Hurt by a friend

FarNorth

I guess that having a controlling partner has made your friend over-sensitive to this.
I'd be inclined to apologise for contacting her about being online, but say that her response was uncalled-for.

Spot on FarNorth

I guess that having a controlling partner has made your friend over-sensitive to this.
I'd be inclined to apologise for contacting her about being online, but say that her response was uncalled-for.

i couldn't understand who was who.
maybe if you'd labelled them, friend a, friend b, it would be easier to follow.
anyway, just go low contact if people stress you or are unfair or ungrateful.
sometimes it's not worth trying to sort everything out.
just re-direct attention and interest.
good luck.

I couldn’t let it go either Lollipoplove. Contact her when you’ve calmed down and talk it through. Don’t speak to her whilst you are angry.
I agree with Skydancer, it’s probably down to misunderstanding.

It's so easy to fall out with people out of misunderstandings. It has happened to me a couple of times. The speed of the internet means we are always in touch. Words can easily be misinterpreted. I'd just do nothing.

Hard to follow this! Don’t want to be unkind but it does sound a bit playground