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Things you think can make you look older than your years!

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Audi10 Mon 23-May-22 13:17:30

While having a discussion with two friends this subject came up! They were saying the way some people dress can look a bit matronly! I was saying but it’s not all about dress sense I think having a positive attitude and a smile makes you appear happier so therefore younger, it’s not always about how a person dresses! What do you gransnetters think!

GrammaH Wed 25-May-22 08:18:31

The alternative uniform of jeans, Joules Harbour top , gilet & trainers - very aging!

NanKate Wed 25-May-22 07:51:12

Of not or ?‍?

NanKate Wed 25-May-22 07:50:47

I’m with Marydoll and regularly wear scarves or various colours. ?

Unplucked, straggly eyebrows.

ginny Wed 25-May-22 07:40:32

The most ageing thing to me is not what you wear or how you do your hair.
It is having a closed mind to new ideas and experiences .

snowberryZ Wed 25-May-22 06:23:39

Longdistancegrnny

I have enjoyed this thread - but must warn against referring to anything as 'trendy' - my DD (33) always picks me up on this and says it makes me sound old! I went to meet my sisters in London a couple of weeks back wearing a subtle leopard print summer dress, denim jacket and white sneakers - felt comfortable and smart but realised this is a middle aged (well I am 68!) uniform! Two women in front of me on the train dressed almost identically and countless others spotted during the course of the day!

Careful, you'll start off Sneakergate again.
Or should that be White Trainergate grin

I got into trouble when I pointed out that white trainers worn with dresses is starting to look like a middleaged uniform.hmmgrin

snowberryZ Wed 25-May-22 06:19:49

Speldnan

A lot of makeup makes women look older as do bright coloured nails which make old hands look like claws. Old fashioned clothes and shoes don’t help either plus dyed hair when it obviously isn’t natural!

I don't agree about bright nail polish.
I read somewhere that wearing a pale nail polish causes people to look at your hands, whereas if you wear a bright coloured nail polish people notice your nails first instead of your hands

snowberryZ Wed 25-May-22 06:14:14

FannyCornforth

This is silly now!
How can a bag make you look old?
I bought my first Radley bag when I was 25.
I was extremely proud of it as it was £££
Still in use (special occasions) today.

I love Radley bags.
I buy the matching purses as well.
They're really well made.

Nanny27 Wed 25-May-22 04:51:35

I'm a bit late to thus thread and am lying in bed (4.50 am) trying hard not to wake dh with my laughing ? ? ?

Lucca Wed 25-May-22 02:49:22

Rabbitgran

Things that make you look older than your years - old women bitching about what other old women are wearing. Makes me want to get some pastel fleecies, polyester pleated skirts and hotter shoes to cover my overweight unpleasant bulges and set off my blunt haircut.The fashion industry is killing our planet and ruining the future for our young people. Stop being superficial and superior and get a life even though it's rather late in the day.

A bit OTT…. Just idle chit chat….

Longdistancegrnny Wed 25-May-22 00:18:30

I have enjoyed this thread - but must warn against referring to anything as 'trendy' - my DD (33) always picks me up on this and says it makes me sound old! I went to meet my sisters in London a couple of weeks back wearing a subtle leopard print summer dress, denim jacket and white sneakers - felt comfortable and smart but realised this is a middle aged (well I am 68!) uniform! Two women in front of me on the train dressed almost identically and countless others spotted during the course of the day!

FarNorth Wed 25-May-22 00:15:34

grin

Rabbitgran Tue 24-May-22 23:21:34

Things that make you look older than your years - old women bitching about what other old women are wearing. Makes me want to get some pastel fleecies, polyester pleated skirts and hotter shoes to cover my overweight unpleasant bulges and set off my blunt haircut.The fashion industry is killing our planet and ruining the future for our young people. Stop being superficial and superior and get a life even though it's rather late in the day.

Catterygirl Tue 24-May-22 23:17:46

I love pale pink nail varnish and worse still, pale pink shimmering lipstick. Think Patti Boyd. However currently wearing light brown eye shadow and lipstick. I have every colour nail polish and preference is Revlon Red and OPI fuschia pink. Tried denim blue and looked ridiculous.

hollysteers Tue 24-May-22 23:13:37

Just to balance things up for those who think we are being judgmental about our own sex, we could have a thread on what we find ageing about men?
Many of us are interested in clothes (not fashion trends) and find it can be life enhancing. Geniuses like Oscar Wilde and Wagner were intensely interested in their garb and if it was good enough for them, it’s good enough for me!
My younger sister refused to watch a Miss Marple tv programme with me as something for old people lol.

Treetops05 Tue 24-May-22 22:34:38

Me! Many of my clothes were bought between 96-01, so old cut jeans, scuffed sandals in summer (comfy), OH hates make up and I don't know how to put it on, so don't wear it. Same hairstyle since age 17, suited me then and suits me now. Am I 'matronly'? Possibly but I am comfy and couldn't care less what people think of me! My clothes rend to be dull colours because that is what I feel safe in so stuff anyone else...oh and I'm not near 60 yet...

grannybuy Tue 24-May-22 21:19:49

Long thin, straight hair.

Callistemon21 Tue 24-May-22 20:58:18

Yes, we always look out to see what colour clashes he's wearing.
Once he was wearing beige - most disappointing!

DanniRae Tue 24-May-22 20:51:53

I like Michael Portillo to - now he knows how to wear colour! Colour clashing blazers and trousers ..... wonderful to see!!! grin

Grandma70s Tue 24-May-22 20:35:27

PinkCosmos

I have stopped wearing black close to my face as I think it can make you look drained. On the rare occasion I do wear a black top I usually also wear a bright scarf

I tend to wear shirts/blouses these days rather than t shirts as they don't cling to ever lump and bump - and I have quite a few of those. I wear them with leggings, cropped trousers (narrow) or slim leg trousers.

I do like the way Prue Leith dresses with all the bright colours and chunky jewellery.

Hyacinth Bucket on the other hand, she always looked older than her years even when the series came out in 1990. Patricia Routledge (who played her) must have only been in her early 50's when the series started. My MIL still dresses like this and has done for the last 30 years.

Just browsing through the posts and saw this one. Patricia Routledge was 60+ when the series started. Born February 1929.

Devorgilla Tue 24-May-22 20:28:54

I like Michael Portillo now he is doing trains, but I was there at that 'Portillo' moment which we still occasionally replay.

Jaxjacky Tue 24-May-22 20:24:04

My allotment chic does not extend to painted nails merlotgran more like ingrained dirt!

FannyCornforth Tue 24-May-22 20:00:53

Allotment chic
That is utterly amazing
Well done merlot smile

Germanshepherdsmum Tue 24-May-22 19:56:02

They’re clean but no sane person would like them, I promise you. Ghastly things. I’m just grateful that they sort of work.

MissAdventure Tue 24-May-22 19:52:07

Oh I would! (I sound as if I have some strange fetish, now) grin
Long as they're clean, I'm happy.

Germanshepherdsmum Tue 24-May-22 19:48:31

You wouldn’t like mine!