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Are we more 'enlightened' now?

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nanna8 Wed 20-Jul-22 06:46:36

I was researching my husband's family tree and came across a newspaper article from 1901 about 2 of his distant cousins who had been arrested for stealing small items. They were named and no doubt shamed. The issue I have is that they were only 10 and 12 years old and the items were worth practically nothing. What a horrible world it must have been to label young children forever. How nasty were the press in those days. Makes you feel happy we are just slightly more 'enlightened' now. In some ways.

M0nica Wed 20-Jul-22 20:28:30

Dickens I share your concerns.

M0nica Wed 20-Jul-22 20:33:27

It would not bother me to discover that I had an ancestor who was criminal or worse. That was them. I am me. I find all this coyness over the past and how it upsets modern sensibilities makes me feel quite queasy.

The past is the past, there is nothing you can do to affect it, anymore than any apology to those long dead is of any use to them. All it does is help people today feel better about themselves for no good reason.

Doodledog Wed 20-Jul-22 20:43:15

I wouldn't care either. If you mean my point about the child 'criminals' it's not about that - it's the thought that they are marked down for eternity as what they did then, which wasn't supposed to be the penalty. They served their time and should (IMO) be left alone. Who knows what they became when they grew up? It's just unfair.

I know they're dead, and that I'm being irrational, but it's how I feel grin.

Chestnut Thu 21-Jul-22 00:10:38

But seeing them marked as child criminals only highlights the failure of society to deal with the problem back then. It doesn't shame those children, who we realise were not actual criminals but victims of their time. Heartbreaking as it might be I think we need to see the full details to understand.

nanna8 Thu 21-Jul-22 06:48:40

Should they keep records that long,though? UK records are very full and you can find a lot , much to my delight as a researcher. But I think it probably isn't right as regards young people. Another thing is the 'lunatic asylum' records. I would have thought ,even then, they would be kept private- but they're often not. Ah well, I guess they aren't alive now so maybe it doesn't matter.

Chestnut Thu 21-Jul-22 09:37:34

Most records are opened after 100 years to protect the living. Found an elderly distant relative in a lunatic asylum 110 years ago along with hundreds of others. There was no information as to why any of them were there, but I want to see that record as it is part of his story. None of those people are personally known to anyone alive today and unless you are looking for an individual the other names are meaningless to you.

Doodledog Thu 21-Jul-22 10:32:58

How does it protect the living?

I don't mind the records being there. They should be, so that historians and sociologists can research trends and so on.

I am talking about photos like this. I've chosen one with numbers, rather than do what I'm complaining of others doing, but a lot have the name and date too. John Smith, petty larceny, 1893' that sort of thing, with distinguishing features and comments under the photo on the rap sheet - 'height 5'3, DOB 1884, scar on left cheek, theft of a handkerchief, 6 months hard labour'.

It is conceivable that some of the more recent ones have relatives who remember them - a photo from the 1920s could easily be of someone who has living grandchildren, for instance. Is it right that the penalty for petty theft should include having one's grandchildren see photos like that posted on social media 100 years after the event?

Fair enough to keep them on record - to do otherwise would be censorship - but my point is that the rather prurient sharing of them on social media, with 'Look at her - she was probably starving, poor child' comments to show the compassion of the poster is unpleasant. I realise that this may be a minority view, though.

Doodledog Thu 21-Jul-22 10:37:54

I got the dates wrong there - I meant that someone could have committed a crime in the 20s, be alive and have living grandchildren. It's a long shot, but it's possible, and if the photos had been posted ten years ago it's quite likely. My MIL was born in 1925 and her children are in their 60s now, with grandchildren and GGC too. She would want me to point out for avoidance of doubt that she never had the police to her door, though grin.

Callistemon21 Thu 21-Jul-22 11:08:32

with 'Look at her - she was probably starving, poor child'

Which is exactly what I said upthread about my 3xGGrandfather! Although he was a grown man with a family.
The social injustice of it made me very cross when I found out.

Someone in our family died only recently, he was well over 100. However, I can't imagine him ever doing bad thing in his life ?

Chestnut Thu 21-Jul-22 11:45:53

The 100 year rule is so that information about living people is not available. That applies to census returns and also records of hospitals, asylums and I assume criminal records. No-one except their descendants would know who any of these people are, even with their names included. I would imagine those descendants who are researching would want to know these details. Other descendants will have no interest whatsoever and will not even know of their existence, and many of these people will not even have descendants.

Oldnproud Thu 21-Jul-22 12:10:08

I agree 100% with Chestnut's last post on this.

Doodledog Thu 21-Jul-22 12:17:52

Callistemon21

^with 'Look at her - she was probably starving, poor child'^

Which is exactly what I said upthread about my 3xGGrandfather! Although he was a grown man with a family.
The social injustice of it made me very cross when I found out.

Someone in our family died only recently, he was well over 100. However, I can't imagine him ever doing bad thing in his life ?

I'll try once more to explain what is probably a confused point of view, as it's more of an emotional reaction, and I don't want to drag it out or expect anyone to agree, or to really understand what I'm getting at unless they have seen the same local history groups in action.

The 'look at her, she was probably starving' comments are similar to the ones the same people make when posting street scenes with barefoot children - 'oh, those poor things - I bet they went hungry - they must have wished they had never been born' and so on. There is no recognition that they are real people who are being defined in terms of one aspect of their lives on the day of the photo (no shoes/stealing sweets) and judged on that basis in a simplistic sort of way that makes the posters feel superior. It's poverty porn.

Lots of people had no shoes, but they laughed and cried just as we do. They fell in love, they argued with neighbours, they had children and grandchildren. Their lives were about far more than the fact that they had no shoes as children, but none of that matters in the comments. Some will have had shoes, but they were stiff and uncomfortable, so saved them for Sundays and played out barefoot. Also, it's only because people can buy cheap shoes made abroad by people (including children) on poverty wages that we don't see barefoot children nowadays.

All that's happened is that we've exported the problems, yet people still enjoy posting their faux sympathy for the lives of poor children, or the draconian sentences, without recognition that while deprivation and inequality may manifest differently nowadays, and we don't see barefoot children or imprison them for minor offences, it is very much still there, and it is clear from other comments in the groups that many of the people clutching their pearls over the Victorians vote for regimes that foreground 'self reliance' and 'law and order' today.

growstuff Thu 21-Jul-22 12:19:28

Records of crimes are available in historic newspapers. As far as I know, no 100 year rule applies.

I found out from www.britishnewspaperarchive.co.uk/ that my father was fined for speeding two years before I was born.

Blondiescot Thu 21-Jul-22 12:32:04

One of the cornerstones of justice in this country has always been that justice should not only be done, but be seen to be done - and that meant not only did those crimes become a matter of public record, but were very often reported in the local press. I should know, it was my job for more than 30 years and if I had £1 for every time someone had asked me to keep their name out of the paper, I could have retired a long time ago!

Doodledog Thu 21-Jul-22 12:41:00

Does that apply to children, though? There is a reason why young people 'can't be named for legal reasons'. Admittedly the ones in my photo above won't have their lives ruined by having their pictures on social media today, but it's the same principle - they are young, and young people do stupid things sometimes and then see the error of their ways.

Chestnut Thu 21-Jul-22 14:11:07

Doodledog I don't understand why you think people are showing 'faux sympathy' for these poor souls. We know they were real people who had real lives. What do you expect people to do other than express their sympathy? It's up to each individual as to whether they actually feel the sympathy or just mouth about it. We should be able to see images and stories from the past and then people can make up their own minds what they take from them.

Callistemon21 Thu 21-Jul-22 14:28:18

Is it faux sympathy or is it empathy?
Some of us have more empathy than others.

pinkquartz Thu 21-Jul-22 14:43:54

I think prefer to think of the children who stole bread to feed
their siblings and themselves as survivors.

Much better than just passively starving to death

Doodledog Thu 21-Jul-22 15:35:53

I know what you mean, but honestly - you'd need to see the comments to know what I mean. I'm going to leave it there, as I can't put it any differently, and I know I'm not making much sense.

Callistemon21 Thu 21-Jul-22 16:47:04

I think I'd rather not see them.
Rather like those people who know you've been ill, put their head on one side and say "and how are you?" in a sickly, faux-sympathetic voice?

Chestnut Thu 21-Jul-22 17:00:01

Doodledog Fair enough to keep them on record - to do otherwise would be censorship - but my point is that the rather prurient sharing of them on social media, with 'Look at her - she was probably starving, poor child' comments to show the compassion of the poster is unpleasant.
I think I'm getting your point (at last) which is not the records themselves but the sharing of them on social media. Sorry if I didn't get that before, I was more hung up about the availability of these records for researchers. I definitely do NOT like them being shared on social media for people to ogle like a freak sideshow. I think you should complain to the website that this is disrespectful to the people and should be removed. I'm afraid this is the downside of digital records being available on the internet. Some people have no respect and just share without thought.

Doodledog Thu 21-Jul-22 19:51:44

Thanks - yes, that’s exactly it ?

M0nica Thu 21-Jul-22 23:11:25

Driving down a major dual carriageway this evening looking at the rows of lorries parked in laybys overnight, with lorry drivers having to sleep in their cabs dealing with the noise and vibration caused by passing goods traffic, it struck me that conditions for lorry drivers have got far worse in these 'enlightened' times.

Once the few lorry drivers whose work took them away from a home a couple of nights a week, parked their lorries and stayed in cheap boarding houses, that may well have had their deficiencies but provided proper beds, meals and baths and showers, room to stretch and some peace and quiet.

Nw lorry drivers can end up sleeping in their cabs 5 nights a week, or for international deliveries weeks at a time, limited washing facilities or toilet facilities, limited cooking facilities.

In the past lorry drivers got small subsistenc allowances to cover their accommodation costs. Now, nothing.

I think people are being very selective about 'enlightenment'

M0nica Fri 22-Jul-22 08:49:19

In fact we are going backwards. The days when dock labour was day work and dockers jostled at the dock gates to get chosen for a days work and a days pay ended in the 1930s.

My FiL worked on the assembly line at Vauxhall, seasonal work from September to March, then dependent on casual labour over the summer. I can remember the constant industrial action in the 1950s and 1960s, for the Guaranteed Week' and steady year round employment.

Now we have the Gig Economy and Zero Hours Contracts and millions of workers are once again effectively day labourers.

nanna8 Fri 22-Jul-22 09:01:47

Child labour next. I suspect there is a lot of it around even in so called enlightened countries but it is secretive and hidden and not socially accepted.