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Good Morning Saturday 8th January 2022

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Michael12 Sat 08-Jan-22 06:04:28

Good Morning Everyone,
Its a dark, and a wet morning here in brackley this morning.
Todays plans are to go via Buckingham to Bicester and return direct .
I will have a breakfast bap in the bakery cafe I use in Bicester plus a coffee ,and then a small shop.
Later I will have my usual Saturday Chinese , mind you I wanted my regular Fish & Chip shop take away yesterday , but it was closed due to a family member having Covid .
Take Care,
Mick

Pittcity Sat 08-Jan-22 09:02:47

Good morning from rainy Colchester.
I've caught up with my washing and the new dehumidifier is busy drying it in the spare room. I'll check the smart meter later to see if it is as economical as claimed.
DD1 is bringing the boys over this afternoon. They can finally open their Christmas presents now that they are Covid free.
Lots of love to all ? x

Susan56 Sat 08-Jan-22 09:01:26

Crossed posts Mary.Glad you were able to have a long discussion with the dr and that even though the news wasn’t all positive that you are further forward than you were?

Susan56 Sat 08-Jan-22 08:55:18

Good morning from Shropshire.Heavy rain at the moment.

I had a lovely day out yesterday with DD and DGD.I enjoyed the cinema,there were only about 12 in there then onto lunch where we were the only people in the restaurant for most of the time.Then shopping.I was exhausted at the end of it all and in bed by 9!

Ash, we had a similar scenario at the church where we take Henry to playgroup.There just wasn’t enough income to keep on a permanent member of staff and his role has now been filled by several volunteers.Very sad.

Stilllearning, thinking of your DD and your family today?

Gingster, also thinking of your DD and hoping the consultants have a plan in place to sort things out as quickly as possible?

Hoping Marydoll had a successful appointment yesterday???and thoughts with Mattie and her husband?

Urms, we(me) are seriously considering a post Christmas break to Spain this year??

Thinking of GrannySomerset and her DH?and all with worries and struggles??

Jaxjacky Sat 08-Jan-22 08:51:32

Thanks for your post Urms, we can vicariously ‘share’ your trip.
Very touching Stilllearning and rather lovely ?.
Not what you wanted to hear Gingster but I’m sure there’ll be a way forward, enjoy today.

Marydoll Sat 08-Jan-22 08:49:18

Good morning all from a very wet Glasgow.

Thanks Pants and Urms for the travel insurance info. The query arose after DH and I were having a conversation about whether travel insurance covers Covid or do you pay extra. Unfortunately, it won't affect us, since none of the specialist insurers will insure me nowadays!
Tiggy, I have a small watchmakers toolkit, which has a tool for opening backs, but have one cheap watch, I have never been able to open.

Thank you to all to those kind Goodmorningers who wished me well for my appointment, I was a bit overwhelmed, to say the least.
Unsurprisingly our trip yesterday was horrendous, two hours to travel 12 miles. DH said it was the worst driving conditions, he had experienced in twenty years! The road hadn’t been gritted and cars were sliding everywhere in the snow, plus it was dark and snowing. We saw the first gritter on our way home at 11.30 am. ? I'm guessing staff shortages due to Covid are the cause.
The dreaded junction was gridlocked, we counted six traffic light changes there and no-one moved at all. When the lights changed again, DH ended up facing sideways! ?
We had three near misses, I have never been so scared in my life. Poor unflappable DH was chalk white. He was determined to get me to my appointment. #myhero

To make matters worse, I had the first appointment, but when I tried to phone the hospital to say what had happened, my phone didn’t work, it was totally flat, despite it being on charge all night.
This is the very fraught conversation we had, after not moving for twenty minutes.

Me to DH: Where is the charging bank I gave you to keep in your car for emergencies?
DH: What charging bank?
Me: The one I bought for you to put in your car.
DH, I don’t know what you are talking about
Me –-through clenched teeth.-- Ok, where is the spare charging cable, I suggested you keep in your car? I can plug my phone into the USB port.
DH, I don’t have a charging cable in my car.
Me, very smugly I have both a cable and charging bank in MY car!
DH, well, we are in MY car and I DON’T have one.

At that point I decided that discretion was the better part of valour and zipped it! wink
However, I could have wept with frustration, since I have waited two years for this appointment and could see the hospital in the distance. So near, but yet so far.. ?

Eventually arriving at the hospital, we found only patients were being allowed in and the social distancing barriers had been reinstalled. Poor DH was not allowed to accompany me to the clinic, the security guard eventually allowed him to sit in the foyer. I got to the clinic to find there were no patients and only two nurses. The consultant was stranded somewhere in the snow, as were most of the staff.
I overheard the receptionist on the phone, saying We have one, we have a patient!.
The staff were so kind to me, as I was very flustered and breathless, saying I had nothing to apologise for. Eventually a doctor appeared and explained that my consultant was missing in action, but he was happy to see me instead.

Due to the lack of patients, I had a very lengthy appointment, so the snow had actually been an advantage.
He diagnosed a major RA flare up, explained the months of awful 'flu like symptoms were part of it and injected me with steroids there and then. His suspicion was that, as with his other immunocompromised patients, the Covid vaccines had compromised my medication and stopped it doing it’s job. In addition, he will organise and appointment for steroid injections in my elbow and hands.

It sort of went downhill after that. He agreed that I was very unwell and something untoward is going on, with either my lungs or heart, so further investigations await me. I had a huge shock when he mentioned a further heart problem, discovered after my latest heart attack, that I knew nothing about! My cardiologist had never mentioned it. ?
RA is the culprit again!

Also, he managed to persuade the short-staffed x-ray department to do some x-rays while I was there, rather than me having to come back. I have rarely come across such a courteous doctor, it was heartening to see the way he spoke to both me and his colleagues.
Curious about the sign the radiographer had put on the door of my changing cubicle, it was only later, after I came out of the cubicle, that I noticed it said Sheilding patient. Worrying, but reassuring in a perverse way to see so many Covid measures back in place.

What surprised me was that the doctor was able to tell me how many lateral flow tests I had done and mentioned the PCR I had, due to DS having Covid, advising me that I still had to be extremely careful.
I did get brownie points for trying to keep myself safe and testing often!!! The wonders of modern technology! Big Brother is indeed watching me! ?

He suggested increasing my Fentanyl patch dosage, to get some relief. I declined saying that it would make me woozy and unable to function. I burst out laughing when he said in will it make you doolally? I hadn't heard that word in years! grin
Not surprisingly it wasn't the best of news, but I am further forward than I was previously. The most important part was I could actually discuss the implications and prognosis face to face.

On the way home, we stopped off at Morrisons for a small shop, which turned into a very large one, as I haven’t been in a supermarket for some time. The shelves were quite bare, but what was there seemed to have jumped considerably in price. ?
I did get next year’s religious Christmas cards for 30p a box, a pack of vegetables for soup at 20p, a turnip for 11p, six dessert apples for 32p ( apple crumble for DH) and a few other reduced items. grin My world was back in equilibrium, I had managed to get some bargains!
I did negate my frugality, when I treated myself to flowers, a magazine and a piece of chocolate cheesecake, which definitely cost more than what I had saved! I am living for the moment!!!

Enjoy your takeaway Mick, we are having fakeaway tonight, I'm becoming quite an expert at it! ?
Special thoughts and prayers for GSomerset, such a difficult time. So many on this thread with health and family worries, I hope, as I do, you find that the friendship here is of comfort to you.
Whatever your plans, make the best of it, we never know what's ahead of us!
Please feel free to ignore and gloss over my indulging ramblings. I just need to get it out my system and don't want to worry my children, just yet.
Happy Saturday, everyone!

Chrissielou Sat 08-Jan-22 08:48:00

It is a grey, wet and cold morning in our rural West Oxfordshire village. Soup making for me too this morning, more batch cooking for DD and children and a chilly walk with dog. Will light the fire this afternoon and brighten a dark dismal day with candles and firelight.
Thoughts go to those who are finding life a struggle, it is sad to hear that there are so many mums in the same position as I am, with AC and DsiL going through such difficult times and facing treatment we never imagined they would need to endure. I want to thank those who have reached out and shown me such kindness, I'm so grateful.

Urmstongran Sat 08-Jan-22 08:44:31

Thank you Grandmajean. I know my posts can be a bit much for some. It’s certainly not ‘where I live and the weather’.
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I’m very sorry to hear that wider margins will need to be taken from your daughter Gingster. Upsetting for your family but soon all will be well and she will be allowed to heal. x

That was poignant Stilllearning about the baby and cherry blossom. I’d not heard that before. ?

Anniebach Sat 08-Jan-22 08:42:30

Good morning Auntyflo and all x

baubles Sat 08-Jan-22 08:42:14

Good morning Mick, morning all from South Lanarkshire. Looks like it has been raining but there’s still a lot of ice and frozen snow on our street.

Stilllearning flowers

Sorry to hear that you have had a bad night Mattie, lack of sleep makes everything more difficult.

I took your advice yesterday Kalu, see photo smile.

I really hope I’m going to be well enough to start my new job on Monday, I think my chest feels lighter this morning, hard to tell till I start moving.

Wishing everyone a peaceful day.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 08-Jan-22 08:38:34

Morning Mick and all

It’s grey and damp outside in S E Essex.

Gingster your DD is really going through a rough time with her mole, I do hope it’s sorted soon ?

Dear Urmstongran your delight in being back in Spain shone through your post, enjoy your paseo stroll and the sparkling Mediterranean.

Will pop down the other end of my road to the butchers and Sainsbury’s local this morning, after that the sofa is reserved for me and my book…

(((Hugs))) to all our.morning friends with troubles ??Hope your RA consult when ok Marydoll

Keep safe and well folks ?‍♀️?

Urmstongran Sat 08-Jan-22 08:33:11

Here we go. ?

Grandmajean Sat 08-Jan-22 08:32:06

Good morning from Cheshire.
Sorry to hear Gingster that some cancer cells remain after your daughter's mole removal. There will be a plan to get rid of the rest of them I'm sure. Best wishes.
What a lovely way to remember a lost baby Stilllearning
I can hear rain outside so won't be going far today. No shopping needed so will only go for a walk if it clears up.
Enjoyed your chatty post Urmstongran

brook2704 Sat 08-Jan-22 08:26:59

Good morning everyone from a very rainy and cold Inverness where it’s just getting light. Good to hear you’ve arrived safely Urms and enjoy getting settled back in
Stilllearning sending gentle hugs on this very special day for you and your DD
A difficult situation Ashcombe but pleased that the lady accepted it well
No plans for us yet today, yesterday we had a last minute request to pick up the DGC from school as their dad had been delayed at work. Brrr it was cold though standing outside waiting but that didn’t matter when they came running out to greet us - priceless!
Thinking of everyone with worries and struggles, hope today is gentle and take care all whatever the day brings ?

Grandmabatty Sat 08-Jan-22 08:24:41

Stilllearning ? for your daughter and you. Urms good to hear from you in sunny Spain. Enjoy the Mediterranean sea, you lucky woman.

kittylester Sat 08-Jan-22 08:22:54

Good morning all from North Leicestershire.

A slow start for us but we are collecting Bertie and the construction present we bought Jim for Christmas. As he is here, we will have sausage sandwiches for lunch. grin

I am looking forward to getting back into a normal rhythm again. So, a walk into the village for flowers and bits and bobs is on the cards.

Sending hugs to everyone who needs them.

Urmstongran Sat 08-Jan-22 08:21:13

“Oh what a beautiful morning, oh what a beautiful day. “ ? ?

Good morning everyone from Malaga! We had a great journey. Manchester airport was very quiet - it was sad to see. You don’t realise how much the travel industry has been decimated until you use it, IYSWIM. We had booked aisle seats on the plane and no one sat next to us!

What we did notice, post EU uncoupling 1 January this year, was that after duty free perfumes, the cabin crew pushed a cart out with cigarettes & spirits to buy! Whisky sir?

The trek through Malaga airport wasn’t for the faint hearted - the walkway was uphill and down dale. But at passport control there was no queue. Brilliant.

We walked across the concourse, bought Renfe tickets for the train and it arrived in 5 minutes. Perfect timing. 6 stops later we alighted the train and in our ‘hood dived into Pedro’s corner bar where I had a welcome G&T. Bigger measures of gin out here in your drink that’s for sure!

Are you still with me Dear Reader or am I boring you to death with the minutiae of my witterings?

For those who are still with me ? ... we slept like logs a full 8 hours. I’ve got a cuppa in bed. Himself is ‘pottering’. They do say opposites attract don’t they? He just said “after 3 months away you forget where everything is!”. True. Each cupboard seems to surprise him. He’s checked what we have in the drinks cupboard - “oh I forgot we bought this bottle of Tanqueray gin last time”. I’m happy just to discover things at my leisure but he’s on a mission!

So this morning will be spent getting shoes out of boxes, sorting out clothes for winter in the drawers - I can safely put away my sarongs and flip flops - to get a bit organised. This afternoon I want to stroll along the paseo. I want to see the sparkling Mediterranean up close and watch the noisy parakeets in the palm trees! Those birds lift my spirits every time.

I’m joyous to be back. Enjoy Saturday all who can. I hope your rheumatology appointment went well Marydoll. Here’s Matt. Actually, I’ll post it separately in case I lose this. x

Gingster Sat 08-Jan-22 08:18:54

Good morning all from a very damp Essex.

Dd was told yesterday that there are still some cancer cells on her mole site. She has had a big area removed, so we hoped it was clear. She has to go back next week to see what the next step is. ??.

Eldest Gd is coming for lunch today, before she goes back to Uni next week. DD and family will come too and DS1 and family will pop in later to see her, so we’ll have a jolly time which will be good for us all.

Enjoy your last week of sunshine Pants and we look forward to hearing from Urms with Spanish tales to cheer us.

GranMattie - grief certainly takes its toll. Time will ‘help’ to heal. ?

Wishing you all a gentle day. ??

Ladyleftfieldlover Sat 08-Jan-22 08:17:53

Hello everyone . I had a quick look outside and my village in West Oxfordshire looks damp and bleak! I slept well last night after the shenanigans of the night before when I was up half the night with a horrendously bad tummy. A quiet day today, I think. I have bits of WI admin to do - we have decided not to have our January meeting. The average age of our members is well over 70 and the Covid rates are very high in this area. Toad in the hole is on the menu tonight so I will make that and find a recipe for a pudding for tomorrow. Steamed treacle pudding?

Gwenisgreat1 Sat 08-Jan-22 08:15:48

Good morning all from dark and promising to rain Harrogate.
I didn’t get to Knaresborough yesterday- it was too icy For me. Might try again today.
Hope you got a re-assuring consultation yesterday Marydoll
You will be well away from the UKs horrible weather now Urms I do envy you and Pantglas. It is years (about 3) since I’ve been to Spain, mind you when I was there we had the heaviest rain I’ve had for about 20 years!
Thinking of you grannysomerset
Hope everyone has the best day possible.

Ashcombe Sat 08-Jan-22 08:14:27

A poignant post, Stillearning, but such beautiful ways of remembering a very sad time for all the family. Thinking of you and your DD.

ginny Sat 08-Jan-22 08:01:29

Good morning from a dull and breezy N. Bucks.
Small local food shop today and then hoping to take a short walk with DD2. She is feeling a bit better now and is desperate to get outside.
Wishing you all the best day possible.

Grandmabatty Sat 08-Jan-22 08:00:51

Good morning from Polmont where it's still dark and looks wet outside. I will go out to Aldi in a while for a small shop. I've nothing else planned. Have a good day all

Grammaretto Sat 08-Jan-22 07:59:36

Photo?

Grammaretto Sat 08-Jan-22 07:58:29

Good morning everyone from the Scottish Borders where it has just stopped raining. This is good because the roof man is coming to inspect my latest leak, this morning.
I am invited out for lunch but must make a pudding because I offered!
Scentia I am glad you are almost done with the isolating. Where do you get the test kits? Our chemists have notices saying they have none .
So Pantglas and Urms will be passing in the sky today. There's a thought smile
Thinking of all those with pain of body or heart.
Here is a view from my snowy walk yesterday.

Stilllearning Sat 08-Jan-22 07:54:20

Morning from wet S Lanarkshire where I hope the rain washes away all the snow before it freezes over and makes the roads even more tricky.

This would have been youngest DD’s first baby’s 12th birthday. She was ‘born sleeping’ as they say now, and I will meet DD and her family for a walk they do every year to mark her birthday. They are very fortunate to have had two more lovely children since then but Grace remains their precious firstborn. They have cherry blossom tiles in their kitchen representing something beautiful that doesn’t remain for long.

Hoping for as peaceful as possible day for everyone ???