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Bad tempered people and petrol queues.

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Namsnanny Mon 27-Sept-21 19:21:31

Whilst sat in the forecourt of the petrol station, waiting to fill up, we've had 3 different people come up to the open window to hurl abuse at us! Why?

"F**** ridiculous, F**** idiot" said one accompanied with a few hand gestures.
Which to be honest I couldn't help but laugh out loud at, out of shock. At first I didn't realise he was meaning us.
Until he came up to the window (now closed) and said it again.

Then a women came along side and said could we move as she needed to get petrol? I pointed out there were bollards stopping anyone from entering the garage as the tanker was filling the pumps.
To which she said she was an off duty nurse and shouldn't have to waste her time queueing, so could we move?
I pointed out we were jammed in by her car behind, and the bollards in front.
Plus, she was second in the queue, so sorry but we were all in the same boat!!
She glared for a few seconds then stomped off.

A couple thought it was their prerogative to come up to the passenger window to enlighten us, that if we thought we were going to get any petrol we would be lucky, (even though they could clearly see the tanker delivering fuel for themselves).
Said we should have topped up earlier, then left clearly enjoying their clever repartee, and giggling at our perceived misfortune.

It was a sunny day and lots of people were out and about, and should have been enjoying themselves. Clearly not but why the open hostility?
Have I missed something?

BTW we have filled up there before, and we were on our normal shopping routine.

Cymres1 Wed 29-Sept-21 12:13:22

Couldn't agree more, why does everything get blamed on Brexit. It is sadly a far wider issue, will the losers of that vote ever get over it and move on? It's a fixation for some, but we have to move to a new reality.

JaneJudge Wed 29-Sept-21 12:11:42

4allweknow

Filling up containers with fuel is strictly controlled ie one 1 gallon or less metal container only is allowed to be transported in a car. Those using plastic or more than one should be reportedly to the police.

is that true? I fill up a plastic petrol can like this to put in my mower. Even driving from the petrol station to home (under normal times) the container swells, so I'm not sure how evian bottles are going to fare.

GillT57 Wed 29-Sept-21 12:02:47

Daisend1

*Sarnia*.
Makes you wonder how this same lot would have coped with six years of war.?

the same as those who did. Some with fortitude and kindness and consideration, some looking out for themselves and using the black market.

Coco51 Wed 29-Sept-21 11:59:50

I think this is a storm cooked up by the media, day after day. If shortages weren’t mentioned, no-one would panic, and would go about their day to day business. They might encounter queues, rationing or temporary closures, but it would not escalate into a national emergency.
The aggression arises from fear that people may not be able to drive where they have to go then it’s a matter of who dares wins

Daisend1 Wed 29-Sept-21 11:58:37

Sarnia.
Makes you wonder how this same lot would have coped with six years of war.?

cc Wed 29-Sept-21 11:54:37

I didn't hurl any abuse at anybody but must say I felt pretty aggressive as I was stuck in traffic for more than an hour, held up by a petrol queue, on my way to a bank to arrange a payment for a house purchase. This should have been a 10 minute trip.
I only just got there in time and could cheerfully have strangled anybody who was putting in under £5 of petrol which I understand is pretty common as people fill up their tanks after short journeys.
If people could avoid such ridiculous purchases perhaps the queues would be shorter?
We're avoiding driving at the moment and don't intend to use any more petrol than we absolutely need to.
I agree with the idea that essential workers should be given priority but have no idea how this could be done, unless they have a slot early in the day as some supermarkets did for NHS workers and pensioners.
Another suggestion: If your tank won't take as much as £30 of petrol you still have to make a minimum peyment of £30.

TiggyW Wed 29-Sept-21 11:51:39

Well-researched, Milliedog! ??

cheaton Wed 29-Sept-21 11:49:47

After the last toilet paper shortage I signed on with a subscription company so now all delivered every quarter, plastic free packaging, bamboo paper and no lugging it home!

Milliedog Wed 29-Sept-21 11:48:31

Apologies for the long post, but sometimes I get cross with our media and as I have to do a lot of slumping on the sofa (long covid) I've actually had time to do a little research on a few things!

TiggyW Wed 29-Sept-21 11:47:44

The media should be held to account for causing unnecessary panic buying.

Milliedog Wed 29-Sept-21 11:46:50

@GagaJo
Actually this has nothing to do with Brexit. I did some research (No. Not the Daily Mail). There are 54,000 HGV licences held up at the DVLA. Also, I went on a German transport website. Lorry driver shortages in Germany. Lorry driver shortages in Poland. Our media is not reporting this....Lorry drivers in Britain and the continent are retiring (age and other less stressful jobs, wages etc) but trainee lorry drivers can't get the training they need because of Covid. And I also heard ( reliable source but haven't had time to verify this yet) that lorries / HGV vehicles arrive at the warehouses to collect goods but because of Covid (isolation knock on effect as well as actual cases) there aren't enough warehouse staff to load the lorries and HGV vehicles so the lorries and HGV are held in long queues. It's easy to automatically blame Brexit, but it's more complicated than that. But don't expect to see this in our media. Much of the media is headquartered in London - and guess what? London was heavily anti Brexit!

Zoejory Wed 29-Sept-21 11:46:48

jaylucy

I believe the woman filling up several plastic containers was actually the manager of a care agency, getting emergency supplies for her staff so that they could continue providing home care for their clients.
Jumping to conclusions much ?

Were these plastic containers actually designed for transporting petrol? I doubt they were.

She had no right to endanger herself and others by transporting petrol

Not only that, it's illegal if not carried correctly

They must be “reasonably robust and not liable to break under the normal conditions of use”, designed to stop the escape of vapour, not liable to degrade due to contact with petrol, and clearly labelled with the words “petrol” and “highly flammable”.

4allweknow Wed 29-Sept-21 11:46:00

Filling up containers with fuel is strictly controlled ie one 1 gallon or less metal container only is allowed to be transported in a car. Those using plastic or more than one should be reportedly to the police.

Namsnanny Wed 29-Sept-21 11:45:00

GillT57

How do we define panic buying though? It is remarkable how every person interviewed in a petrol queue accuses others of panic buying, how do they know? Maybe the others in the queue have just as valid a reason for filling up as they do. Would anyone assume that a retired person was panic buying because they are not having to get to work? Maybe that retired person is looking after an elderly parent, doing childcare for a working adult child who is a key worker?

Well this is the point.
Should any one, nurse or otherwise, feel entitled enough to insist on moving from 2nd to 1st in the queue?
Seems as if people no longer think in terms of us. More just mesad

Keep Calm and use a Carrier Bag seems to be the order of the day.grin

coast35 Wed 29-Sept-21 11:42:28

It also said on the news that the lady filling up cans was getting fuel for her carers who visit and help the elderly and disabled. I think we should be careful how we judge. It’s so easy to whip up resentment that is not justified.

rowyn Wed 29-Sept-21 11:41:24

Well lucky you! Every petrol station I tried had no petrol yesterday. Luckily I use very little and can be patient, though it would make life more difficult as I'm not that mobile.
The irony is that you have to use petrol to search for petrol!

Blackcat3 Wed 29-Sept-21 11:41:24

Now be honest….was your tank empty or were you just topping up to be sure you wouldn’t run out??? No judgement just asking….

TiggyW Wed 29-Sept-21 11:40:34

It all boils down to ‘survival of the fittest’. It’s a primitive instinct. Darwin knew what he was talking about.
runnerbean - I agree. Walk if you can! It will do you good!
As far as Christmas is concerned, the last one was the most chilled, stress-free one we’ve had for years! Cheaper too…

WoodLane7 Wed 29-Sept-21 11:39:59

A friend who works at a fuel station says there have been shortages of drivers for many months and years. These have been managed to date; the turning point has been Bp having a supply issue at a small handful of outlets and leaking it to the media who have hyped it up way beyond the scope of the problem at that time. The inevitable result - a rush on fuel courtesy of a panicked public.
The media has a great deal to answer for

bear1 Wed 29-Sept-21 11:39:52

i need to get to hospital appointemt on Friday and do not have enough fuel to get there and back its 30 miles each way tried to get fuel friday and was in long queue and garage closed so did shoppingandwent home tried again yesterday local tesco fuel closed,next door is a shell one but ques wee round the roundabout and down slip road was i stupid enough to queue i got through the queue and went home ill try thursday if cannot get will have to cancel appointent

sodapop Wed 29-Sept-21 11:28:47

I saw another item about an Asian lady employee of a garage, she was knocked to the ground by a customer and was racially abused. All care and decency seems to be evaporating.

MaggsMcG Wed 29-Sept-21 11:24:34

In some garages they are only allowing people £30 worth at a time. Idint need any yet but I will next Wednesday

GillT57 Wed 29-Sept-21 11:22:57

How do we define panic buying though? It is remarkable how every person interviewed in a petrol queue accuses others of panic buying, how do they know? Maybe the others in the queue have just as valid a reason for filling up as they do. Would anyone assume that a retired person was panic buying because they are not having to get to work? Maybe that retired person is looking after an elderly parent, doing childcare for a working adult child who is a key worker?

HannahLoisLuke Wed 29-Sept-21 11:22:48

Listening to an HGV driver on the radio this morning, it’s illegal to carry petrol in containers inside your car. There will be fumes emitting from the container and these could explode, especially if you’re a smoker ! The woman emptying water bottles to fill with petrol would have contaminated the petrol with water droplets too. Not sure how the engine would react.

Rosalyn69 Wed 29-Sept-21 11:18:24

We were lucky to fill up at our local garage who was only serving locals.
That said I’m limiting how much I use my car until the panic is over.
Still I’m used to staying at home. smile