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grannyactivist Fri 05-Nov-21 18:45:56

I live in a small seaside town. There are eleven Edwardian houses on my side of the street, that provide eighteen homes. Four of the houses have been converted into flats and three houses are occupied by couples with young families. Of the remaining houses, one house is owned by a retired couple who regularly have their children and grandchildren to stay, one is lived in by a 70+ widowed woman and her mum and the remaining two are lived in by us, and another working couple who still have a son at home.

The latter couple and the widow were raised in these houses and moved back in to care for elderly parents.

The people on my side of the road are a mix of all ages and circumstances, some of the flats are owned and others are rented, two with the landlord still living on the premises. The oldest resident is in her late nineties and the youngest is just turned three. Some of the flats are little more than bedsits and some of the houses are three storied and are really quite large. Three of the houses are occupied by people who run businesses from home.

Opposite my house there are three more houses, a bus shelter and a field. The town is just a ten minute walk away and five minutes beyond that will get me to the seafront. We’re on a bus route to the city and local shops are just a few minutes walk, as are parks, meadows and the river. Nearby there is social housing, small private terraces and grander Edwardian homes. The schools are ten minutes walk away. The two local health centres are easily reached by bus or a brisk ten or twenty minute walk. I can almost see the gate to my allotment from my sitting room window.

I feel very privileged to live in a town that is not only picturesque, but also hosts a warm caring community.

Where do you live?

JaneJudge Sat 06-Nov-21 16:01:25

Blinko, you know they have built a designer outlet village off the M6 toll too? also you know there is a poem about the Earl and the end of the industry? IT'S HERE smile

I recognise a lot of descriptions off this thread as we have moved around a lot. I live in the middle of nowhere

Blinko Sat 06-Nov-21 15:51:10

We live on the western edge of the West Midlands conurbation. They call it the Black Country. It is now post industrial and becoming greener by the week.

To the east, we have all the shopping anyone could want in Wolverhampton, Walsall, Birmingham, Solihull and Coventry. Excellent public transport to all parts of the country via several means; trains within walking distance, buses pass the end of the close every few minutes and trams also every few minutes.

To the west, we have the Shropshire hills and valleys, with the countryside of South Staffs and also North Worcestershire within easy reach.

Our GP surgery is in the next street, local shops within a few hundred yards and some very good eateries not too far away. There's a stately home (now uninhabited, I should add) where extensive parkland designed by Capability Brown is freely open to the public. As the Earl's riches were built on the backs of local labour, it seems fitting that their children's children should reap at least some benefit from our ancestors' toil.

This has always been 'home' to me.

nadateturbe Sat 06-Nov-21 15:43:58

North Antrim, five minutes walk from the coast which is great for walks.. We watch the sun setting over the hills from our upstairs bedroom, and follow its progress through the year. We've seen some amazing sunsets. I think those are the pluses of where I live. I love our little semi. But there's no neighbourliness whatever.?

lovebeigecardigans1955 Sat 06-Nov-21 14:47:03

I live in a suburb in the east Midlands with great transport links in each direction. It's not a very pretty neighbourhood but there's a nature reserve by the river and a 'castle' in our nearest large city. It's a good shopping area with a lot of choice and there's the usual cinemas and theatres.

I think it's quite a friendly place and have great neighbours. If I became a millionaire (ha! ha!) would I move? I quite like where I am and don't think I'd want to start again somewhere else but that's just me - perhaps I've become a stick in the mud but that's my choice.

TerriBull Sat 06-Nov-21 14:33:48

Quite understandably many posters want a degree of anonymity otherwise it would good to have a go at "name my village, town area" from the information supplied. Nevertheless, it's a very nice thread reading the descriptions of where posters live and describing their individual homes and localities.

We moved this year, I loved where we lived before right next to The Thames on the edge of London close to a Royal Park complete with deer and a large town just up the road, so great shopping, but oh the traffic hmm we do notice it when we go up there along with 20 miles per hour restrictions which inevitably causes congestion. Traffic is somewhat sparser down beyond the M25.

Having said that love it where I am now too. We'd been scouting around this town and a few others as a potential place to move for about five years or so, had one house purchase fall through a couple of years ago. I think we picked well. Bearing in mind there is a thread mooting the fact that retirees should be downsizing, that was our motivation and to release some money, but somehow or other we ended up with an extra bedroom, more square footage and a bigger garden, so I'm ashamed to say it was a bit of an upsize side size. Anyway, we need the space because now we are a bit further away from family and friends, they need to stay over, well that's my excuse.

We are just outside a lovely market town on the Surrey/Sussex borders and although further away from London out local town has a great mix of some really old buildings and the new. It has everything we need and more, John Lewis Home, big Waitrose and Sainsburys, Marks, an Everyman Cinema, a Theatre, plenty of nice clothing outlets, Crew, Sea Salt, Joules, Hobbs etc. more importantly my favourite store of all Waterstones. Lots of eating places, coffee shops galore....... high street banks! all of them still there! probably not for long at the rate they are disappearing.

Beautiful countryside around, can still see the Surrey Hills and the south downs just a few miles away and the coast beyond. We've had lovely sunny weather this week so it's been nice to get out and see the changing Autumn leaves. This morning we went to our local country park and walked round the lake appreciating the trees and water fowl.

Merlot all the best in your new home.

SueDonim Sat 06-Nov-21 13:37:24

This is a beautiful thread, I’ve so enjoyed reading it and trying to guess where you all live!

I live in NE Scotland, in a farming village of about 125 houses, mostly scattered over a wide area. Half of the houses are probably traditional, the rest, like mine, are newer. When we moved here, 25 years ago, we had a church, school, shop and post office, all of which I used, apart from the church (and even then I attended for school events). We now have none of those. However, people have stepped up to keep a community spirit going and the village hall has been refurbished with air source heating, double glazing etc and is now being used more often.

We loved it here from the moment we moved in, when we arrived in a snow storm in December with a family inc a small baby. Immediately, I was invited into a neighbour’s house to keep warm while the removal men did their job and that Christmas we were inundated with invitations to parties, cards, welcome to your new home gifts and so on. It’s not sustainable for us to stay here forever, though, as it’s four miles to the nearest services and there is no public transport. Also, all of our children have spread their wings and gone elsewhere, only one remains in Scotland, so one day we’ll need to confront that issue.

It’ll be a wrench, though. From the front of our house we have a glorious view of fields, woodland and mountains, while to the back, we have neighbourliness and a bit of coming and going to remind us of life. These days, we see a lot of the neighbours dogs, which is lovely!

Merlotgran it’s nice to see you, I noticed you’d not been around on the threads I visit lately. I hope you settle into your new home - I must admit, I’m a bit of an East Anglia/Essex fan myself. Not the conurbations but those wide open spaces.

grannyactivist Sat 06-Nov-21 12:02:59

Grammaretto I like what you did there. ????

Thanks for your posts, I’ve thoroughly enjoyed reading about where you live. I was prompted by the thread about downsizing, that got me thinking about how much I appreciate where I live.

Now I’m thinking about neighbours - I may have to start another thread because I don’t want to hijack this one, but I’m interested in the topic.

Grammaretto Sat 06-Nov-21 11:20:57

What a fascinating thread Grannyacti -vista

I live in the centre of a small town 10 miles south of Edinburgh, surrounded by pubs, cafes, a church, sheltered housing and the town hall. Once a papermaking and mining village it expanded in the 1960s to accommodate city workers and became a dormitory town. The trains have gone (Beeching cuts) but there are buses every 10 minutes.
The old railway lines form a cycle and walking routes and I have cycled to the seaside in my time
In recent years housing estates and shopping centres have been built between here and the city so the commute takes twice as long..

The services for all these new homes have not caught up and I pity the school and doctors who have to adapt.

Where I am is a close community of many nationalities and I know most people.
My 200yr old house is too big for me now that I am alone so I know I will have to move sometime. Merlotgran smile

There are still retired miners and even streets named for the Irish migrants who came in the 1930s (Dublin and Glasgow!)

There are clubs and societies galore but we miss the banks (one has lately become a food bank) and there are no longer many shops though initiatives by the development trust have led to the opening of 3 community run shops, a paper museum and the restoration of remaining old buildings.

I can be in open country and farmland in 10 minutes.

The young people move away but some come back -apart from mine.sad

Riverwalk Sat 06-Nov-21 10:41:43

Let's hear from some city dwellers - we live in lovely places too!

I'm in London next to the Thames and love it to bits - I try to walk everywhere but public transport, free from the age of 60, is excellent. In my immediate area there are all sorts of restaurants, bars, delis, and services like GP, dentist, pharmacy. Within 25 minutes walk I can be at major museums and galleries, passing wonderful modern and classical architecture. After a night out in the West End I can be home in half an hour.

I'm in a modern development, ground floor flat with a private garden - few minutes one way is a council estate, few minutes the other way are multi-million £ properties - we're talking 10s of millions in some cases. I'm on friendly terms with some of the long-term neighbours, but being London there are many transient residents who come and go, whom I'm on nodding terms with.

The noise, bustle & sirens are a price worth paying as it suits the lifestyle I love. There are lots of quiet places though, including walks along the Thames, mostly on the southside, away from the traffic.

BBbevan Sat 06-Nov-21 10:23:52

We live in S W Wales just 3 minutes walk from the sea. We can’t see it but we can hear it and smell it. Just a little enclave of houses on a private road , all detached with large gardens. 10 minutes walk to the village, station, doctor and dentist etc. I can’t really describe our house as it is very distinctive and would pin point us immediately to anyone in the area. Lovely quiet place and super friendly Welsh people

Luckygirl Sat 06-Nov-21 10:06:39

I now live in a beautiful semi-detached new-build in a very small village, where we lived previously for over 30 years. We had 6 years in a bungalow in a nearby village when my OH was ill. Since he died I have moved back to the village where my heart lies and where my friends are.

The new-build is a gem - on a small semi-circle 7 of houses round an oak tree. The view from the back of the house is sublime (and the same view as we had when we lived here before) - I have my bed up on bed-raisers so that I can sit in bed in the mornings with a cup of tea and soak in the view. The house is extraordinarily well-insulated and needs little heat; and it is well sound-insulated - I cannot hear my neighbours at all.

The village has:
-a Knights Templar church - a real gem with fabulous acoustics.
- a state-of-the-art Passiv house village hall which costs zilch to run.
- a small primary school (where I am governor)
- a pub
- common piece of land and wood - a lovely place to walk
- a bus 3 times a week, which heads to town over the hill where there are fabulous 360 degree views.

I am surrounded by fields and hills - my own little piece of paradise.

All the new neighbours in the close are very friendly indeed and very helpful - I have yet to put my bin out - someone always does it for me - I don't know who! And last night we all met under the oak tree for sparklers and sausage rolls.

I have loads of friends here and village life is very active indeed - book club; a group of women who get together and do good things in the village (like pixies!); endless events like harvest supper, Christmas window decorating, summer fun day on the common; folk concerts in the church; village panto, singing group (that I run); coffee mornings; croquet on the common; lots of school events to which the community is welcomed; pub quiz; indoor swimming pool in a castle 5 minutes away. Something happening most days. And that for me is the joy - the views are wonderful and to be treasured, but it is the people and the village life that make living here so special.

I am a very Luckygirl! smile

Scones Sat 06-Nov-21 10:04:53

After a few months of gransnet this thread and the 'what's great about Britain' thread are my favourites. I am so enjoying reading about where you all live and how you live - it satisfies the nosy parker in me perfectly.

Writing about where I live made me even more grateful for my blessings. Thank you so much grannyactivist for this clever and interesting thread idea.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 06-Nov-21 09:34:34

Pressed too soon!
We retired to this little village near the coast five years ago. Almost everyone has retired here but there is one old lady now widowed who came here when she married over sixty years ago.
The housing is mainly red brick and flint cottages and some larger houses with pan tiled roofs, most red some black. There are half a dozen sixties bungalows and our contemporary style house was converted out of one of them before we bought it. Red brick and flint with red pantiles.
It’s a farming village and we have fields all around. It’s very quiet as there are no young children and little passing traffic apart from tractors.
Everyone relies on a car as there are no buses within walking distance, nor any shops. The nearest small market town is five miles away and the health centre there is very good. There is a cottage hospital about ten miles away. En route to the town there is a marvellous farm shop and delicatessen.
Our village is one of the designated ‘dark skies’ villages in the area, meaning there are no street lights and no development causing light pollution is permitted. This means that on a clear night the stars are wonderful.
I feed the birds every day and love watching them. We have a regular visiting gull and many more flying over. In autumn and winter we see huge skeins of Canada geese who overwinter on the salt marshes and enjoy eating the tops of the sugar beet left in the fields after harvest.
It’s beautiful walking territory, quiet lanes and very flat so you can see for miles. Most people have dogs.
People are friendly and there is a good community spirit with activities centred on the little village hall and the Church, a lovely medieval building.
We love it here as do the many holidaymakers who come to the area. We used to be amongst them and dreamed of living here one day.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 06-Nov-21 09:13:34

I live under those East Anglian skies merlotgran so can understand what a wrench it must have been to leave them.
We retired to this little village near the coss

Hetty58 Sat 06-Nov-21 09:06:35

merlotgran, I hated the (lack of) view when we moved here. There's just a long garden, service road - then gardens/houses backing on to it. Since then, I've planted six trees and a row of Pampas grass - so now I look out at a woodland!

merlotgran Sat 06-Nov-21 08:53:06

I moved into my new home two weeks ago and for the first time in my life I am living somewhere that could never be described as beautiful. There is so much of my old life I miss but there was no way I could continue living in an isolated location after DH died. My family was quite prepared to drag me kicking and screaming to live near them so I gave in without a struggle grin

But....I have quickly come to realise that being welcomed into a kind and caring community more than makes up for my lack of a wonderful view. Neighbours (a new experience for me) have called round or put cards through the door. I've had offers of help from complete strangers, workmen have gone above and beyond and I do have a lovely garden.

A part of me will always ache for East Anglian skies but right now I wouldn't change a thing.

Apart from the bl**dy traffic! grin grin

Lucca Sat 06-Nov-21 08:29:38

I live in a beautiful town, a well known tourist destination with much open space. Sadly many of the shops have closed down taking away the character of the town. However we are still well supplied with cafes and restaurants. There is an insane amount of house building going on and I have no idea how the towns schools, surgeries and roads are going to cope ! Personally I would love to see the town centre a private car free zone (except disabled) as we are rather overrun with enormous four wheel drive vehicles ….often parked badly !
I have excellent neighbours in my cul de sac and I live 10 minutes pleasant walk from the town centre. There are several tennis golf and bridge clubs and a good Adult Ed centre.
It is a great place to live….in god’s own county?

kittylester Sat 06-Nov-21 08:20:34

Our large, not very pretty, village was originally a farming community but gradually became more industrialised. We are 3 miles from a small town with a very successful university and 10/15 miles from 3 cities.

There is a river/ canal in the valley and an ancient forest about 3 miles away so lots of opportunities for walks. We still have farms on the edges of the village but we also have lots of modern houses built on farm land. We could do with another doctor's surgery and are promised a new school.

We live near to the High Street in the Victorian Board School and the partners of 2 of our children were taught here. Because of our proximity to the village centre, our road is quite busy but our neighbours are all very friendly and we get together with our close neighbours quite often.

Pre covid, activities in the village were organised by 'the Old guard' but the younger people really stepped up and set up all sorts of brilliant things and have made the village a vibrant place.

We see lots of life passing our windows and love living here.

Josianne Sat 06-Nov-21 08:11:35

I concur with grannyactivist that some towns are maybe more friendly and community minded than others. We moved just before the pandemic struck but during that time have got to know all about people in our area ...... (whose dog we look after, bake cakes for, swap plants etc.) In these two years living here I know more about people's lives than I ever did in 12 years in London. We live in a detached house and are properties are spaced out, so in terms of proximity we should know less about people, but it doesn't work that way. Maybe I just want to embrace everything about people in my retirement, or maybe I've just turned more nosy!?

Yes grannyactivist, everything one could wish for., though several on here sound lucky as well. Great thread, hope it grows.

BlueBelle Sat 06-Nov-21 05:32:45

lemsip I ve lived in this house for nearly 40 years, apart from my immediate neighbours I have no idea who or what anyone else is I would have no idea what jobs they have or who owns, or rents their houses
You are not alone ?

agnurse Sat 06-Nov-21 02:42:32

I live in a small town (just under 2000 people) in western Canada. We are about an hour's drive from the nearest large city. Our area is a transition zone between the plains and the boreal forest, and there's a lot of unspoiled wilderness around. We can drive just a few hours and find amazing scenery.

The population of Canada is much lower than that in the UK, but we have much more land. One of the provinces in the part of Canada where I live is 20% larger than France, but has a smaller population than the city of London. (I am quite serious.) My FIL came to visit us and was absolutely gobsmacked.

grannyactivist Sat 06-Nov-21 01:35:23

Lovely to read your posts.

lemsip I’ve lived in my house for 24 years and we’re really quite neighbourly. ?

Josianne….I’ve read a few of your posts and I did wonder. Aren’t we the lucky ones!

lemsip Fri 05-Nov-21 23:17:17

You say you live in a small seaside town but I'm still surprised that you know so much about who lives in what.
I live in a coastal town which I love but I don't know many people even though I've lived here many years

Jaxjacky Fri 05-Nov-21 22:20:28

We live in what was a village about equidistant between Southampton and Winchester, new housing is encroaching, which is fine, unfortunately the infrastructure is not keeping pace.
We know many people and have a connected neighbourhood and a community pub. Shops, including the post office and chemist are 10 minutes walk as are bus stops, GP surgery 20 minutes walk. A large school from nursery to seniors. Plenty of green space still with woods and a river. I’ve lived here for over 35 years, my children were born here, one at home, I’m comfortable in this community and feel safe.

Scentia Fri 05-Nov-21 22:05:52

I live in the Brewing Capital of the World. We have 21 brewers in the town and it is a fact that breweries around the world will ‘Burtonise’ their water before brewing.
It is a very industrial town which has a mix of cultures which is wonderful.
My house is on a new development of 130 houses and it is smack bang next door to out towns football ground. Our factory is just 1 mile from our house which is brilliant in the winter as we can always get to work!
I love my town and serve on our parish council and work hard to do the best for all of my neighbours in our parish.
What a lovely thread, I have enjoyed telling you all about my wonderful town.❤️