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Diana and Charles Engagement

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Sparklefizz Wed 08-Dec-21 13:10:09

Yes, Annie but she was a child then.

Anniebach Wed 08-Dec-21 13:07:02

Diana hadn’t only been on the scene for a few months, she lived in Sandringham before they moved to Althorp.

Charles visited Althorp when he was dating Diana’s sister Sarah.

Sparklefizz Wed 08-Dec-21 13:06:41

Why anyone ever thought a over-sensitive nineteen year old from a broken home a suitable bride for any member of the House of Windsor beats me, and did then.

I agree.... but apparently the grandmothers of both of them thought it was a perfect match.

grandtanteJE65 Wed 08-Dec-21 13:01:48

I doubt Diana's putative virginity was a consideration, all the Royal Family needed to know was that she wasn't pregnant by someone else!

What was worrying was the fact that the heir to the Throne was over 30 and still unmarried and showing no inclination to marry.

Obviously, if he had married a woman of his own age, there would have been concerns that she might have difficulty conceiving, but he could well have married a woman in her mid-twenties without that being a bother.

Why anyone ever thought a over-sensitive nineteen year old from a broken home a suitable bride for any member of the House of Windsor beats me, and did then.

eazybee Wed 08-Dec-21 13:00:08

I doubt if anyone would bother over something so trivial.

Charleygirl5 Wed 08-Dec-21 12:58:26

Baggs my question also. It would be a tad difficult nowadays!

Baggs Wed 08-Dec-21 12:51:26

yggdrasil

The Palace needed to be sure the heir to the throne was marrying a virgin. That was why anyone older would have been a problem

Why did The Palace need to be sure about that?

yggdrasil Wed 08-Dec-21 12:48:15

The Palace needed to be sure the heir to the throne was marrying a virgin. That was why anyone older would have been a problem

Mishy Wed 08-Dec-21 12:38:19

I was 19 and got married in 1980 so I don't think it was anything unusual for that age/era but now? I think there would be a lot more questioning of a man of 30s and a young girl of 19.

Beswitched Wed 08-Dec-21 12:33:07

I was watching a documentary about Princess Diana on Netflix last night and started wondering what public reaction would have been if William or Harry had got engaged, in their early 30s, to a 19 year old teenager who had only been on the scene for a few months.

I think there would have been considerable disquiet, not the general delight and cheering that greeted the announcement in 1981.

Obviously even then some people felt the whole thing was ridiculous, but there was also huge public support for the marriage.

Times have changed.