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VioletSky Sun 24-Apr-22 13:26:17

Recently I read:

"Spend the weekend working towards the life you want instead of recovering from the life you have"

That one hit me hard.

Do you have any wise words to share that have inspired you?

Squiffy Fri 06-May-22 20:07:20

The smallest good deed is better than the best good intention! Seen outside a local church years ago.

Blondiescot Fri 06-May-22 19:58:38

Blossoming

I am enough.

(Wish I’d realised that when I was younger)

I've yet to convince myself of that...

VioletSky Fri 06-May-22 19:54:08

You are enough!

Blossoming Thu 05-May-22 12:29:35

I am enough.

(Wish I’d realised that when I was younger)

VioletSky Wed 04-May-22 19:39:46

Thats lovely Mazgg

Mazgg Wed 04-May-22 18:23:52

I like:
"Worry is hiding todays sunshine under tomorrow's clouds"

VioletSky Wed 04-May-22 15:57:04

I heard a good one today.

If someone is trying to provoke the monster in you to prove you are the monster they say you are...

They are the monster.

Grammaretto Mon 25-Apr-22 19:53:52

GrandmaSeaDragon I once saw a mug with the logo allegedly Cornish
Never put off till tomorrow what you can leave till the day after.

25Avalon Mon 25-Apr-22 10:40:13

I had a collection of quotes I used when I worked. My favourites were:

“A little tact consists in knowing how far to go too far.”Jean Cocteau

“Nothing gives one so much advantage over another as to remain calm and unruffled in any circumstances.” Thomas Jefferson.

“ At times the whole world seems in conspiracy to importune you with emphatic trifles.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

“She gave herself very good advice although she seldom took it” from Alice in Wonderland.

Witzend Mon 25-Apr-22 10:12:17

‘Do as you would be done by’ has always seemed a good one to me.

FannyCornforth Mon 25-Apr-22 09:33:03

When I was a TA, I worked for five long years with one particularly disorganised _and very lazy_male teacher.
He used to say
‘If you want something doing well; get Miss Cornforth to do it’
And he did!

Marmight Mon 25-Apr-22 09:31:32

Nae pockets in a shroud!

Smileless2012 Mon 25-Apr-22 09:18:50

I like that too Julietsmile.

Juliet27 Mon 25-Apr-22 08:40:25

Not always true but I like..

‘Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday, and all is well’.

Juliet27 Mon 25-Apr-22 08:39:12

Lucca

Life’s too short to stuff a mushroom

I’ve always wondered where you’re supposed to stuff it! ?

JackyB Mon 25-Apr-22 08:10:26

My Dad had sayings like:

- If a job's worth doing, it's worth doing well
- no time like the present
- a place for everything and everything in its place
- a job begun is half done

I think he was a bit OCD.

But the last one is very true.

GrandmaSeaDragon Mon 25-Apr-22 08:02:06

Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.

Never assume anything. It makes an ass out of u and me.

TwinLolly Mon 25-Apr-22 07:46:50

Dad's favourite saying was: Honesty is the best policy, cheaters never prosper.

Grammaretto Mon 25-Apr-22 07:41:26

NotSpaghetti
Maybe it only has to be a thought of better times ahead?

Thanks for starting the thread VioletSky I hope I remember some of these nuggets of wisdom in the week ahead!

VioletSky Mon 25-Apr-22 07:18:46

NotSpaghetti

It's all very well having sayings but mainly they don't help me I feel.

So if I think about the first one from violetsky -
"Spend the weekend working towards the life you want instead of recovering from the life you have"

This is all very well if you actually don't need to recover from the week you've had. If the week you've had has left you with enough energy to "work towards the life you want" then fair enough. Otherwise it seems like a recipe for a melt-down.

I understand, I have Graves and Fibromyalgia.

I am trying to find a balance, I am feeling very achy after a busy weekend... Not the best start to monday before work but proud of what was accomplished

Dorsetcupcake61 Mon 25-Apr-22 07:08:49

Life is what happens when you are making other plans.
My mum used to say your biggest fear will probably never happen and if it does you will cope with it-something I have found true.

seacliff Mon 25-Apr-22 06:54:26

"08BlueBelle

If you always do what you ve always done you ll always get what you’ve always got"

This really applies to me, in fact I've kept a note of it, thanks Bluebelle. Sometimes a saying really resonates with you, and your current circumstances or state of mind.

Jane43 Mon 25-Apr-22 03:50:35

Holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.

TheodoraP Mon 25-Apr-22 03:19:59

Two wrongs don't make a right

Sorry I'll shut up now

TheodoraP Mon 25-Apr-22 02:44:26

My Dad's favourite

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