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Becoming a Woman - Your first period?

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snowberryZ Sat 16-Apr-22 14:55:41

At what age did you transition from girlhood into womanhood?
I was a late bloomer and only started my periods at the age of 15.
I can remember feeling jealous of my friends who (in my eyes) were more grownup and were turning into real women before me and leaving me behind.
At the other end of the scale my menopause (another 'joy' of being a woman) started quite late. So I suppose these things balance out in the end.
What with pregnancy and childbirth the female body is a truly fascinating thing and has to go through a lot.
Men are lucky they don't have to go through these things.

How old were you when you started your periods?

Grandma70s Sat 16-Apr-22 16:43:36

Yes, we have had this topic before. I was 11, first in my form which made me a bit of a star. I don’t remember the start, but I do remember going to a remote cottage in Wales with a school friend and her mother in the following Easter holidays. I had to give the “corpses”, as she called them, to my friend’s mother to burn - there was no other way of disposing of them. I was embarrassed by this, and eventually hid the corpses in my suitcases and took them home. Luckily there was only light bleeding..

My granddaughter is nine, and her school friend, aged just ten, has already started her periods. Apparently this is quite common.

Septimia Sat 16-Apr-22 17:03:53

I must have been 12. I, too, hated the sanitary belts and the towels were so thick and awful! It was a great relief to move on to tampons.

It was an even greater relief to be without periods while pregnant and breastfeeding. I hated having periods full stop!

I can't remember when they finally stopped, but I was absolutely delighted.

Shinamae Sat 16-Apr-22 17:08:37

I was really quite late then at 15 starting my period, I always remember the great joy of Dr whites and the sanitary belt!! ?

Chewbacca Sat 16-Apr-22 17:22:23

Started at 13 and I had a naturally early menopause at 34 thank goodness. My GP offered me HRT to restart my periods. No thanks.

lemsip Sat 16-Apr-22 17:34:58

Yes Sallywally8 started a thread on 24FEB 2022......

Ladyleftfieldlover Sat 16-Apr-22 17:37:04

I was 12 when I started and 48 when I finished. During the final year or so my periods were every other month and absolutely flooding. My GP gave me some very strong hormones. I warned her they would cause migraines and she said not to worry! So, I had the worst migraine ever. I was then put on a milder tablet which did the trick and stopped the bleeding. I remember having to go home from work once or twice when I knew it wasn’t safe to stand up!

henetha Sat 16-Apr-22 17:57:10

I was 13. I remember it vividly. I'd had not been told anything and thought I was injured. Mum tore up an old sheet and I rode my bike to school as usual.
I was in the school choir and fainted mid-hymn, so got sent home in a taxi, only realising later that the back of my dress had a blood stain
showing. I was mortified.

Sparklefizz Sat 16-Apr-22 18:28:02

Aarrgh! Those sanitary belts! I had really heavy periods right from the start - a lot of flooding and leaking. My Mum made me wear some plastic pants which were horribly uncomfortable.

I had intermittent flooding all my life - embarrassing times when I would have to run out of a shop as it poured down my legs all of a sudden.

I could never risk wearing white trousers or skirt for about half of the month in case my period came early.

Jaxjacky Sat 16-Apr-22 19:14:17

First at 11, last at 51, I had no HRT and was fine, very lucky I think. Remember the old sanitary towels and the belt, got introduced by a friend to tampons age 14, thank goodness.

OurKid1 Sat 16-Apr-22 19:18:27

I was 11 when I started. It was a Tuesday and we had French and Double Art at school. Not sure why I remember those details, but I do! My mum's reaction was "Well, you know you can get pregnant now, don't you?" That was my parental sex education. Good job I knew about the birds and bees anyway, wasn't it?

MawtheMerrier Sat 16-Apr-22 21:04:13

lemsip

what again? this was an op just a few weeks ago!

Yes Lemsip , again ☹️☹️☹️
BTW did starting your periods automatically mark the transition to womanhood anyway?
Some girls start as young as 8.
IMO there’s more to it than that.

snowberryZ Sat 16-Apr-22 21:09:33

Starting periods plays a major part in becoming a Woman. It means your body is capable of growing a baby.

snowberryZ Sat 16-Apr-22 21:11:29

I read that weight can kick things off. Girls get to a certain weight and it can kick-start puberty.
I was a very skinny child so am wondering if that played a part in the fact I was a late starterconfused

snowberryZ Sat 16-Apr-22 21:12:45

what again? this was an op just a few weeks ago!

Does it really matter if we have the same subject twice ?

MawtheMerrier Sat 16-Apr-22 21:22:21

Yep- it gets monotonous.

MawtheMerrier Sat 16-Apr-22 21:23:20

snowberryZ

Starting periods plays a major part in becoming a Woman. It means your body is capable of growing a baby.

Really - who’d a thunk it?

PaperMonster Sat 16-Apr-22 21:38:06

I think I was about 12. Can’t remember. They have caused me no end of problems over the years for various reasons. I was on the pill for the last few years which stopped me from having periods, but stopped taking it as I had an injury and couldn’t drive to the clinic so couldn’t get them. Must sort that out and get some more. I’m 53 and still getting them.

MiniMoon Sat 16-Apr-22 21:39:48

I started my periods at school aged 13. The month was April.
I had my last period aged 53, the month was April.
So exactly 40 years from start to finish.

Grany Sat 16-Apr-22 21:46:10

15 to 52 sailed through menopause no problem

Redhead56 Sat 16-Apr-22 21:48:22

Just 14 was given ripped sheets until I got Dr Whites and belt. I sent my brother to the chemist with a note. I was told off because it wasn't for boys to know!

Curlywhirly Sat 16-Apr-22 22:53:42

I started a week after my 12th birthday and finished when I was 50 years old. I'm not sure weight had anything to do with when my periods started; I was skinny and about 7 stone when I started. I never had heavy periods, they only ever lasted 2 days, I counted myself as very lucky.

Luckygirl3 Sat 16-Apr-22 22:58:35

Two days!!! Mine lasted 10 - right from day one! I am green with envy. It was all a total blight on my life. They got even longer as I got older - envy

BlueSky Sat 16-Apr-22 23:07:39

A bit late to discuss periods on GN! All done and finished with!

Ragtime Sun 17-Apr-22 06:33:55

Well there are some who 'enjoy' talking about periods.....

snowberryZ Sun 17-Apr-22 07:26:09

MawtheMerrier

Yep- it gets monotonous.

Maybe its best not to read it?