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Hats on newborn babies

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Baggs Sat 12-Mar-22 11:19:30

Noticing that in friends' shared pics of newborn grandkids or great nephews/nieces the babies nearly always have a hat on. Is this a new thing? Mine never wore hats indoors.

AmberSpyglass Sun 13-Mar-22 22:17:48

As anyone who watched the West Wing will know, babies come with hats. (That scene always makes me cry!)

Baggs Sun 13-Mar-22 17:57:24

Well said, oodles. That reminds me of what my mother said the first time she held DD2: "smells just like baby" ?

oodles Sun 13-Mar-22 17:03:21

There are some reasons ot to put hats on healthy full term babies, in circumstances you'd not put a wooly hat on yourself, ba ies can overheat and it blocks the scent of the baby and actually being able to smell the lovely newborn scent is important for triggering the mothering hormones, www.bellybelly.com.au/baby/no-hats-on-newborn-babies/

Callistemon21 Sun 13-Mar-22 15:46:56

Most adults have hair (not all)
Many babies do not (mine did)

Baggs Sun 13-Mar-22 15:41:45

I think it helps children slightly older than tiny babies to wear a hat if their parent(s) do too. Never had any trouble with mine because I wouldn't ask them to wear a hat if I didn't. Most adults nowadays go hatless nearly all the time.

Callistemon21 Sun 13-Mar-22 15:32:52

SueDonim

People in the UK have gone back to a carrycot-on-wheels type of pram now. I remarked to my dd about it and she said it’s because they recommend that small babies don’t stay in their car seats beyond a car journey, they should lie flat when taken out. There’s a small risk of them dying in a car seat. sad

Yes, I remember when this happened to a baby near here and my friend said her DD had been warned about it soon after when she was buying a car seat.

New style carry cots can be fastened correctly into the cars with restraining straps.

SachaMac Sun 13-Mar-22 13:20:56

Years ago babies wore quite close fitting knitted bonnets, baby boys had little helmet shaped bonnets with flaps going over their ears. My mum used to say if babies wore a bonnet when out in their pram they wouldn’t get sticky out ears hmm it seems to have worked for me smile

SueDonim Sun 13-Mar-22 13:20:30

People in the UK have gone back to a carrycot-on-wheels type of pram now. I remarked to my dd about it and she said it’s because they recommend that small babies don’t stay in their car seats beyond a car journey, they should lie flat when taken out. There’s a small risk of them dying in a car seat. sad

nanna8 Sun 13-Mar-22 06:38:35

They don’t have prams anymore here, only lowline pushers for getting in and out of the car. A shame really because my babies used to love gazing out at the sky and the trees. Sometimes I would attach a branch for them to watch or bat their arms at.

SueDonim Sat 12-Mar-22 20:55:38

pinkprincess

I hate the fashion of putting baby girls into ridiculous headbands from birth, some of them with a huge flower on top I think they are very dangerous as well.
Also pram hoods trimmed with fur, stupid in the summer.

And winter - rain and snow! grin Why does a pram need to keep warm anyway? It surely doesn’t have feelings?

The furry prams here, which are usually white faux leather, generally contain a baby dressed in frills & furbelows and hats - yes hats! - adorned with swansdown, lace and ribbons. The blankets are also those funny old satiny things, also bedecked with ribbons and lace and edged with frills. I always wonder where they buy them because I haven’t seen one in a baby shop for decades.

ElaineI Sat 12-Mar-22 20:36:37

I often wonder about headbands as personally I can't stand them round my head - I get a headache!
All DGC wear hats on cold days - it is a few degrees colder in Scotland. I can't remember much about DC though DS was a January baby and it was snowing a lot so I expect he did have a hat. Had a big Silver Cross pram so they were all quite protected. Walked for miles with the pram in those days as no car.

Callistemon21 Sat 12-Mar-22 20:24:32

pinkprincess

I hate the fashion of putting baby girls into ridiculous headbands from birth, some of them with a huge flower on top I think they are very dangerous as well.
Also pram hoods trimmed with fur, stupid in the summer.

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pinkprincess Sat 12-Mar-22 20:19:21

I hate the fashion of putting baby girls into ridiculous headbands from birth, some of them with a huge flower on top I think they are very dangerous as well.
Also pram hoods trimmed with fur, stupid in the summer.

Zoejory Sat 12-Mar-22 18:53:51

None of my children would tolerate anything on their heads. I tried and tried when going out in the middle of winter but they weren't having it. Even when very tiny. Thankfully they all made it to adulthood.

JenniferEccles Sat 12-Mar-22 18:50:43

Oh yes those awful headbands.
Dare I say you can get a pretty accurate idea of the class of the mother of the babies sporting one.

Absolutely not politically correct to say so of course but true nevertheless.

lixy Sat 12-Mar-22 18:27:28

GD3 born 5 weeks ago at full term wore a hat for the first week. Loads of hair!
Also no bath for the first week or so - so that all the micronutrients from the waxy skin covering could be absorbed into her skin apparently.
My Chn were deprived of all these advantages!

Luckygirl3 Sat 12-Mar-22 18:15:31

Ah - I see Grannypiper has covered this.

Luckygirl3 Sat 12-Mar-22 18:14:48

Being judgemental here, I too hate the stretchy headbands with a twee rosebud decoration. Every time I see them I worry about them being put down to sleep with it on and it slipping down round their neck. Anxious mother - moi?

Chestnut Sat 12-Mar-22 17:40:10

Yes, the hats and headbands are mostly used for decorative purposes which is awful for a newborn. I have almost cried seeing some babies muffled up in hot weather (and pressed up to dad in a sling during a heatwave!) and then other babies outside in sub-zero temperatures with no hat and legs dangling. Some people really have no clue.

grannypiper Sat 12-Mar-22 17:34:24

Those headbands are so dangerous, at least one baby has died because the band has slipped down when the baby has been sleeping.

Yammy Sat 12-Mar-22 17:23:42

One of my GC was born in Asia they had a hat and what looked like boxing gloves on until they left the hospital. I presume the mittens were to stop them scratching themselves but hats in the tropics? It wasn't DD's fault the clothes were supplied by the hospital.

Shelflife Sat 12-Mar-22 17:13:11

Hate those stretchy headbands! Ridiculous things. Although they are soft I feel it must be a constant pressure on a baby 's head!
As for babies not wearing a hat outside, don't get me going !! They need a hat in the winter to preserve heat and a sun hat in hot weather.

AGAA4 Sat 12-Mar-22 16:45:23

None of my older GCs wore hats when newborn but my youngest one did.

welbeck Sat 12-Mar-22 16:34:50

maybe it helps the babies to feel more secure, having recently emerged from the warmth and closeness of the womb.
akin to swaddling maybe ?

Farzanah Sat 12-Mar-22 16:29:47

When I was working the advice was to remove babies hats when coming indoors, or into a warm environment such as a car, to prevent overheating.
There are NHS guidelines on prevention of SIDS.
This didn’t apply to premature babies.