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To party or not?

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Bellab Tue 04-Jan-22 17:48:50

Have a 70th birthday party planned for the 22nd January,having doubts about people wanting to mix. Would you attend a party for approximately 120 people ? Need to make a decision!

FannyCornforth Wed 05-Jan-22 08:15:31

LuccaI was at hospital a while back.
Only two people were allowed in the large lifts, signs were very visible.
I got in the lift on my own, mask on, of course.
Just as the doors were closing, a family of three (sans masks) marched into the (^my^) lift.
I walked out, and as I did, they gave me a right dirty look!

Lucca Wed 05-Jan-22 08:11:18

Slightly off topic but can you believe this, my bloke was having a coffee and sandwich sitting at an outside table the other day when two women came and asked if they could sit at his table ……they seemed very surprised when he said no, it would be too close.

FannyCornforth Wed 05-Jan-22 08:10:24

Good! smile
I’m very pleased for you, I would have been worried sick.

Bellab Wed 05-Jan-22 07:51:47

Thank you for your comments,with which I totally agree. It is my husband's party and he was unconvinced. Now with relief,it's cancelled.

maddyone Tue 04-Jan-22 23:37:41

No, I’m afraid I wouldn’t at the moment. I’d deliver a card and gift to the house in the morning and not attend the party later in the day.

Shelflife Tue 04-Jan-22 22:47:39

And another definite no from me , far too risky !

BigBertha1 Tue 04-Jan-22 22:38:33

Bella I would regard this whole year as your special birthday year and rebook your party for later on in the year.

mokryna Tue 04-Jan-22 22:30:49

No, I wouldn’t go to any party, wait a year.

Feelingmyage55 Tue 04-Jan-22 22:26:20

Postpone it and have it midsummer. You’ll be 70 for 365 days. Celebrate when everyone can join in.

silverlining48 Tue 04-Jan-22 22:22:05

And a no from me too but have a happy birthday anyway.

JenniferEccles Tue 04-Jan-22 22:19:21

No from me too.
Unanimous on GN!!
Quite rare isn’t it??

Beswitched Tue 04-Jan-22 22:06:26

Absolutely not.

Forsythia Tue 04-Jan-22 21:49:57

I think it would be a very unwise decision to go ahead.

muse Tue 04-Jan-22 21:48:03

No.

Our monthly craft group meeting, which should have been tonight, was cancelled even though we are all sat for three hours and only mingle during the tea/coffee break. It usually has about 40 attending. We cancelled the one last month and that was the Christmas one.

Grannybags Tue 04-Jan-22 21:39:12

It's a no from me too I'm afraid

NotTooOld Tue 04-Jan-22 21:28:24

No, sorry. Hold it over until the spring. Things will get better.

Ro60 Tue 04-Jan-22 19:18:53

Sorry - another No - already turned down a Christmas party with C 50 invited. Yet to find out if it happen or how many attended.

LauraNorderr Tue 04-Jan-22 18:56:01

No, no and thrice no.

Urmstongran Tue 04-Jan-22 18:47:37

Erm ... I didn’t mean they were 3’ tall. ?

Urmstongran Tue 04-Jan-22 18:46:55

I’d hang fire. I’m happy to be out & about in bars/restaurants at present but they have small attendees socially distanced.

We are attending a family funeral on Thursday. Himself reminded me earlier today ‘no hugs and kisses’. Sad, as I haven’t seen some of these people in ever such a long time, but sensible.

Sparklefizz Tue 04-Jan-22 18:44:09

BellaB NO!! Have you seen the latest rocketing infection figures? A party would be a super-spreader event!!

Daisymae Tue 04-Jan-22 18:41:01

Only if I wanted Covid. Apparent 1 person in 25 is infected so it's your opportunity to host a super spreader event.

Kim19 Tue 04-Jan-22 18:38:29

Agree with Chestnut and hang fire on a decision if that's possible. The numbers may reduce considerably to within your feel safe level. Good luck!

Pepper59 Tue 04-Jan-22 18:37:42

No, on another note and just with Gagajo's post. People I know who acquired Covid, were at weddings. It is a shame for people but I think at the moment large numbers of people are not a good idea.

Hetty58 Tue 04-Jan-22 18:37:36

Bellab, NO - we're still in the middle of a pandemic FGS!