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Things that annoy you that shouldn't

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Vintagejazz Tue 19-Apr-22 13:57:56

What really stupid things, that do not impact on your life, really annoy you?

For me:

The expression 'reach out'

People jumping into shorts and sun dresses the minute the temperature rises above 13 degrees

Signs with apostrophes in the wrong place.

Retired65 Wed 20-Apr-22 20:24:11

Also seeing babies, toddlers and children with dummies in their mouths. I always thought dummies were to help babies get to sleep!

Retired65 Wed 20-Apr-22 20:21:28

Use of the word 'guys', especially when there isn't a man in sight.

Musicgirl Wed 20-Apr-22 19:21:20

I realise I wrote loose twice. I meant, of course, muddling loose and lose. I agree with so many of these posts. Another Victoria Meldrew here. I was with my friend yesterday and we were addressed as “you guys.” We are ladies in our fifties. Surely “is everything alright?” is enough. Otherwise call us ladies. My bad and meh are real bugbears for me as they are so meaningless. I would never mention my irritation at euphemisms for death but I am always tempted to say “how careless of you” when someone mentions that they “lost Mother last year.”

SadieM Wed 20-Apr-22 19:21:03

Music everywhere ! Terrible street singers with loudspeakers, music in restaurant loos, music if you’re hanging on the phone , the assumption that everybody needs to listen to music if they’re out running , or doing anything in fact . Peace and quiet is good sometimes.

Jaxie Wed 20-Apr-22 19:19:28

Shelf after shelf of expensive ready meals in supermarkets; buy one get one free - it’s not free and I don’t want two. Animal print clothing.

MissAdventure Wed 20-Apr-22 18:54:02

People on mobility scooters who think they're at Brands Hatch instead of a shopping centre.

homefarm Wed 20-Apr-22 18:49:49

My neighbour's wind chimes and twinkly lights.
Island instead of IRELAND

Doglessfornow Wed 20-Apr-22 18:18:50

People who use their elbows to push supermarket trollies, I want to say “stand up straight, not slumped over the trolley handle” ugh!

Franbern Wed 20-Apr-22 18:06:06

The plastic 'sleeve' put on cucumbers. WHY????

Sheba Wed 20-Apr-22 18:02:55

The expression ‘for free’.......for nothing or free surely !

Nanny27 Wed 20-Apr-22 18:01:27

I can become unreasonably aggressive when I hear mischievous pronounced “mischeeveus”.

MissAdventure Wed 20-Apr-22 17:39:14

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Ah, the "pointy shoed b******s", as I've heard them referred to.

I know a man who gets ridiculously angry at seeing men with their jumpers arranged around their shoulders. Tied by the arms, with the main jumper part down their backs.

Vintagejazz Wed 20-Apr-22 17:20:54

Children as old as 4 or 5 still sucking soothers.

Middle aged people boasting about how 'wild' or 'rebellious' they were at school.

Men wearing tight fitting blue suits with brown pointy shoes.

Paperbackwriter Wed 20-Apr-22 17:20:16

People who constantly put apostrophes in plurals (or maybe I should have written plural's for those who find it all a mystery).
Those who say, "Can I get.." to a waiter
Anyone who pronounces aitch as Haitch.
"Passed" instead of died. I'll stop there or this will be a very long post.

dolphindaisy Wed 20-Apr-22 17:16:00

Agressive motorists driving right up behind me because I am sticking to the speed limit

The offspring of famouse parents being given lucrative modelling contracts.

Celebrity versions of quiz shows (especially when they show how ignorant they are)

People who don't know when to use "to" or "too"

The word "amazing"

Babies in pushchairs with pierced ears and silly headbands.

(Better stop now - in case I get RSI from typing the rest)

Candelle Wed 20-Apr-22 17:05:43

Almost too many to mention (and many already have):

To a waitress 'Can I get a whatever?'. Yes, of course you can. I think you mean 'please may I have a whatever?'

'So' at the beginning of every sentence (so seems to be displacing 'basically'.)

Spitting on the pavement. Surely runners could find room for a tissue twixt Lycra and skin.

'Haich', although I have been told that pronunciation of this varies from both varying regions and religions.

'Should of' instead of 'should have'.

The creeping use of 'shh' where there is just an s, For example, conSHUme.

The use of young 'with it' BBC continuity announcers whose English and pronunciation is appalling (I know, I know, I sound really old-fashioned but the young man I am thinking of doesn't pronounce the ends of words and slurs. We shout at the radio and TV!)

Lindylou57 Wed 20-Apr-22 16:48:48

People, all people, young,old whatever. I find I have no patience as I get older. Except my Grandaughter who is perfect!

SachaMac Wed 20-Apr-22 16:46:15

I can’t abide people who push quite big children around sitting right inside the supermarket trolley with their filthy shoes all over the place where people have to put their food when they’ve finished with it, it just shouldn’t be allowed.
Middle aged couples who start canoodling in the supermarket queue, yuk! Wait till you get home.
People driving mobility scooters right up the middle of the road totally oblivious to the fact there is a line of cars behind them trying to get somewhere in a hurry.
I’m another who can’t abide people saying ‘can I get’ in shops/bars etc and I’m not going to lie (why would you) but I really don’t mind the term ‘passed away’ rather than ‘died’, my Grandma always said it, doesn’t bother me at all.

MissAdventure Wed 20-Apr-22 16:36:42

Oh now that really gets my goat!

albertina Wed 20-Apr-22 16:35:17

Parents who fail to make eye contact with their tiny children because they are too busy on their phones.

MissAdventure Wed 20-Apr-22 16:24:29

Round here we say "I'm gaaan a shop, do ya wan anyfink?'

posset Wed 20-Apr-22 16:21:11

People who write "should of" instead of "should have". Estate Agents (mostly) who describe a house "comprising of". People who punctuate their speech with "like" about 10 times in a sentence. People at the supermarket checkout who hold you up while they fumble around for their credit card right at the end - why don't they ensure it is handy whilst waiting in the queue?
blah blah blah....................................

Battersea1971 Wed 20-Apr-22 16:21:04

People who say somethink

bridie54 Wed 20-Apr-22 16:15:35

Mollygo I just saw your post.
Phonetically I would say Edinburra.
The burgh I think would not quite be the same as borough.

kjmpde Wed 20-Apr-22 15:57:41

ripped jeans, never ending numbers of tattoos, people wearing filthy "disposable" face masks for days on end , people that never return your telephone messages, - just to name a few