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V3ra Tue 21-Sept-21 10:32:10

My daughter sent us a photo of our granddaughter in her new reception school uniform. I printed it out and made a "First Day at School," plus the date, card and posted it back to her ?

Neen Tue 21-Sept-21 08:25:54

JackyB I love the idea of photos of family on their first days at school too. How lovely .

JackyB Tue 21-Sept-21 08:15:49

I do this, too. I cut out puzzles from magazines or ideas for things to make and do and put these in a letter.

When DGS started school I sent pictures of her Dad, her granddad and me on our first days at school.

I got a letter from my DGS the other day saying that she would like to come and sleep here and play with her cousin (who lives nearer, so I don't write to them so much )

Recently two favourite German children's TV programmes had big anniversaries and had commemorative stamps issued so I always use those.

Now I have started sending 2 letters - one for the little sister who is 2 1/2.

V3ra Tue 21-Sept-21 00:32:59

I send my granddaughter little bits and pieces I think she'll like. Sometimes it's just a pack of stickers.
If I see something on Amazon I have it sent straight to her address. She loves checking the post to see who it's for!

Silverbridge Mon 20-Sept-21 23:08:34

I'm not a gran but I do this with godchildren and friends. I think spontaneous gifts are a lovely idea especially in this digital age. Now galleries and museums are open again, their gift shops are excellent places to pick up a small gift even if it's just a postcard. I usually carry a book size Jiffy bag in my handbag so I can post a small gift to someone wherever I happen to be. Saw this and thought of you. It usually prompts a phone call so a great way to stay in touch.

Neen Mon 20-Sept-21 23:08:26

Love this post. Not because you mentioned me but I love writing and drawing and posting to children and young adults and my own old school friends etc.
Two of the grandchildren now have pen pals too and they learn about the culture there.
Sometimes it may just be a special stone I found or picked up cheap to one of the grandchildren who collects gems / stones/ crystals and I'll pop a funny letter in.
One of my newer friends of about 5 or 6 years started writing to me when I had cancer and lived far apart, she carried it on through treatment and I loved those letters. We live nearer each other now where she'll pop for coffee but we still do that once a month letter as it was something we thought we would end when I got better but we put so much down on paper we carried it on.
Three of my grandchildren will watsapp video me and say Nannnnnny your recent letter with those drawings hahahaha and we'll have a giggle
Stamps aren't cheap but it's relaxing for me to do and hopefully nice for the recipient.
The art isn't lost, it just has to be brought to life again x

grannyactivist Mon 20-Sept-21 22:50:35

Seeing something neen posted on another thread has got me thinking. She said, about her grandchildren, I like the idea of smaller gifts throughout the year to make them smile. I see mine fairly regular and always post them a letter from time to time..

This is something I’ve always done and I think it’s really helped to cement the connection I have with my grandchildren. They love receiving letters, cards and gifts through the post and it gives us something to talk about.

I send my 11 year old grandson a book at least four times a year - and when he’s read it we chat about it (we’re both reading The Night Bus Hero just now because I accidentally ordered two copies). My six year old granddaughter in NZ is currently counting how many days it takes a letter ‘parcel’ to get from my town to hers. (Inside she’ll find a little fabric fairy with pretty bells and ribbons.) My three year old grandson has started to wear an eye patch every day and to encourage him I’ve sent him a 3D card of a little boy pirate with an eye patch.

The financial cost is not great and I know my grandchildren value the things I send to them because it creates lovely opportunities for us to talk/listen to each other, rather than for their intrinsic value.

Who else does this?