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Harper Beckham

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Smurf52 Sun 17-Apr-22 13:58:45

Victoria and David Beckham have been trolled regarding their daughter being overweight. I just think it’s great that Victoria is letting her daughter eat what she wants and isn’t trying to influence her to go on faddy diets. It’ll be bad enough when the poor child is around 18 and there will be peer pressure to lose weight. I think she’s lovely and natural and her parents obviously adore her.

Callistemon21 Mon 18-Apr-22 10:38:47

Coastpath

Maddyone I'm not sure if I really know how to spot trolls. I thought I recognised all the names on this thread. I need to wise up and pay more attention!

I'd just like to say that I wasn't accusing of being a troll.

Trolling is rather different - it means joining in with very unpleasant comments on social media about people in this public eye and in this case it's worse because it is about a 10 year old child.

I'm shocked and I do think the whole thread should be deleted.

Trolling children is not what Gransnet should do, surely?

Callistemon21 Mon 18-Apr-22 10:39:59

Sorry, posted in haste.

I wasn't accusing a particular poster of being 'a troll'.

JaneJudge Mon 18-Apr-22 10:45:38

One of mine carried more weight than the others. Now as adults, he is much broader stature wise and much taller too. I think it was just how he was made. He is like a viking

JaneJudge Mon 18-Apr-22 10:48:09

I was going to add. I don't follow famous people online so I haven't seen any of these photos that apparently have been circulating but in the old days Hello magazine and that other one, is it OK magazine? always used to have regular photos of Royals and famous people in their beautiful homes with their beautiful families - which they got paid huge amounts of money for. Is it any different?

Rosalyn69 Mon 18-Apr-22 12:02:27

I noticed she had put on weight but it’s the sort of thing you notice about anyone. She looks a lovely normal little girl. Leave her alone.

maddyone Mon 18-Apr-22 12:29:44

Rosalyn69

I noticed she had put on weight but it’s the sort of thing you notice about anyone. She looks a lovely normal little girl. Leave her alone.

Has anyone been critical of Harper on Gransnet? I don’t think so.

harrysgran Mon 18-Apr-22 22:44:04

She looks natural and dressed age appropriately a lovely girl it's shameful anyone can be nasty and unkind towards a child

grannydarkhair Mon 18-Apr-22 22:56:52

maddyone If you look through the thread, you’ll see that a particular poster has had her comments removed.

maddyone Mon 18-Apr-22 23:06:59

Oh my goodness, I hadn’t noticed that. I can’t remember what she said although I did read the thread last night. Maybe I skimmed over those comments and didn’t really register them.
We should never be unkind about children nor make comments about their appearance. There can be unexpected consequences if the child overhears ie anorexia, bulimia, mental health difficulties, low self esteem etc.

grannydarkhair Mon 18-Apr-22 23:12:07

Completely agree. It’s bad enough being nasty about adults but shameless if done to children.

BlueSky Tue 19-Apr-22 08:41:00

Ladies (and gents), it wasn’t my intention to upset Harper or any other youngster. If I did then I was out of order and apologise.

Rosalyn69 Tue 19-Apr-22 10:00:28

I was addressing my “Leave her alone” comment as a general comment to trolls and not directed at anyone on gransnet.

BlueSky Tue 19-Apr-22 10:04:33

That’s OK Rosalyn my posts have been deleted as not ‘following guidelines’. I would never dream of ‘trolling’ anybody let alone children.

maddyone Tue 19-Apr-22 10:34:10

Don’t worry about it BlueSky.It’s over and done with now anyway.

BlueSky Tue 19-Apr-22 10:56:10

Thank you Maddy.

paddyann54 Tue 19-Apr-22 13:28:04

I really think "brand Beckham" should have kept their children out of the public eye .It can be done .Then they wouldn't have folk trolling their daughter .
I think Andy Murray has been very successful at keeping his family out of the limelight ,in fact I dont think I've ever seen any photos of his children in the media ..and I'm not even sure how many he has now .So well done to celebs who do realise their children shouldn't be used for publicity.If you use them for the cute factor you cant complain if people have a different opinion of them