Tomorrow we’re visiting our son’s family to celebrate our granddaughter’s 3rd birthday. She FaceTimed us earlier in the week (on her actual birthday) and was hilariously funny.
Two days ago I got a call from my ‘granddaughter’ to say that she not only passed her grammar school entrance exam, but she got the second highest mark. I’m so proud of her parents for all the support they’ve given her - dad has been in the UK for a long time, but mum came from China more recently and at the time of her daughter’s birth she had only just passed the Life in the UK Test. I was her English teacher, but became ‘mum’ to both her and her husband. (In fact I was present at the baby’s birth, named her, and was the first person to hold her - she’s my granddaughter in all but her DNA.)
Yesterday my husband read me a very long text message he got from the man who was our children’s au pair 25 years ago; he’s now a lawyer with his own practice, married to a judge, and has three little girls (the youngest is named after me). The text was to remind us that he still loves us very much and wants us to go and visit him again. My husband and I spent a very happy half hour reminiscing about some of the many scrapes this young man got himself into. In fact I’m smiling again now just thinking about it. ??