Why not do a try out for a few months first. Leave your car in the garage and use only public transport or your mobility scooter. If, at the end of this period you haven’t missed your car then go ahead and sell it.
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Giving up my car
(66 Posts)My parents never had a car, it was only after I was married and we purchased out first car (a mini traveller), that I learned to drive. Then I largely took over the family driving as my husband's disability made it difficult for him. Eventually he had a small adapted car, and the large family car was totally mine.
So, over the past fifty years I have always had a car at my disposal. Indeed, for many years I would even describe myself as a sort of tortoise - as I always felt much safer and happier once sitting in my car.
At 80-years old I still feel safe and secure when driving. My last 'accident' was over twenty years ago and that was proven to be totally the fault of the other younger driver.
When I lived in a London suburb I would be driving most days. However, having moved to North Somerset two years ago, I have found that I use my car very little. Chose my new home with care, close to public transport (bus and train station). My mobility scooter gets me around all my regular meet-ups and groups that I attend, to GP surgery, etc. Still use my car for weekly supermarket shop, but a bus going the three miles to that store actually stops right ourside my flats - so I could use that.
My excuse in keeping my car was that I would use if for
'long journeys' to visit my AC. Had a long weekend with one of them arranged for next weekend. 180 miles to his house.
Then the problem arose with fuel. Did not feel that I wished to go off in a long drive with that added worry. Have now arranged to do the journey by train. My local AC was delighted and admitted that she was concerned about me driving such a long journey.
So, am now seriously thinking of giving up my car entirely. Do I still need to have one, most of the time sitting in the garage?
Just like to hear from other GNetters who have taken this very big decision.
I would love to be in your position, with such great access to public transport. With all the costs associated with motoring eg insurance,mot's, servicing, fuel you could easily manage with public transport and a taxi if you needed a connection. Don't think twice, go for it.
When our car started to cost more to get it through the MOT we decided to get rid and do without as we live close to most amenities and have bus passes. I'd say the only inconvenience has been that we can't offer help to the rest of the family: e.g picking up the grandchildren on our shift.
Franbern, I do hope you continue to have fun in your new home. We do meet more people as we explore our neighbourhood if we use public transport.
I'd always had a car since passing my test at 17 (a few old bangers to start with!). DH has never driven but his parents had cars. Just over 10 years ago we were on our uppers, the car - supposedly a good one - had had a number of problems then we needed an expensive repair so we sold it. Now that DH isn't well it would be lovely to have a car and have a day out but I haven't missed it otherwise. I walk as much as possible, have a bus pass and we have several buses we can catch, we use taxis when DH has medical appointments (he has a lot) but the DDs and retired SiL help with lifts whenever they can.
Yes public transport in South Somerset has deteriorated no buses after 7pm non on bank holidays or Sundays Still drive at night husband hates night driving Looked at getting to Solihull by train the cost is terrific I can do it from Bristol on a coach £7 return not £92
We gave ours up some years ago. It takes a bit of planning but it rapidly becomes second nature.
We did some calculations before we gave it up and we (and in fact some independent organisations) estimated the cost of having even a cheap car was around £50/week. We spend noting like that on other transport - including occasional taxis.
I realise I am wailing into the wind but I wish more resources were invested directly into improving public transport/rural transport etc.
I see there have been initiatives to offer cash incentives to people who give up their car but I can't see much future in that.
It isn't cash we want is it? but the independence and personal control we would miss which isn't measured in £££
I admire you Franbern for thinking about it and others who have already taken the plunge.
I'm beginning to think I'm a closet 'prepper'. Whenever I go to the supermarket for '2 or 3' things, it usually ends up as 2 or 3 shopping bags. Perhaps all the talk of no petrol, no gas, no electricity, no Christmas dinners is making me stock up just in case. Maybe if I get rid of my car, I would be forced to only carry 2 or 3 things.
effalump There is truth in that.
I don't use my car for shopping as I have a rucksack and a basket and even, if I really need it, a shopping trolley on wheels.
Going on holiday I have to pack carefully and light.
We once went to New Zealand for a month with only cabin luggage.
The worst bit was arriving in Singapore and sweltering in our outdoor clothes which we had to have for the journey to Glasgow airport in snow.
This summer I drove to Skye and took a carful of everything. I didn't need most of it.
Where I live I'd struggle without a car but my plans to downsize include taking into consideration the time when I may no-longer be able to drive. You seem to have moved to have such facilities which I have thought of - public transport, proximity to shops, GP surgery, etc. As others have said I'd make the final decision when the insurance is near to being due. I like the idea of teabagwoman of putting the proceeds of the sale in an account with annual costs added to provide a 'taxi fund'. I'll try to remember that for when the time comes. Thanks teabagwoman.
Franbern thank you for sharing where you live, very helpful - sorry for the dealy, I've only just had a cha nce to revisit.
As regards keeping the battery charged, I recently had to have my battery replaced bythe AA after a period of non-use, and the AA man said a drive of 30min once a week is needed to keep it in good condition - the distance is not as important as the time.
I think I was 86 when I gave up my car. I had worked out that taxis were more economical. I also had difficulty turning my neck at junctions.
Covid happened and I felt I wanted to be a recluse in any case. I have two adult sons who support me with visit to dentist , dog to vet etc.
I gave up my car after my DH retired - I was still working (about 10 years ago) but DH has taken it to mean I don't wont to drive and the family car is his!! I doubt if I have driven myself more than 10 times this year, consequently i am now quite nervous about taking it out, I certainly would drive DH because he criticises far more than necessary making me more nervous - big mistake giving up my car!!
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