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Caleo Sun 02-Jan-22 11:27:37

Doing wrong is not black and white even in law.

My own father who of course had never heard of Prince Andrew, could not sweat. My mother , who had never heard of Prince Andrew, told me this when I was was girl . My mother did not explain about the adrenaline thing as she had no medical knowledge, but after Andrew's admission about not sweating . I can understand how hormones are affected by some severe life events. My father was at the Eastern Front during the Great War.

Also in support of Prince Andrew, he probably did not even know that it was illegal or even immoral to shag an unknown and poor seventeen year old girl. Very rich people have odd childhoods, and it takes special efforts by parents and teachers to teach them what real life is.

Anniebach Sun 16-Jan-22 18:37:37

Iam I cannot class 14 year olds as prostitutes. Sex slaves ?

Iam64 Sun 16-Jan-22 18:30:59

But Annie, some of the girls recruited by Maxwell and others, were 14

Caleo Sun 16-Jan-22 12:38:33

"Let’s not speak of prostitution on the same thread about sexually abused 14 year olds." (Anniebach)

Yes, but what is most concerning about the Prince Andrew story is that there seems to be a sort of man or woman who regards the weak and the poor as things to be used.

To sexually abuse a 14 year old girl, or any other abuse of the weak by the strong, you would have to have a queer idea of morality. It's the queer idea itself that is evil.

Anniebach Sun 16-Jan-22 11:04:46

Let’s not speak of prostitution on the same thread about sexually abused 14 year olds.

Rosina Sun 16-Jan-22 09:21:22

Whitewavemark2 I hadn't seen this published in the press - where was it reported that 5 million pounds has been turned down?

Iam64 Sun 16-Jan-22 08:44:52

Would any of us want our daughters or sons to be sex workers? I certainly would not, it’s dangerous and degrading

Caleo Sun 16-Jan-22 00:27:03

PS There are people who imagine they are a class of person who has a right to seduce and otherwise use a lower class of person. NB Epstein and Murdoch did not employ rich or well -connected girls as their masseuses.

Caleo Sun 16-Jan-22 00:22:12

Trisher, if a sex worker can freely choose as a responsible adult to sell sex then she or he should be amply paid for this risky profession.

I am not saying that sex work is risky because it's immoral I am saying it should be rewarded with danger money. Most sex workers are so poorly paid it's the last sort of manual work most people would choose. Epstein' s girl masseuses were unlikely to have been adequately compensated either for their work, or for having been seduced by Maxwell.

Anniebach Sat 15-Jan-22 19:48:33

It is worth a thread of its own

Iam64 Sat 15-Jan-22 19:28:34

You’re right trisher, that’s an area that can challenge parents and support workers. It’s maybe worth a thread of its own - some time in the future

trisher Sat 15-Jan-22 19:21:08

I think I agree with you Caleb and certainly as far as other people selling anyone's body or mind. I do think there is a grey area (and it doen't really apply on this thread) but it is something I was discusing the other day, for some disabled people purchasing sex is the only way they will ever experience it. Is it right to prevent them doing so because of our moral principals?
Ignore this perhaps ,it isn't relevant to Epstein and off the subject.

Galaxy Sat 15-Jan-22 19:02:43

Yes its brilliant. I am nicking that.

Iam64 Sat 15-Jan-22 19:01:56

Caleb, that’s an interesting and accurate way to describe sex ‘work’

VioletSky Sat 15-Jan-22 17:25:46

I understand Caleo

Caleo Sat 15-Jan-22 17:16:38

Violet Sky, thanks for your nice reply, which I understand. I am not usually so meddlesome, only I have experienced that very thing.

Caleo Sat 15-Jan-22 17:12:56

VioletSky
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It's bad enough all those being paid £90 pounds an hour just to shout at the poor sod being paid £10 an hour to work his butt off just to keep himself in food and shelter. Even though without his hard work you'd have nothing because the world is so backwards....

But selling someone elses body? And earning £90 to their £10?

Thats disgusting"

Manual labour is selling your bodily strength and energy, but selling sex is something more than manual labour.

Sex is more than a body activity, its also a mind activity, and it's wrong to buy and sell minds.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 15-Jan-22 14:30:16

?VS

VioletSky Sat 15-Jan-22 14:09:05

Germansheppherdsmum

It's OK, don't worry

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 15-Jan-22 14:07:26

I know what capitalism is VS but don’t see the relevance unless you simply mean some people are richer than others, well of course they are. It doesn’t mean they are all Epsteins. I’m not badly off but am not a Maxwell.

VioletSky Sat 15-Jan-22 12:55:30

Caleo

Violet Sky , you should immediately stop saying sorry for what is not your fault . This may possibly insult your husband as it might seem you expect him to blame you. Please, just don't say that word.

It doesn't upset him, he knows everything about me and he knows it is a type of complex ptsd. We have an absolutely amazing relationship that has so far lasted more than 2 decades.

Its a reflex much like flinching if something flies towards your face.

I am and will continue to try and heal it but it's not possible to just stop and placing that level of expectation on myself would actually make it worse

Caleo Sat 15-Jan-22 12:20:20

Violet Sky , you should immediately stop saying sorry for what is not your fault . This may possibly insult your husband as it might seem you expect him to blame you. Please, just don't say that word.

VioletSky Sat 15-Jan-22 10:56:26

It's called capitalism

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 15-Jan-22 10:00:00

VioletSky

It's bad enough all those being paid £90 pounds an hour just to shout at the poor sod being paid £10 an hour to work his butt off just to keep himself in food and shelter. Even though without his hard work you'd have nothing because the world is so backwards....

But selling someone elses body? And earning £90 to their £10?

Thats disgusting

You've lost me there. Who are these people?

Anniebach Sat 15-Jan-22 09:02:27

Yes we can all surmise

Kathy73 Sat 15-Jan-22 07:26:02

Anniebach

Can anyone do so ?

One can surmise quite a bit based on his actions, his convictions and his victims statements

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