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Making friends through work

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Aveline Fri 24-Dec-21 10:08:34

My dearest friends are those I met in the course of my working life. Maybe I was just lucky but I met lots of terrific people whose company I really enjoyed and still do.

Grandmabatty Fri 24-Dec-21 10:06:32

Four of my closest friends I met at work. We have a lot in common and continue to be friends now we are mostly retired.

Shropshirelass Fri 24-Dec-21 10:06:01

My best friends are people I worked with 50 years ago, we are all about the same age and are more like sisters. We have supported each other through some very difficult times.

Peasblossom Fri 24-Dec-21 09:57:15

Depends on the colleagues.

I very much dislike the compulsory social life that seems to go along with work in some places. If you don’t join in with the after-work drink etc then you’re always behind with what’s going on at work because stuff has been discussed and settled when you’re not there.

EllanVannin Fri 24-Dec-21 09:56:05

We are a circle of friends formed at work at the local hospital in the 1980's and we're still friends. We've even holidayed abroad together.
Including myself, there are 5 of us and before the pandemic, we used to meet up for lunches or at a teashop. We haven't seen each other for 2 years and can't wait to continue where we left off. Birthdays and Christmas's remain remembered.
It's a lovely friendship which I value enormously.

Kate1949 Fri 24-Dec-21 09:53:22

I don't find it sad. I seem to have acquired some work colleagues as friends. It's them who keep in touch not me. I am a bit odd as I don't really need friends. I meet up with these ex colleagues every now and again but, and this probably sounds awful, but it wouldn't bother me if I didn't again.

Blondiescot Fri 24-Dec-21 09:51:28

No, I only have a handful of close friends, but some of those are women with whom I worked for many years.

Beswitched Fri 24-Dec-21 09:38:37

I've heard somebody yesterday saying that they never mix work and friendship, see enough of their colleagues during the day etc

I found that quite sad. I have made some lifelong and very supportive friends through various jobs across the years.

Just wondering if any of you agree with the colleagues are for work not socialising sentiment?