It is very condescending to say that young mothers need to be told to use cloth instead of disposables, for several reasons:
1. Young or old, parents (mother and father) made the decisions for the kids
Yes, fathers do also change diapers now (gasp)
2. Disposables are not new. They have been available for decades and some posters have used them
3. Posters who are no longer active parents of kids on diapers have 0 input on what other parents do
You do not know their lifestyle, budget, etc.
Mind your own business
Live and let live
4. I adooooooore cloth diapers.
I do versions of cloth for everything I can at home
However, it is NOT cheap.
Cloth diapers are a HUGE investment up front and it is not for everyone
Disposables are so cheap nowadays that reusing cloth over and over again is no longer financially sound
Some parents are not willing to scrape the poop out of the cloth diapers before washing them - and it's ok!
Toleraring poopy hands daily is an skill.
Cloth diapers are also frowned upon these days as "unsanitary", been told that several times
UK has one of the lowest breastfeeding rates in the country - why not worry about formula, baby bottle waste, etc.
Bottom line - you parented your way with the resources available at your disposal.
Parents now do the same
Back off and stop judging