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FannyCornforth Sun 05-Jun-22 14:26:17

That men and women put tops, t-shirts etc on using different techniques?

Women tend to put it on over their head first; and then do the sleeves bit.

Whereas men put their arms in the sleeves first; and then put it over their head.
(I’ve never even attempted this method - it seems so alien)

In my experience this is universal.
I wonder why?

M0nica Sun 05-Jun-22 18:48:29

I do both, but mainly go for the male option of putting arms in sleeves first, ditto with taking a sweater off, I tend to pull from the back.

I am not sure what that says about me!

Oldnproud Sun 05-Jun-22 19:08:05

Zoejory

What about bras?

I've always been one to do it up from the front, then whizz it round to the back. Then put arms in.

Me too.

M0nica Sun 05-Jun-22 19:09:07

Another 'me too'

Bellanonna Sun 05-Jun-22 21:12:56

And me

BlueSky Sun 05-Jun-22 21:32:01

No and no.

Marydoll Sun 05-Jun-22 22:54:54

A Me too. I can't reach my back!

Spice101 Mon 06-Jun-22 00:38:52

I always put my arms in first then pullover my head and taking them off pull from behind - perhaps I'm a male in disguise

grumppa Mon 06-Jun-22 09:48:42

I'm a head first man putting things on, and pull sweaters up and over my head.

Please don't make this a guide to gender identification, or the cis and trans lobbyists will invade the thread.

MrsKen33 Mon 06-Jun-22 10:23:28

DH has ruined many a jumper by doing it the’ male’ way. The seams underarm split. I have taken to sewing them up with contrasting thread to reming him not to tug on them ??

timetogo2016 Mon 06-Jun-22 10:38:00

FC and Oldbat1 are spot on,all the men in my family do exactly what they said,we humans are very strange.
Now i wonder if transgenders change the way they have always dressed ?.

Audi10 Mon 06-Jun-22 11:43:22

Do you know I’ve never noticed, it’s something I’ve never thought about! But…. I’m off to get a T-shirt for my husband to put on , ??

NoddingGanGan Mon 06-Jun-22 12:22:15

Arms in first every time for me putting garments on. But taking them, off I extricate my arms first, then pull it over my head. Crossing arms leaves the garment inside out and also risks under garments riding up with it and exposing one's midriff!

Merryweather Mon 06-Jun-22 12:30:59

I think I must be a man ?. I do arms first then head. But I don’t care about messy hair as with lots of curls it’s messy anyway.

grandtanteJE65 Mon 06-Jun-22 12:36:34

I was taught as a child to put tee-shirts and jumpers on by putting my head through first and my arms second, as you describe, because my mother and grandmothers insisted it messed one's hair up less, then the way boys and men do.

It may not be universal that there is a female and a male way of doing this, but I think in all of Europe we dress like this.

Men make a dreadful fuss about their shirt buttons being in direct alignment with their trouser button or belt buckle, which few women bother about, and have rules about what colour socks they can wear with suits.

Whereas a woman in jeans or trouser suit usually either wears nylons socks in the same shade as her stockings would be if she was wearing a skirt, or just grabs the nearest clean pair of socks.

And while we are at it, men unbutton the top two or three buttons of a shirt and drag it over their heads when undressing, whereas we careful unbutton the whole garment and take if of by withdrawing our arms from the sleeves first.

And women take their socks of first when undressing, while many men take them off last. Some even attempt to get into bed with you still wearing their socks, unless like me you point out that this is very off-putting!

Anda001 Mon 06-Jun-22 12:57:50

I've literally just asked my husband to take his t-shirt off and tell me how he puts it on...lol. Oh and he did pull it up from the back to take it off too .

Both me and him do arms first for t-shirts etc . But I cross arms to take top off.

Oh and bras I do up at the back ?

11unicorn Mon 06-Jun-22 13:13:36

I put my arms in first.
When wearing make up I than have my hands free to hold the T-shirt away from my face slipping it over my head.
To me it's alien putting the head through first. I would feel so restricted with my arms pinned down.
Maybe it is a british thing? I have to ask my non british friends lol.

win Mon 06-Jun-22 13:18:00

I am too Elegran

Aepgirl Mon 06-Jun-22 13:18:56

I put my arms in the sleeves and then pull the t-shirt or jumper over my head. Never noticed whether or not I was different from other ladies.

4allweknow Mon 06-Jun-22 16:54:48

It's women not wzntibg to mess up their hair or get makeup on the top. Stretch the neck, pull it over head, then sleeves.

Hemgranot Mon 06-Jun-22 18:04:44

My husband puts a t-shirt over his head first and pulls it right down. Then puts his arms through the sleeves in such a way as to stretch the t-shirt beyond all recognition ?

nipsmum Mon 06-Jun-22 19:29:47

You can protect your hairdo if you put it over your head first. Something lots of men don't worry about.

Shizam Mon 06-Jun-22 20:35:33

Left arm, right arm, then head for putting on top. Same drill for removing. I’m female and left-handed. But put a coat on right arm first. Also put right shoe and sock on first. This is doing my head in! Why has my brain decided on this regime?!

FarNorth Mon 06-Jun-22 21:37:08

Change it Shizam !
It's good for your brain to get out of its rut.

PennyQ Tue 07-Jun-22 06:41:45

I think it’s because girls dress themselves from an earlier age. Little boys are told ‘arms up’ by their mums, who dress them for longer

Esspee Tue 07-Jun-22 06:52:08

Sleeves first for me though I do take a jumper or t-shirt off by crossing my arms whereas men tend to grab it at the back of the neck and pull.
Strange I’ve never thought about that before. Surely it is simply how you have been taught to do it?