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watermeadow Tue 26-Apr-22 12:42:35

At this time of year they come thick and fast and I dislike them intensely. Like another Sunday, there’s nothing to do and nowhere to go. All of my family are busy going places, meeting friends, enjoying the break from work and I spend another day entirely alone. I live in a rural area without transport or any entertainment.
What do you do on bank holidays?

ElaineI Wed 27-Apr-22 09:11:24

Nice to be paid extra when working them. It took a lot of arranging to ensure our patients were looked after and knew what to do in an emergency. Glad my family get them now and doesn't really bother me at all. We apparently have less than many countries.

SueDonim Wed 27-Apr-22 13:33:57

Time for a terrible joke! How do you get to Bury St Edmond? You dig a hole and tip him in - boom boom! grin

HettyBetty Wed 27-Apr-22 13:55:45

I'm self employed so choose whether to work or not. If the forecast is good I tend not to work and go out with DH, for a long walk or similar. If it's going to rain all day I'll do lots of admin and have a day off another time.

A selection of DC and partners might visit or one might invite us to visit them.

It's miserable if it's a lonely day thoughflowers

NotTooOld Wed 27-Apr-22 18:29:13

SueDonim grin

I dislike bank holidays, too. We don't go anywhere as we don't fancy getting stuck in traffic jams but I always imagine everyone else is out having a fine old time. Of course, they are not! We usually stay in the garden or go for a local walk but we're both glad when it's a normal weekday again. Must be even more depressing for those living alone.

bookwormbabe Fri 29-Apr-22 08:51:38

I've always hated Bank Holidays, even when I was working. I guess it's the lemming-like activity that they encourage, meaning there is no point trying to go anywhere because everywhere will be rammed. Also the fact that it disrupts the bin emptying timetable and makes me confused as to what day of the week it is. I have always felt it would be better to ditch them altogether and give people an equivalent amount of extra annual leave.

Fortunately, we live in a big town, so we can always wander in for a stroll and a drink, and there is a festival on this weekend, so it won't be too bad.

Vintagejazz Fri 29-Apr-22 08:55:35

Yes it's one of those days you imagine everyone's having a better time than you. When in fact most people just spend it in the garden, going for walks, generally passing the time.

Harris27 Fri 29-Apr-22 08:57:27

I’m still working so I love them!

AGAA4 Fri 29-Apr-22 09:11:30

It's good for my ACs as they get an extra day off but for me everywhere is busy so it's not worth driving anywhere as you end up in queues.

JackyB Fri 29-Apr-22 09:17:24

Elaine1 We apparently have less than many countries.

There was an article in our local paper here in Germany where, if 25 December, 3 October or 1 May (all public holidays) fall on a Sunday, it's just hard luck for the working population. There were mutterings about "why can't we have the Monday following it off like other countries do?" - until someone pointed out that Germany is almost top of the list after Spain for the number of days off we get a year.

These are the holidays we get - and may I remind you that shops and everything else (well, not hospitality) are SHUT on these days. You might get a bar of chocolate at a petrol station, or take a journey out on the motorway and get a fluffy toy or souvenir key ring at a transport café. Motorway driving is not bad as HGV are not allowed to use the roads on these days.

1 January
6 January (in some states)
Good Friday
Easter Monday
1 May
Ascension Day (always on Thursday)
Whit Monday
Corpus Christi (in some states - always on a Thursday)
15 August ( in some states)
3 October (used to be 17 June - national holiday)
31 October (in some Protestant states)
1 November (in some Catholic states)
Buss und Bettag - a Wednesday in mid-November in some Protestant states, used to be the whole country)
25 and 26 December

They do rather bunch up in May and June.

Dickens Fri 29-Apr-22 09:24:51

ElaineI

Nice to be paid extra when working them. It took a lot of arranging to ensure our patients were looked after and knew what to do in an emergency. Glad my family get them now and doesn't really bother me at all. We apparently have less than many countries.

In the UK, public holidays fall on a Monday, regardless of the actual date in question.

In some countries, they fall on a specific date... so the actual public holidays vary each year.

Not quite in the same vein, but in Norway, when you reach age 60, you are given a statutory extra week's paid holiday each year... Norwegians call it the "senile week" grin, but are very appreciative of it.

karmalady Fri 29-Apr-22 09:25:12

Thoro

When I worked full time I loved them. Now I’m retired I prefer the routine of weekdays!

same, I like the routine of weekdays. I`ll just get busy on a sewing project and hop from meal to meal, with a bit of tv, reading, gardening and some cycling if the air is not too cold.

BlueSapphire Fri 29-Apr-22 11:54:58

Just another day for me, on my own as usual. If it's fine I may sit in the garden and read. Sometimes go to the cinema if there's something on I want to see.

BlueSapphire Fri 29-Apr-22 11:58:17

When DH was alive we always used to go out to a country pub for lunch, or go and watch the little planes at a nearby aerodrome - I really miss that.

lovebeigecardigans1955 Fri 29-Apr-22 12:01:06

I stick to my usual routine, when I was at work it was different, of course. As many places have traffic jams and queues for everything (parking, tea, ice cream, toilets) I find it better to stay at home. When we lived by the sea we soon found out that sitting in the garden or visiting friends was best. Feet up, lots of tea and maybe a good film on the telly.

silverlining48 Fri 29-Apr-22 12:55:17

The UK has the least bank holidays certainly in Europe.i think it’s about 8.
Between May and Christmas there is just one, at the end of August. I think a day in October time would not come amiss.
Please no more in May where with Easter most of our few bank holidays bunch together. Feast and famine.

silverlining48 Fri 29-Apr-22 19:07:27

Fewest?

timetogo2016 Sat 30-Apr-22 17:05:44

Weather permitting were off to a very large car boot sale.
If not it will feel just like another Sunday,i can`t stand Sundays.

crazyH Sat 30-Apr-22 17:16:59

As someone earlier said, all the family are busy doing things with their young families. I feel so left out…Not that I’d want to join them on these hectic outings anyway. I was hoping my divorced daughter with grown-up children would do something with me but not a ‘peep’ from her.
BUT I had a surprise visit today from my sweet oldest grandson (20 years) - we had lunch together - that’s made my Bank Holiday weekend……..

silverlining48 Sat 30-Apr-22 19:14:44

What a lovely surprise crazyH. My gc are too young now but wonder if they will visit us under their own steam when they are older. Hope you had a lovely time.

crazyH Sat 30-Apr-22 19:23:06

Thanks Silverlining - yes, I did x

Allsorts Sat 30-Apr-22 19:25:26

How nice Crazy H.

TillyTrotter Sat 30-Apr-22 19:33:36

So pleased for you crazyH . There’s nothing like a surprise visit to buck you up ?