to be listed as Widowed or Divorced. That seemed to me a sensible and humane way to do things. Even if the widowed person gets exactly the same benefit as a person who has never married it would be humane to not try to force a widow to declare herself as single if she does not want to do so.



