Callistemon21
^with 'Look at her - she was probably starving, poor child'^
Which is exactly what I said upthread about my 3xGGrandfather! Although he was a grown man with a family.
The social injustice of it made me very cross when I found out.
Someone in our family died only recently, he was well over 100. However, I can't imagine him ever doing bad thing in his life ?
I'll try once more to explain what is probably a confused point of view, as it's more of an emotional reaction, and I don't want to drag it out or expect anyone to agree, or to really understand what I'm getting at unless they have seen the same local history groups in action.
The 'look at her, she was probably starving' comments are similar to the ones the same people make when posting street scenes with barefoot children - 'oh, those poor things - I bet they went hungry - they must have wished they had never been born' and so on. There is no recognition that they are real people who are being defined in terms of one aspect of their lives on the day of the photo (no shoes/stealing sweets) and judged on that basis in a simplistic sort of way that makes the posters feel superior. It's poverty porn.
Lots of people had no shoes, but they laughed and cried just as we do. They fell in love, they argued with neighbours, they had children and grandchildren. Their lives were about far more than the fact that they had no shoes as children, but none of that matters in the comments. Some will have had shoes, but they were stiff and uncomfortable, so saved them for Sundays and played out barefoot. Also, it's only because people can buy cheap shoes made abroad by people (including children) on poverty wages that we don't see barefoot children nowadays.
All that's happened is that we've exported the problems, yet people still enjoy posting their faux sympathy for the lives of poor children, or the draconian sentences, without recognition that while deprivation and inequality may manifest differently nowadays, and we don't see barefoot children or imprison them for minor offences, it is very much still there, and it is clear from other comments in the groups that many of the people clutching their pearls over the Victorians vote for regimes that foreground 'self reliance' and 'law and order' today.