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Another case of cruelty

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MissAdventure Fri 25-Mar-22 10:14:08

It was very clear that she wanted to live with her dad.
I've no idea what possessed them to overrule her wishes, but she would still be alive if they had listened, without q doubt.

JaneJudge Fri 25-Mar-22 10:08:48

They must have had a best interests meeting? They are obsessed with having them. Surely part of that process was to ask Debbie what she wanted sad

MissAdventure Fri 25-Mar-22 10:07:25

It seems they were pretty involved at some point; empowering her to live as she chose, and to do what she wanted, then they stepped in and overruled her choice to live with her dad, who was perfectly happy to take her.

JaneJudge Fri 25-Mar-22 10:02:32

There is such an old fashioned and outdated rhetoric with respect to people with learning disabilities. If she was crying for attention and needed it, wouldn't that have shown her needs were not being met? hmm

Honestly the whole situation sounds just awful.

I wish I could say I don't understand how this has happened but unfortunately I know how as services have been cut so much and I suppose when many young people with MLD/SLD leave education they become invisible.

MissAdventure Fri 25-Mar-22 09:58:39

From what I have read, the "mother" just took the line of not opening the door, not attending appointments, and so, people just went away, time and again.

When social services gained access, and could hear the girl crying in her room, they accepted that she was doing it just for attention, as they were told.

JaneJudge Fri 25-Mar-22 09:55:01

God that's awful. That poor, poor girl sad

I wonder why the police were not called?

MissAdventure Fri 25-Mar-22 09:49:29

This young woman wanted to live with her dad, but social services wouldn't allow it.

She had friends, a boyfriend, and went to college and a day centre at one point.

Kate1949 Fri 25-Mar-22 09:46:58

Poor child. I read this week about a couple who were charged after letting their 16 year old daughter become morbidly obese. She died.

MissAdventure Fri 25-Mar-22 09:44:19

Oh, just realised it's a daily mail link.
Obviously, I only read it because I happened to be somewhere and needed to read something... blah blah.

This is a very watered down report, from what I understand.

MissAdventure Fri 25-Mar-22 09:41:02

I only heard about this a few days ago, so have been looking up some details on it.

Once again, social services were involved, and informed by family that they feared this young lady would die unless some intervention happened.

They closed the case multiple times, while this poor little soul suffered terribly.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10547705/Mother-slowly-starved-24-year-old-Downs-Syndrome-daughter-death-jailed.html