Let them leave with a smile how about the 1812 overture.
My mum insisted no crying at my fathers funeral so I did the same at hers ' she had "Thine be the Glory risen conquering son'', by a Salvation Army choir, tambourines and all.I haven't decided mine yet but number one would be Edith Piaf "No regrets" accompanied by an accordion player.
My godfather in Oz had a selection of Scottish laments played by a piper.
It depends really on the personality of the person doesn't it. My DH says he wants his ashes scattered on the high fells , well if I'm still here I won't be giving myself an heart attack by fulfilling it my SIL will do it.
My father always said he wanted to go without any fuss on the Ash cart as they appropriately call it where he lived, instead he got the full Methodist works. Mine will go beside the sea and they can have " Oh'I do like to be beside the seaside" if they want to.
I strongly believe it's for those that are left to decide I won't know .
Angela Rayner lashes out and calls Sunak “pint sized loser”.