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Things you think can make you look older than your years!

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Audi10 Mon 23-May-22 13:17:30

While having a discussion with two friends this subject came up! They were saying the way some people dress can look a bit matronly! I was saying but it’s not all about dress sense I think having a positive attitude and a smile makes you appear happier so therefore younger, it’s not always about how a person dresses! What do you gransnetters think!

snowberryZ Mon 23-May-22 15:40:52

Marydoll

*Kate*, I had to wear a rainmate over my school hat! blush

Oh dear, Snowberry, some of my very stylish friends (including me) wear Sketchers and statement necklaces. Not at the same time, of course. ?

Don't worry, I wear them as well wink(sketchers that is) its liking walking on air. But they do look a bit frumpy on me.

MissAdventure Mon 23-May-22 15:38:46

My mum used to call me scraggy neck sometimes, as a term of endearment. (I think, at least!)

MissAdventure Mon 23-May-22 15:36:45

Yes, but anyone seeing someone wearing one will know they have a scraggy neck underneath it. grin

Marydoll Mon 23-May-22 15:35:31

MissAdventure

How about stylish, colourful scarves, just to put the cat among the pigeons?

Excellent for hiding a scraggy neck! wink

Kathy72 Mon 23-May-22 15:35:16

Long skirts / midi dresses with flat shoes / white trainers is a trendy look

MissAdventure Mon 23-May-22 15:34:41

How about stylish, colourful scarves, just to put the cat among the pigeons?

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 23-May-22 15:28:07

My hair is below my shoulders and it’s now grey - but in good condition and definitely not in plaits or a bun.

kircubbin2000 Mon 23-May-22 15:22:16

Long grey hair,plaits, hair in a bun. Long skirts with flat granny shoes,cardigans.

Kathy72 Mon 23-May-22 15:21:54

*clothes shops

Kathy72 Mon 23-May-22 15:21:34

I think it’s also a matter of opinion as to what is stylish / what looks good. Some people on here sound very confident about their looks and their style - but in reality not everyone might agree with that! I’ve noticed on threads about clothes shoes people say they love such and such a shop, which I personally thinks sells very boring clothes

Nanna58 Mon 23-May-22 15:19:21

Oh Lord , I dare not go to a Safari Park with my love of animal print ! Love it !

Blossoming Mon 23-May-22 15:19:01

I’m wearing jeggings and a ditsy flowery T bag top and running socks. I don’t wear any makeup nowadays but I do have a skincare routine.

I’ve no idea if I look old or not, what I’m wearing is practical and comfortable for what I’m doing today.

Marydoll Mon 23-May-22 15:15:54

Wouldn't we all become clones, if we ditched all clothes, make up etc, suggested here? wink
I also think that some people just don't have the confidence to be stylish and feel it's safer stick to the same boring clothes.

Who is to say that our taste is any better than anyone else's.

Kate1949 Mon 23-May-22 15:15:19

Me and my two sisters love animal print. My one sister is attractive and stylish and is a big fan of animal print.

MissAdventure Mon 23-May-22 15:13:58

I love animal print.
A la Bette Lynch.

I find it far nicer to look at than beige with scotty dog silhouettes on.

GagaJo Mon 23-May-22 15:11:04

Very sadly, cat eye, eye liner is out. Fun. But ageing slapper is not a good look.

Oh! And no kind of animal print. Ever.

mymadeupname Mon 23-May-22 15:10:24

FarNorth

I haven't seen anyone in a headscarf or rainmate for decades grin

Her Majesty looks fabulous in a headscarf and she is probably the only person alive who can pull off the RainMate look.

GagaJo Mon 23-May-22 15:09:30

Agree with all of those SnowberryZ.

I've got another one, that applied to my mum (now gone sadly). Lots of patterns. Mum was very fashionable up until about 50/55, but then seemed to morph into 'older lady'. Lots of dresses with patterns on them. Flowers mainly, but all heavily patterned. They were so ageing.

She did have one lovely dress. A nice grey sort of officey dress. Classic and fashionable at the same time. But I never saw her wear it.

Also think we old birds have to remember, that what is lovely, retro, on younger women, just looks old fashioned on us.

Keep it very plain, is my motto. Not that I'm any kind of fashion icon. Black jeans (or on a bad day, leggings). A hip length (makes my legs look longer) loose black (or blue or grey) top. Biker boots, or if I can guarantee I'm going to sit down, some cuban heeled ankle boots. Very simple, not too different to my usual daily scruff, but I like how it looks, when I catch sight of myself in shop windows.

Kate1949 Mon 23-May-22 15:03:47

I knew it. I'm a trendsetter.

Marydoll Mon 23-May-22 15:02:24

Actually, pale pink nail polish is right on trend, this summer! wink

Kate1949 Mon 23-May-22 15:02:18

Me too Marydoll Very handy they were too, even with rain dripping down your neck from them.

Kate1949 Mon 23-May-22 15:01:08

Blimey. I must rethink my look! I'm off to remove my pale pink nail varnish.

Marydoll Mon 23-May-22 14:59:46

Kate, I had to wear a rainmate over my school hat! blush

Oh dear, Snowberry, some of my very stylish friends (including me) wear Sketchers and statement necklaces. Not at the same time, of course. ?

snowberryZ Mon 23-May-22 14:56:45

Wearing Youth Dew, Obsession or Lair du Tenps.
Overly smart, structured wool coats.
Rigid hairstyles - Hair that doesn't move.
Thinking that having a good conplexion
is all there is to looking young.
Pale pink nail polish.
Hotter shoes
Sketcher shoes.
Statement necklaces.
Black eyeliner under the eyes.
Calling any female under the age of 30 'silly'.
Popping In anywhere.

Kate1949 Mon 23-May-22 14:52:18

I don't put the bins out without make up on.