Happy Easter ? everybody!
On my own unfortunately today, but life does not always go to plan does it?
Bit of a saga coming, (apologies Marydoll for my version of a novella)
Middle daughter’s MIL has Alzheimer’s and is in a care home, v poorly. Yesterday morning she was taken to hospital with breathing difficulties, and it was looking bad so SIL, O immediately set off from Norfolk where they had been for the week. They were supposed to be coming to me for Easter but D rang yesterday morning to warn me. D still had the house to pack up plus GS Flynn and of course the dog as O was heading straight to the hospital. An added complication was that his Dad had just tested positive for Covid so was not going to be allowed to be with her.
I drove over to Norfolk (100+ miles) to find that SIL had arrived in London and rung to say they were fully expecting to be saying goodbye to his mum that afternoon/evening and she was being moved to the Margaret Centre - the hospice at Whipps Cross. She was on morphine and clearly on the way out, but bless her, she’s tougher than we thought.The good news was that despite testing positive they were letting SIL’s Dad in to be with her.
SIL, his Dad and his sister were taking shifts staying with her as only 1 family member is allowed at a time overnight.
I offered to drive N, F dog etc back to London so that they could be with SIL. . So off we set down the M11, (another 100+ miles) unpacked the car at their house only for Flynn to come out to see what we were doing when D and I were checking the car - and shut the front door behind him ( with D’s bag, purse and THE HOUSE KEYS inside ), Flynn in his socks too.
So off to Whipps Cross……
Home at 8 after nearly 7 hours driving and a lot of motorways and so grateful for my lovely neighbour who looked after Rosie for me.
(Anyone fancy a slow roast shoulder of lamb with pomegranate seeds and Tarte Tatin?)
Update this morning - D’s MIL is still with us but weakening and asleep/no longer conscious.
It is good that they can all be together, I know when Paw died we all gained so much comfort and support from being together with him at the end.
Sad to be alone but even sadder to know what they are going through today.
I hope your Easter is a happier one ?