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The ethics of where vegans buy food

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StarDreamer Sun 03-Jul-22 10:20:13

I refer to three posts in another thread.

The final two posts on page 26 and the first post on page 27 of that thread.

www.gransnet.com/forums/pensions/1309446-Diary-of-a-benefit-claimant?pg=26

www.gransnet.com/forums/pensions/1309446-Diary-of-a-benefit-claimant?pg=27

The first of those posts raises an issue, yet provides no specific suggestion of an alternative.

Nevertheless the issue does concern me. But what can one do when, as far as I know, all supermarkets sell non-vegan food and many companies who produce vegan food also produce non-vegan food too?

Widening the discussion, I have read of vegans who will not sit down to eat at the same table where anybody is eating non-vegan food. So the widespread concept of going to, say, a dinner of a society and choosing the 'vegetarian' (sic) option and being seated at the same table as the m-word eaters does not work.

Yet is this any different from people in a debate refusing to speak from the same platform as someone whose views they oppose? I remember on television news some video of a debate where one then well-known politician leapt from the platform where someone had stated views he regarded as beyond the pale and spoke standing in front of the platform rather than speak from the same platform.

So is this an issue of guilty by association? If so, how can a vegan avoid that while still getting food to eat?

At what distance does someone have responsibility for things, morally rather than legally?

Please note that I am not posting this in the hope of replies in the nature of "Don't worry StarDreamer, you are doing what you can as best you can", I am interested in the ethics of the situation in the world as it is.

I am interested in the views of both vegans and non-vegans. People may, but need not, mention whether they are vegan or not vegan.

I hope that nobody claims this to be a thread about a thread. This thread is not a thread about another thread, it simply references in this thread three posts in that thread that are off-topic for that thread so that the ethics of the situation can be discussed in this thread without disrupting that thread.

StarDreamer Mon 04-Jul-22 14:21:01

I need a special diet, to avoid lumps, though I can have rice as it digests easily. I have Tilda plain Basmati and Tilda Lemon & Herbs Basmati, which is delicious.

Everything else is liquid or purée. I have a litre of Alpro no sugars soya drink each day, pure orange juice, Alpro chocolate and Alpro strawberry flavour drinks, I can have the Alpro lumpless soya desserts and I have one sometimes but I prefer the drinks.

The chocolate one is quite strong, so as it has a screw top, I often have half of a 250 millilitre minibox diluted with an equal volume of the Alpro no sugars soya drink. so I get two chocolate drinks a while apart for the same amount of sugar.

The Alpro no sugars drink has no sweeteners. Alas, most drinks advertised as no sugars have sweeteners and I won't consume sweeteners.

Alas, some of the branded drinks for medical problems have sweetener in the ingredients, I really don't understand why.

As topping for the rice I have sachets of early stage babyfood, I use five each day, spread over three meals. There is a wide variety that are all of vegan, no gluten, purée.

I devised the diet to keep me out of hospital and it has worked for three years thus far.

I wondered if I had got it right,so I asked my doctor for a referral to an NHS hospital dietician. The consultation was over the telephone and he took the details, then afterwards calculated it all and reported back to my doctor that it is fine.

I keep below 90 grammes of sugar each day.

Have you been advised about what else to eat and indeed what not to eat?

Do you avoid wheat and other gluten-containing grains? I do.

StarDreamer Mon 04-Jul-22 14:28:17

Just to clarify.

I wrote As topping for the rice I have sachets of early stage babyfood, I use five each day, spread over three meals. There is a wide variety that are all of vegan, no gluten, purée.

I need to add at the end,

Yet there are quite a lot of babyfood sachets that are not vegan or contain gluten or are for older babies and not so smooth, so I only have a carefully chosen subset of the sachets that are available.

MissAdventure Mon 04-Jul-22 14:42:19

I haven't really been able to get into any kind of routine with my meals, stardreamer.
I have to ask my neighbours to kindly fetch me in some milk, bread, cereal, (or big bowl of salad smile) and it very much limits what I eat.

Lack of finances also plays a part, as well as being well enough to put together a meal, and then to eat it.

I have hopes, now, of being able to get to a shop at some point, and choose and buy my own ingredients, so I can take charge of my intake.
I have read that I should avoid salt and sugar, both of which I am trying to do.

I really want to get to lidl and try one of their veg boxes, because i really do enjoy vegetables.

FannyCornforth Mon 04-Jul-22 14:51:34

MissA I think that Aldi do click and collect now, would that be of any help?

MissAdventure Mon 04-Jul-22 14:56:02

I hadn't thought of that, because of the "collect" part, but again, I might have the means, soon, to work out a taxi or something to collect?
My area also run a minibus shopping service, but up until now I haven't been eligible to join.
I'm not sure I could walk around a supermarket at the minute, but I could work on that as a goal.

StarDreamer Mon 04-Jul-22 15:03:27

I am not certain about salt.

The advice is not to exceed six grammes per day. I have a lot less than that, but what I am unsure about is that I think the body needs some sodium, of which salt is a source, but I don't know how much.

I did once see a television programme about cookery and a chef stated that salt is the key to flavour control.

I was aghast at this.

A lot of the instant stock cubes and the like are very high in salt, often, to my mind, a bit misleading as they tend to be labelled as so many grammes of salt per 100 mililitres when made up as directed.

That when made up as directed can be something like a direction to dissolve the cube in 500 millilitres of water.

So it seems those cubes have a lot of salt in them.

I have found it impossible to find cans or powders of soup that is all of vegan, no gluten, no lumps simultaneously.

So on a cold winter's day I made some with some heated water and a couple of sachets of Ella's Kitchen baby food. It was lovely.

StarDreamer Mon 04-Jul-22 15:12:44

MissAdventure

I hadn't thought of that, because of the "collect" part, but again, I might have the means, soon, to work out a taxi or something to collect?
My area also run a minibus shopping service, but up until now I haven't been eligible to join.
I'm not sure I could walk around a supermarket at the minute, but I could work on that as a goal.

I was thinking that if you are going to have click and collect you might as well have it delivered, though I suppose that if you are collecting that as you would be there you could refuse some item and then go into the store and choose something yourself, while still not having to have gone round the store getting most of it.

And please bear in mind that you will need to get the shopping home.

How are taxi drivers about helping? Is humping stuff for the customer regarded as part of the job or is it that some will do it and others take the line that they are a driver not a porter?

Would a taxi driver see you safely into your home or just want to drop you off at kerbside, or does it vary depending upon customer need and driver attitude?

MissAdventure Mon 04-Jul-22 15:28:16

I think it might vary depending on the driver.
A lot of them do know me, and have watched me getting more and more unwell, when I was working, so they might be sympathetic.
As you say, though, delivery might be the best option, for now.

Anyway, I don't want to spoil this thread with my ailments (I'm fed up with listening to myself about it all)

It is just worth considering people's circumstances, though, when judging what others do, I think. smile

FannyCornforth Mon 04-Jul-22 15:47:06

Just a final thing MissA.
If you do decide to get your groceries delivered - Morrisons are
the best.
Ocado are good too, but a bit more pricey.
(I am a the absolute doyenne of online grocery shopping ? - although I’m not entirely sure what doyenne means…)

MissAdventure Mon 04-Jul-22 15:50:54

I have used Morrisons from the Amazon app; mostly because it's big enough for me to see on my phone, mostly.
My eyes are getting better, though, so who knows where I might order from in future? smile
New phone, new fingers, new eyes = new woman! smile

StarDreamer Mon 04-Jul-22 15:53:03

As you are she Fanny then it will be something good.

LINK > Definition of the word doyenne

FannyCornforth Mon 04-Jul-22 15:54:34

Ah! Thank you! Yes, that’s me alright! smile

Marsha Mon 04-Jul-22 15:55:01

I have had excellent delivery service from Sainsburys.

FannyCornforth Mon 04-Jul-22 15:59:28

With Morrisons and Ocado you know when you order what is, and more importantly what isn’t, in stock.
It comes from a warehouse, not a store.
The use by dates are better too.
And it comes in bags.

MissAdventure Mon 04-Jul-22 16:10:03

I've found Iceland pretty good, and their minimum spend for delivery is less (I think)
£40 is too much for me to spend on a regular basis.

I usually wait until I need coffee, and things to bump up the spend.

StarDreamer Mon 04-Jul-22 16:12:07

FannyCornforth

With Morrisons and Ocado you know when you order what is, and more importantly what isn’t, in stock.
It comes from a warehouse, not a store.
The use by dates are better too.
And it comes in bags.

But I think that they insist on substitutions if something is out of stock and they choose the substitute.

I don't know if the customer is allowed to refuse the substitute.

Do they charge full price if the substitute is dearer than what you ordered?

MissAdventure Mon 04-Jul-22 16:18:32

I think all the places I have ordered from have multiple options regarding substitutions.
You can allow some , sllow them only on items you allow.
They don't charge any more than the price you would have paid.

FannyCornforth Mon 04-Jul-22 16:27:55

SD yes, you can refuse the substitute. Not that you often have them

Marsha Mon 04-Jul-22 21:20:11

With Sainsbury’s, if they have to substitute an item, you can choose not to accept it. If you accept it, but it costs more, they refund you the difference.

Casdon Mon 04-Jul-22 21:36:55

FannyCornforth

With Morrisons and Ocado you know when you order what is, and more importantly what isn’t, in stock.
It comes from a warehouse, not a store.
The use by dates are better too.
And it comes in bags.

If I order from Morrisons, it comes from my local branch, you see the pickers getting things for online orders when you’re doing your shopping in the store. It might be because I live in the sticks, I think the nearest warehouse is in Bristol, which is about 60 miles away. They are good on sell by dates though, I think the pickers know to get stuff from the back of the shelf.

Galaxy Mon 04-Jul-22 21:58:40

Hold on. How have I missed this. Morrisons deliver in bags? Yes yes I know I will go to hell but is this right?

Casdon Mon 04-Jul-22 22:00:13

Mine doesn’t, it comes in crates which you unpack and return.

Galaxy Mon 04-Jul-22 22:02:25

It's that Fanny getting me all excited grin

Callistemon21 Mon 04-Jul-22 22:20:14

Galaxy

Hold on. How have I missed this. Morrisons deliver in bags? Yes yes I know I will go to hell but is this right?

Not sure about Morrisons but Tesco (hush my mouth!) and Waitrose have the option to choose bags if you wish.

As we have to put our food waste into polythene bags now we choose the option occasionally so that they get re-used. The food waste is squeezed out at the processing plant and the polythene bags sent to make electricity.

Galaxy Mon 04-Jul-22 22:26:00

shock I have been using Tesco online for 2 years and have never seen that option since they stopped using bags.