After splitting from my ex husband, I tried several of the dating sites but never seemed to meet anyone that seemed to be my Mr Right for one reason or another. Fast forward a year and I was somewhat despairing of the situation, vowing if things didn't improve and I reached 50 dates, then that would be it, I'd just give up on meeting anyone else and focus on the single life. With that number ever looming, I was hardly optimistic when I agreed to meet up for a drink with Mr L, we'd been chatting online on Plenty of Fish for a while but as he lived a hour and a half a way, distance was going to be an issue. Well we did meet up, just clicked and turned out he was my "sole mate" after all. We've been together 14 years now and number wise he was number 49, so he just made it (not that I ever told him that of course)!