foxie48
It's quite legal to vary a will so that money passes to a different person, lots of people do it. People do all sorts of things (some legal some not) to avoid paying out their own money or leaving themselves better off in some way. I don't condone dishonesty but without knowing the circumstances I try not to be judgemental. I also can't help thinking that the rich avoid paying their taxes quite legitimately by setting up trusts, keeping money offshore, passing cash onto to their heirs whilst alive etc so a single woman passing on her dad's inheritance to the grandson so she can scrape by on benefits for the rest of her life doesn't seem like a hanging offence!
I am not saying that benefit fraud is acceptable, but as long as the better off pay financial advisors to maximise their tax position (eg having one of a couple pass their tax allowance to the other), I can't get too het up about someone being a bit better off because of an inheritance. Taking money back £ for £ from someone who has had a small inheritance seems to me spiteful - it is keeping people in poverty, and is effectively also penalising the person who left the money to improve the life of their relative.
I would feel different if the amounts were life changing, which is why I asked how much was involved.
