Seeing something neen posted on another thread has got me thinking. She said, about her grandchildren, I like the idea of smaller gifts throughout the year to make them smile. I see mine fairly regular and always post them a letter from time to time..
This is something I’ve always done and I think it’s really helped to cement the connection I have with my grandchildren. They love receiving letters, cards and gifts through the post and it gives us something to talk about.
I send my 11 year old grandson a book at least four times a year - and when he’s read it we chat about it (we’re both reading The Night Bus Hero just now because I accidentally ordered two copies). My six year old granddaughter in NZ is currently counting how many days it takes a letter ‘parcel’ to get from my town to hers. (Inside she’ll find a little fabric fairy with pretty bells and ribbons.) My three year old grandson has started to wear an eye patch every day and to encourage him I’ve sent him a 3D card of a little boy pirate with an eye patch.
The financial cost is not great and I know my grandchildren value the things I send to them because it creates lovely opportunities for us to talk/listen to each other, rather than for their intrinsic value.
Who else does this?
this week’s unaccountable ear worm


