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Your first purchased home - how do you remember it?

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Franbern Tue 03-May-22 15:19:57

On todays Escape to the Country, it was said that we all have wonderful memories of our first purchased home and it holds a special place in our hearts.

I am very much the exception (if this is the case). Thanks to the LCC putting in place a scheme where people who lived in London could get one hundred percent mortgages based entirely on value of property - we (fiancee & I) foolishly bought an end of terrace Victorian house. As the first people in both families to purchase a property, we had no-one to advice us. We had very grandiose ideas as to how we would do that property up, etc. etc.

We spent eight years there, and by the end of it I really hated that house. I can remember just a few hours after our second baby had been born, hearing the rain cascading into our bedroom through a window!!! When we went there only toilet was outside - we did manage to have one fitted into bathroom (which was accessed via another bedroom).

The house was built over an old riverlet, and no proper foundations and we were plagues with large, black, shiny water beetles.
The first couple of times we tried to sell it, we had no-one interested. I felt really trapped.

1972 and the sudden desperate hike in house prices worked in our favour. We had already (optimistically) put a deposit on a house being built, and then we had buyers queueing up. At last we were able to get out.

On the day of the move, as soon as the removal people came, I left without a backward glance. Drove me, the dog,a and my MiL over to the new house, leaving hubbie to stay with removal men.

It was a stupid buy for young newly weds. We would have been a much better buying a flat. Mind you, that house, in Walthamstow - presumably modernised, etc. is now worth in the region of three quarters of a million pounds!!!!! The area is going through gentrification and property prices there are daft,

Sparklefizz Tue 03-May-22 15:23:28

First memory? It was warm!! Central heating for the first time in my life after growing up with the usual frost on the inside of the windows, etc.

nanaK54 Tue 03-May-22 15:25:35

We still live in it grin

paddyann54 Tue 03-May-22 15:35:31

We were very lucky with our first home ,it was a brand new semi 2 bedrooms and boxroom with a garage accross from the house...we didn't buy it though it was a council house and we stayed for 8 years while we built up our also brand new business.
We bought a flat after that and it was in a good spot but needed renovating from the floor up ,we only bought it to be in the area where our studio was and where the school was handy for our 5 year old.We loved that flat it was an upside down house with the huge living room in the attic.
We only stayed for 18 months though as we were offered a fantastic deal on a new detached chalet bungalow where we stayed for 6 years before moving to this house and here we are 32 years on despite having SOLD it 3 times and then losing the houses we were trying to buy.

HowVeryDareYou Tue 03-May-22 15:39:50

We bought our 1st home in 1985. We'd been council tenants altogether for 6 years - first in a flat, then in a 2 bedroomed terrace (town house) place. Our sons were then 4 and 1. We got a 100% council mortgage for £9,650. We left 6 years later, and sold it for £32,000.

Sloegin Tue 03-May-22 16:03:06

My husband was teaching in N.ireland, where we're both from, and in fact we've retired back there, but in 1975 he applied and got a post on a higher scale in a boys' school in Sittingbourne. We travelled over on the boat for his interview, he got the job, and we had 24 hours to find a house. We'd lived in a school house in N.I. as it was a boarding school. We trawled around the estate agents and hadn't much luck until we were driving down a road where we saw a lovely little Victorian house with a for sale sign outside. We didn't have an appointment to view but knocked on the door and explained the situation to the young couple who were selling. Think we saw it for about 10 minutes, went home and phoned the estate agents with an offer which was accepted. We moved in August and sadly my mother died suddenly just two weeks after we moved so I was very homesick. I wasn't very happy in Sittingbourne as found it unfriendly compared with where I came from, even though a very troubled time in N.I, but it was a lovely little house and a real sanctuary for me at the time. We only lived there for two years as he got a head of department post in another part of the country and, although happier where we moved to, I did miss that little house.

Athrawes Tue 03-May-22 16:06:24

We bought our little house a couple of years before our first baby was born. It was in a cul de sac where there was a real mixture of ages and families. We eventually moved to a bigger house but I still have very happy memories of our first home.

sodapop Tue 03-May-22 16:06:27

We bought our first house in 1967. Cost £1,500. The mortgage was £14 a month and we were hard pushed to find it at times. We were both nurses not earning a great deal and my then husband considered lorry driving to earn more money. We had a coke fire which was a nightmare to get started, the windows were iced up inside in winter but we did have an inside lavatory. We moved to another town where my husband got a job with a new council house as part of the deal. Felt like luxury.

Kate1949 Tue 03-May-22 16:07:41

We lived in a flat first. It was nice enough. Newly built, co-ownership which meant we got enough back to put a deposit on our first house.
I never like that house. We had a spending limit and it was the best we could afford. We left after 5 years as the neighbours were horrendous. We bought our present home and have been here 40 years.
I always envied people who said they fell in love with a house and had to have it. We always bought what we could afford.

M0nica Tue 03-May-22 16:17:54

Ours was a new three storey terrace house in Bracknell. We saw an advert for it in a housing magazine We went to look at it because I knew the area. and knew the estate was within walking distance of the station and the trains fror Bracknell ran into platform 22, at Waterloo Station just a hop, step and jump from DH's job in Shell Centre.

We lived there for just over 4 years. We moved because the estate was inhabited by parents with young children like us and quite a number of the parents were happy to let their children play outside, in what was a quiet close, when they were only 2 or 3. We thought that was far too young and DS had started looking out of the window, seeing other children outside and asking to join them.

We sold it and bought a smaller house, a Victorian villa in a nearby big village.

We are now in our 5th house. The first four we loved when we bought them, left them with a little regret, but it is the one I live in now, dating back to the War of the Roses, an old farmhouse in a village setting, is the one I will have to be dragged from, kicking and screaming.

TerriBull Tue 03-May-22 16:21:10

First house with ex, modern 3 bedroomed, we were both quite young at the time, well by today's standards at any rate. I was I think 24 and he was 27, he worked for an American Bank, staff perk 3% interest mortgage. I can't remember what everyone else was paying but I know our friends were envious of that rate. We bought it from a very sniffy middle aged couple who thought we were too young to be buying a house, and told us so, In retrospect I wish I'd told them that was none of their business, but sadly I didn't! Then on the moving in day, after our solicitor informed us that we had completed and could pick up the keys from the estate agents, the previous owners having loaded their furniture on the removal lorry, house was empty, stayed there for another couple of hours. We had arranged for a bed to be delivered which they sent away shock we had hardly any furniture anyway, so had to sleep on a sofa until we could arrange another delivery date for the bed. However in spite of the teething problems, after a rented flat in a non salubrious part of London, it felt wonderful to have our own home in a leafy part of Surrey and with good rail connections we were still up in the centre of London in under an hour.

tanith Tue 03-May-22 16:22:05

We bought a house with my new inlaws i had no say in it as they paid the deposit we lived upstairs they lived down sharing the bathroom i don't have fond memories .
Nine yrs later we bought a house round the corner it was seriously in need of updating but i loved that house where I brought up my children.

AGAA4 Tue 03-May-22 16:29:15

We bought a dormer bungalow for £4000 in 1971.
It was brand new and we loved it. Our two sons were 3 and one year old when we moved in and our daughter arrived two years later.
It was a happy time and I was very homesick when we left for a bigger house.

wildswan16 Tue 03-May-22 16:39:22

Cold, damp, inconvenient, no redeeming features whatsoever. Bought by husband as it had a lovely view. Had to stay there for 18 years and hated every inch of it.

Germanshepherdsmum Tue 03-May-22 16:43:43

A 2 up 2 down Victorian semi bought for £1750 in 1970.

Sara1954 Tue 03-May-22 16:45:06

We bought our first house, a Victorian terrace, in 1976 for £9.100, the monthly repayments were £84.00 which I took into the building society every month in cash.
We were very fortunate to have a garage, but it was very cold and we couldn’t afford to heat it.
We moved after three years, it had doubled in value.
It was a happy three years, all young families, but it certainly wasn’t my favourite house, mainly I think, because we never had enough money to do anything.

Zoejory Tue 03-May-22 16:45:49

Modernish 3 bedroomed semi detached in a rural area. We had no furnishings but were very lucky that the couple moving out wanted to leave all furnishings. Which all looked new. So a pleasant enough first home

SueDonim Tue 03-May-22 17:00:01

Our first purchase was a brand new three-bed terraced house in 1972. We reserved it at £7,500 and because inflation was rampant, by the time it was built the cost went up to £8,350. We had to sell our car to make up the difference in price.

It had central heating, though, which was a marvel to me. We could only afford carpet in the living room, stairs and one bedroom and Dh made a carpet for the landing out of the off cuts. We had flat pack furniture from somewhere in London - MFI? Am I remembering right?

We stayed for six years which covered the time when we had our first baby. It was a nice little family community. Nowadays, many of those houses have been turned into student accommodation, which makes me quite sad, really.

Callistemon21 Tue 03-May-22 17:00:49

We looked at new Wimpey semis and they seemed quite spacious then we realised they had not put the internal doors on which made a difference grin
So we bought a slightly older semi which had larger rooms. The previous occupiers dug up everything out of the garden and took it with them.

Happy memories but we were ready to move on a few years later.

Witzend Tue 03-May-22 17:01:51

Still in ours, bought in 1977, but dh had a small flat previously, and for 13 years until 1987 we were living abroad so it was usually rented out.
No plans to move! Did try to once or twice when dds were still at school - would have liked a bit more space, but it never came off and it suits us fine now - still plenty of room for guests but we’re not rattling around in it.

Jane43 Tue 03-May-22 17:02:11

We bought ours in 1965 about 8 months after we got married. It was £3245, a new build, a 3 bed semi, quite spacious rooms but the downside was no fitted kitchen, just a sink unit, there was no gas on the estate so we had a solid fuel boiler installed in the kitchen which was very temperamental because it kept going out and it created a lot of dust. The other down side was that the garden was on a slope and was triangular but DH managed to terrace it and built a nice patio. We stayed for 5 years and moved to another new build which was our first detached house. We had no idea how to seLl a house so we made a for sale board and put it in the front garden, a few days later a young couple knocked the door, looked around and offered the asking price. Our first son was born in the bedroom of our first house and our second son was born two years later starting in the bedroom but I had to be taken to hospital for a forceps delivery. We also have some great family memories of our first house.

BlueSapphire Tue 03-May-22 17:06:24

It was a brand new 3 bedroom semi in a little cul-de-sac. I actually put our names down for it while my DH was working abroad - he came home and remarked that he'd told me to buy anything I wanted while he was away, but a house was a bit more money than he expected!

I chose it because it was only 10 minutes walk from my job; we stayed there for nearly 20 years and two children later. Loved living there as we were nearly all young marrieds, all having families at the same time; the children grew up together, went to the same schools, played in the quiet cul-de-sac and were in and out of each other's houses.

It was a smallish house, open plan downstairs, two fair sized bedrooms, and a small third bedroom. Eventually moved because the children were growing, nearly teenagers, and we needed more space.

Grandmadinosaur Tue 03-May-22 17:10:55

Ours was a doer upper. Paid £15,000 for it. It was in a beautiful spot looking out to fields. We always feared it wouldn’t stay that way though. Did up half the rooms when 10 months later DH got a new job and we moved to where we now live. We look back on it very fondly.

aggie Tue 03-May-22 17:15:05

We rented an old detached three or four bed house with a massive entrance hall , the living and sitting room had floor to ceiling Georgian windows which let all the sunlight …. And all the wind ! A Doric solid fuel cooker smouldered and sulked , but if I opened the dampers the chimney caught fire , certainly gave out heat then
We were not the only tenants ! Mice in the kitchen, rats in the basement , and bats in the roof and in the shutters ,!
I didn’t find these delights at first , the Doric being a let down , the first time I put the kettle on it got look warm in 20 mins , where upon I had enough , yelled at poor OH in a fit of drama … either a gas cooker is here tonight or I go home to Mother!
The cooker and keg of gas were there when I got home from work , it had two rings , an iffy grill and an even more iffy oven OH had a very wary look on his face !
It was in the depths of the country , the bus a good trot down the lane , went one direction in the morning and came back in the evening !
We had to stay for ten years and had 4 kids by the time we left to move into the family farm house with oil heating ! Bliss , then came the oil crisis …. …..

missingmarietta Tue 03-May-22 17:59:27

Our first house was £3250 in 1968. A 1940's terrace with 2 bay windows it had a lot of steps up to the front door, and steps up to the garden at the back.
It was ok. We only had carpet in the living room and joined up carpet strips around the bed [nothing underneath it!]. Laundry was done at the laundrette.
No central heating but I loved the Parkray solid fuel stove in the living room.
When our first son was born the steps were a problem with the pram. We moved out in 1971 to a new build house in a village 12 miles away for cleaner air and few hills. And heard some years later that our first house had a subsidence problem!