Hello BrightandBreezy, I don’t think I’ve responded to you before. 
It can be very hard to sort out fact from fiction, so I hope the information below, might make you feel slightly better.
In 2020 Germany had the highest number of accepted asylum seekers in Europe at over 128 thousand people, followed by Spain and France at 124 thousand and 86 thousand respectively. When compared with EU countries, the UK ranked only 14th out of the individual countries in terms of the number of asylum applications per capita. [Official UK Govt figures.]
Neither the 1951 Refugee Convention, nor EU law requires a person to claim asylum in the first safe country they reach. People trying to cross the Channel can legitimately claim asylum in the UK if they reach it. The ‘Dublin Regulations’ is a system (not a law) which allows one EU country to require another to accept responsibility for a person who has claimed asylum when specific conditions apply, including that the person is shown to have previously made a claim of asylum in another EU country. The intention is that asylum claims are then shared more evenly between EU countries.
However, the Dublin system only operates within the EU and it will cease to apply to the UK following Brexit.
I do share the general anger and concern about illegal trafficking and the lack of safety for the passengers, but until we permit legal means of arrival this sad state of affairs will continue. ?