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What would you say are your 3 best qualities? ( & 3 not so great )

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Kandinsky Mon 18-Jul-22 09:27:01

Me:
?: 1) Hard working
2) loyal
3) kind

?. 1) Tend to rake up past mistakes ( my own ) far too often
2) Not very patient
3) Not great with money.

How about you?

BigBertha1 Sat 23-Jul-22 22:31:29

Good
Organised
Good sense of humour
Good IQ

Bad
Tends to depression
Easily bored
Tetchy

Prentice Sat 23-Jul-22 20:47:09

LauraNorderr

Good
Always stand up for justice and fairness
Will fight tooth and nail for the underdog
Never been unkind
Bad
Always stand up for justice and fairness, gets me in to trouble because the unjust are usually great manipulators.
Fighting tooth and nail for the underdog gets me in to trouble because top dogs are very cunning
Never been unkind, gets me called holier than though by others who don't understand kindness

I think I choose exactly the same LauraNorder and it made me smile which is a bonus.

kittylester Sat 23-Jul-22 20:40:58

Good

Loyal
Approachable
Helpful

Bad

Can't say no
Talk to much
Impatient!

pandapatch Sat 23-Jul-22 20:34:47

Non-judgemental
Helpful grandparent
Kind

Worrier
Lack confidence
Lets housework slip

BlueBalou Sat 23-Jul-22 20:16:44

Punctual
Kind (too kind sometimes)
Generous

I don’t suffer fools gladly
Impetuous
Impatient

HeavenLeigh Sat 23-Jul-22 19:55:54

Good/ loyal punctual kind Bad/ untidy sometimes, can be lazy. Opinionated

Mamardoit Wed 20-Jul-22 21:50:03

Good
1. Honest/trustworthy
2. Will muck in and do jobs others won't ie. clean clubhouse toilets and organise the raffle.
3. I can accept that others who disagree with me can still be kind/reasonable people.

Bad
1. I don't iron and am fairly untidy.
2. I'm a Christian but I don't attend church very often now. I'm still the same but the C of E isn't.
3. I drink too much wine.

Greyduster Wed 20-Jul-22 21:40:10

Good:
Good listener
Caring
Approachable (apparently).

Bad:
Too lazy to speak my mind;
Impatient;
Can sometimes be judgemental.

Sarahmob Wed 20-Jul-22 21:08:45

Good

Punctual
Thoughtful
Kind

Impatient
Untidy (a bit)
Overthinker

Blondiescot Wed 20-Jul-22 20:15:25

Good:
Intellect
Will always stand up for what I believe in and argue my case
Self reliant

Bad:
Indecisive
Low self esteem
Anxiety and overthinking

Yammy Wed 20-Jul-22 20:07:36

Honest
Reliable
Caring about familyand friends
bad
Too quick to make a judgment
spend too much money
care too much what others think of me

Beautful Wed 20-Jul-22 20:01:37

Good

Honest
Caring
Generous

Bad

Never regret what I say , although in some cases should say things in a different way ... if you understand my meaning
Going out at the last minute, so have to run & rush
Untidy

DanniRae Tue 19-Jul-22 10:31:37

LauraNorderr ........ For you flowers

LauraNorderr Mon 18-Jul-22 23:22:34

Good
Always stand up for justice and fairness
Will fight tooth and nail for the underdog
Never been unkind
Bad
Always stand up for justice and fairness, gets me in to trouble because the unjust are usually great manipulators.
Fighting tooth and nail for the underdog gets me in to trouble because top dogs are very cunning
Never been unkind, gets me called holier than though by others who don't understand kindness

biglouis Mon 18-Jul-22 15:48:37

Hard working
Self reliant
Determined

Ruthless
Vengeful
Impatient

HowVeryDareYou Mon 18-Jul-22 15:05:16

Honesty
Caring
Generosity

Bear grudges
Impatience
I spend (waste) too much money

Antonia Mon 18-Jul-22 13:12:34

The good:

I'm kind (until someone upsets megrin)

I'm creative

I'm a good parent and granny

The not so good

I spend (waste) a lot of money

I'm intolerant of rude, entitled people (or maybe that should be on the 'good' list).

I'm a people pleaser.

Skydancer Mon 18-Jul-22 11:51:27

Good

reliable
honest
loyal

Bad

Overthinker
Bear grudges
Impatient

DanniRae Mon 18-Jul-22 11:49:02

Good

Caring
Generous
Funny

Bad

Easily discouraged
Anxious
Negative

(I asked Mr R my good points and he suggested Inquisitive (he admitted He really meant nosy) and Hygienic!! (well I definitely have higher hygiene standards than him)

Allsorts Mon 18-Jul-22 10:36:55

Better,
Caring
Loyal
Hard working

Bad
Overthink some things, can be over sensitive
Worrier
Soft touch

Redhead56 Mon 18-Jul-22 10:29:52

Good..

Caring
Loyal
Honest

Bad..
Outspoken
Impatient
Opinionated so I am told…

Juliet27 Mon 18-Jul-22 10:17:48

Good…

Punctual
Truthful
Reliable

Bad…
Untidy at home
Oversensitive
Nagging my H

Kate1949 Mon 18-Jul-22 10:07:53

Kind
Thoughtful
Understanding

Pessimistic
Worrier
Self-pitying

henetha Mon 18-Jul-22 09:57:23

Honest
Soft hearted
Reliable.

Indecisive
A bit untidy.
Sensitive

hulahoop Mon 18-Jul-22 09:54:27

Loyal
Kind
Good listener and keeping secrets.

Worrier
Pessimist
Procastinater