Well, Cleo, I’ve scanned through the posts again to double check, and it seems to me that the majority are not having lots of people coming for meals, nor going off out to the pub nor having folks dropping in to join them, but rather it is the poster and their partner (& for some posters, it’s just themselves) who are having the Christmas Eve meal at home. I don’t doubt that a few will be hosting others, but I think most are not.
I’m sorry to read that some of your extended family and friends are or have been suffering from Covid, but I really don’t get the same impression from this thread that you do that the posters who have responded are living on another, Covid Free, planet. Instead, they are sharing what they plan to have for a Christmas Eve meal this year, as the original poster asked. Very few (if any) have intimated that they are hosting lots of others, nor off to the pub, unless I’ve missed something..